Guest guest Posted March 23, 2000 Report Share Posted March 23, 2000 Hi Jo-Ann, Thank you for your empathy. Your good thoughts and prayers are so appreciated! I'm still struggling on how to deal with the emotional effects of my recent ectopic. I really don't want to be isolated but sometimes i see myself distancing from others because it's a difficult subject to talk about. Thank you again for your kindness. It's a comfort to know you are out there. Re: hello to everyone > , > > I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that you will find comfort here with > us. We can completely understand what you are going through. I > remember people saying things to me after my loss that made me want to > scream. Just try to keep in mind they are trying to help, but don't > know what to say either. I know how much their words can hurt. > > We are here for you no matter what. You are in my thoughts and > prayers. Let us know what the ultrasound shows. > > Big hugs, > Jo-Ann > > Handojo wrote: > > > > Hello, everybody. I am comforted to know that you are out there.....it helps > > me to feel that i really am not alone. > > > > My name is and I am 27 years old. My husband and i were so excited to > > have a baby. I was full of joy when i found out i was pregnant Dec/1999. I > > started spotting and then bleeding a little. The nurse did an ultrasound and > > found that the baby had no heartbeat and she didn't see much. I was > > devastated because i was told it looked like a miscarriage but my HCG level > > was monitored to be sure that it was a miscarriage. > > > > It turned out that weeks after that.....my HCG kept going up and i was > > hoping it would be okay.....the next few ultrasounds were painful and the OB > > diagnosed it to be ectopic. I was devastated. I was treated with > > methothextrate to save my tube. I went through so much physical and > > emotional pain. I had strange and painful symptoms. The drug seemed to have > > aborted the pregnancy but the remains were still in me. I have to go back to > > do an ultrasoudn next Thurs to see if the remains have absorbed. If not, i > > may have to go into surgery. > > > > I have grieved and i still grieve for my loss. I had already imagined what > > my baby would have looked like or be. I am able to see the blessings as > > welll........the situation forced my family to get close and > > intimate......but at the same time, i find it hard to find others who > > validate my loss.. I get a lot of well-intentioned people saying i'm still > > young. But, it still does not help me grieve. Instead, i feel isolated and > > alone. > > > > I know that i won't stop trying for a baby because i really want to be a > > mother, but i have so many fears that i've never had before. > > > > I would appreciate any input that any of you can give me about your own > > experiences. > > > > Thank you for listening! > > > > P.S. By chance, is anyone in the group living in the San Diego area? if so, > > would you be interested in meeting for coffee? > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > > > > eGroups.com Home: /group/ectopicpregnancy > > www. - Simplifying group communications > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > GET A NEXTCARD VISA, in 30 seconds! Get rates > as low as 0.0% Intro APR and no hidden fees. > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/975/2/_/26068/_/953839415/ > > -- Talk to your group with your own voice! > -- /VoiceChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2000 Report Share Posted April 5, 2000 Hi, Congratulations !!!!!! I am so happy for you. Give yourself a pat on the back. You have done it. Guess thats what a little persistance will do. OK you could say your DH helped too lol. I was wondering if you could send me your book again I have a new computer and dh has already reformatted my old one now I can't finish what I was reading!!!! I was wonder if you ever recieved a copy of the book I started. I thought I sent it but with the way our e-mail was working I am not sure. Well house the keeper should be here in a few minutes so I am going to go do sme Pre- cleaning go figure. Hugs and Kisses to you and the little one, Treasa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2000 Report Share Posted April 5, 2000 Treasa, What chapter did you leave off at? Let me know and I sent you it again. You make me laugh. I did the same thing when the cleaning ladies were coming. No I didn't get any book from you, I would interested to read it. Send it again please. Big hugs, Jo-Ann " DAWSON,TREASA " wrote: > > Hi, > Congratulations !!!!!! I am so happy for you. Give yourself a pat on the > back. You have done it. Guess thats what a little persistance will do. OK > you could say your DH helped too lol. > > I was wondering if you could send me your book again I have a new computer > and dh has already reformatted my old one now I can't finish what I was > reading!!!! > I was wonder if you ever recieved a copy of the book I started. I thought I > sent it but with the way our e-mail was working I am not sure. > Well house the keeper should be here in a few minutes so I am going to go do > sme Pre- cleaning go figure. > > Hugs and Kisses to you and the little one, > Treasa > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > 1. Fill in the brief application > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/954943671/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2000 Report Share Posted April 5, 2000 JoAnn, Hey I need chapters 40 plus. Please!!!!!!!!! You girls crack me up with your cleaning lady talk. Not again! Kim Re: Jo-Ann > Treasa, > > What chapter did you leave off at? Let me know and I sent you it again. > You make me laugh. I did the same thing when the cleaning ladies were > coming. > > No I didn't get any book from you, I would interested to read it. Send > it again please. > > Big hugs, > Jo-Ann > > " DAWSON,TREASA " wrote: > > > > Hi, > > Congratulations !!!!!! I am so happy for you. Give yourself a pat on the > > back. You have done it. Guess thats what a little persistance will do. OK > > you could say your DH helped too lol. > > > > I was wondering if you could send me your book again I have a new computer > > and dh has already reformatted my old one now I can't finish what I was > > reading!!!! > > I was wonder if you ever recieved a copy of the book I started. I thought I > > sent it but with the way our e-mail was working I am not sure. > > Well house the keeper should be here in a few minutes so I am going to go do > > sme Pre- cleaning go figure. > > > > Hugs and Kisses to you and the little one, > > Treasa > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! > > 1. Fill in the brief application > > 2. Receive approval decision within 30 seconds > > 3. Get rates as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR > > Apply NOW! > > http://click./1/2646/2/_/26068/_/954943671/ > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > LOW RATE, NO WAIT! > Get a NextCard Visa, in 30 seconds! Get rates > as low as 2.9% Intro or 9.9% Fixed APR and no hidden fees. > Apply NOW! > http://click./1/2122/2/_/26068/_/954950195/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2000 Report Share Posted May 3, 2000 Jo-Ann: If you are going to add your event to the calendar yourself instead of sending it to me and letting me do it for the events reminders for the week, you might want to go back and edit the entry and add your email address so others can send you greetings for the event. I also usually only send a reminder one day before the event for anniversaries and things. I also usually add the year the event happened, so others will know what anniversary is being celebrated. Since you added your anniversary yourself, I am not allowed to edit it to add the usual information I include in an event reminder. Adding it yourself is not a problem, but I just wanted you to know that I usually include a few other details you might want to add in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2000 Report Share Posted May 3, 2000 , I didn't know what I was doing in there, any help would be appreciated. I obviously missed a few important points. LOL - Can't blame a girl for trying. This is my 10th anniversary and my email address is lovebug22498@.... If I missed anything let me know. Hugs, Jo-Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 4, 2000 Report Share Posted May 4, 2000 Jo-Ann, I wish you and Wally a very happy anniversary today!!! Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 5, 2000 Report Share Posted May 5, 2000 Krista, Hey sweetie, I'm here. I was laying down earlier when you sent me the IM. I'll be around all night. Wally is working. We are going out to celebrate our anniversary tomorrow night. Love, Jo-Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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