Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Treasa, I'm sorry you are having a rough time. You have every right to be upset, though, and at least dh was able to be there to comfort you. I think it is really sad that this dr won't see you. Not even to answer questions for you. I know that you don't think money will help, but hopefully you'll at least get answers and he'll finally have to pay for the wrong that he did you,and maybe others who have not spoken up. About AF. I think maybe you should get a test done at the dr. I know you don't think you are pg, but I still think it would be a good idea. You know, just to be on the safe side. At least consider it, okay? Take care sweetie. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Treasa, We just read your post. It must be very hard for you. We understand about the void in your life. Can you not request for your medical records from you doctor? Those are yours and if not mistaken you have a right to have them. I would be very upset if I couldn't get answers to my questions. I think you have a right to know and if it takes an attorney to get them, then let it be. You need this as a healing tool. We all have had questions. What questions can be answered are helpful. We are thinking of you. Please take care and big hugs to you!!! Dana and Nora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Treasa, I truly feel for your situation because I was kinda in the same when I had my ep. Everyone wanted me to sue the doctor (especially my mother). We never did (chickened out) It is a decision you have to make but I would be very angry with that doctor for not even talking to you. After my ep, we wanted my medical records from that doctor and they were giving us a hard time about it. We threatened to sue then and said that we would come to the office and tell everyone how I was and am being treated by this doctor. That sure put the ball rolling and my records were ready the next hour and waiting outside for me in their mailbox so that I didn't have to go inside and they didn't have to see me. Let me know what you decide. Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Hi all, I know I keep repeating myself but no AF again today.I know why I am so moody.I didn't want to say anything yesterday b/c it was hard for me to deal with but dh and I lost our baby 1 year ago April 6th, I didn't even say anything to dh until this morning and he said he knew but didn't know what to say to me yesterday. We hardly talked at all. I went to bed at 12am and he promissed that he would be right up after he had everything ready for kids to be in the morning but he never came to bed I woke up in a panick at 3:30am. relized he wasn't in bed and went down stairs to find him stitting in the dark. I cried and he held me. I am sad and I feel as though I have a big hole in my life that nothing can fill. Dh relizes this and says that he doesn't know what to say.He feels it would be wronge matter what he says.Now I feel bad that I didn't say anything to him about our little angel ( ) we don't know what she was but both feel she was a girl.She was due Christmas Eve.99. DH and I desided to go on vacation to his mothers house at that time to kinda take our minds off of things. (BAD MOVE). OK now what I wrote to tell you all.... I called the doctor who did my ep surgery to make a apt. to talk (ONLY) to him. They made the apt for April 20th and asked my name I told them and she asked me to hold on. When she came back she said that I could no longer be seen by their office and had no explanation!!!!!! I started to tell her that I wanted to talk to him about my surgery and she just said NO!!! So I got mad and called a attorney. He is interested in what I have to say and wants me to see him on Monday. I didn't want this to come down to this. I don't want money I want answers!! ALL OF THEM. DH thinks it would help if I could ask him everything I need to also but now he is refussing to see me. So now what? Attorney or another phone call or would that make things worse. Money can't bring back 21 days of hell or my right F. tube. Well I have gone on enough have a great day, Treasa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Jo-Ann I am not sure I think its ecause I changed doctors on him !!! But I think he would have killed me sooner or later. well ok not killed me but he did mess up 2 times already. Dh and I are going to go to the attoreny Monday and see what he can do. This is just burning in my head today. I don't want to drive b/c if I see him I might run him off the road ( we live in a very small town) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2000 Report Share Posted April 7, 2000 Treasa, What the heck is that all about? I'm glad you contacted a lawyer. That is so strange. Why won't he see you? I wouldn't stop until you got your answer to that question. Big hug, Jo-Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 Trease, I'm not sure if I missed something but why won't your docotr see you? Do you have any ideas what is going on? Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 Sharon, why won't your docotr see you? Do you > have any ideas what is going on? The doctor let me go with a clasic ep for 19 days. I told him every sign and all were signs of a ep( I didn't know it then) He messed up in a few more ways and I changed doctors after I found out what he had done. I think he is just being a JERK!!! but who knows maybe I am just hateful to him . Dh and I are seeing that attorney on Monday. We desided that I would be the last one he lets go 19 days and then treats like it was my fault. Have a great day, Treasa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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