Re: new poll... about ttc.see what you all think

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Sonja,

The last time I was pg (my second ep), I took the test while was at

work. I had to go pick him up, and I handed him an envelope with a card I

made and the test. I was so sure it was going to be ok, we were happy.

Ecstatic. We even told a few friends when we said we wouldn't bc we were so

sure that it would work out. Unfortunately it didn't. Now I can't use that

way to tell him. It's sacred. It is special to us with the second angel

baby. Now, he just waits with me while the timer goes during the hpt. In

fact, he demands to be in the room with me when I pee on the stick. Guess he

doesn't want to miss any of it. So I guess that will probably be how he

finds out.

Amy

[Guest guest]

Nora,

maby we can start with a really loooooow roof, like maby a garden shed?

LOL.

take care

sonja

new poll... about ttc.see what you all

think

>

>

>>hiya all,

>>I was just wondering.... there are so many of us currently ttc.,and

>some

>>already pg. again... and this always interests me.

>>

>>For those of you ttc. have you thought of how you will tell your

>partner

>>your'e pg. when it happens? will you have him take the test with you?

>>will you write him a note, give him a card, slip a 'dummy' into his

>>drink? If he is at work when you test, will you phone him with the

>news,

>>wait for him to get home, make up an excuse for him to come home

>>early?Will you tell your respective families right away, or wait a

>>while?How will you tell them?Will you give them a congrats card, and

>>wait for the reaction? Will you show them a sonar pic,and see if they

>>can figure it out? Will you hand them the test stick,and see if they

>>know what it is?

>>

>>Those of you now pg. how did you tell your partner? How did he react

to

>>the news? instantly extatic? nervous, withdrawn, anxious, quietly

>>content? Did you tell your parents right away, or wait a few weeks

>>before sharing the news... if you did wait, what was their reaction to

>>not being told right away? Were they happy anyways, upset coz you

>didn't

>>share sooner, didn't care either way?

>>

>>Lets see what we come up with on this one.... I am always thinking

>of

>>ways to tell the dh. the news when it happens...

>>take care all.

>>sonja

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[Guest guest]

I hear ya on the loss of innocence and fear factor with subsequent

pregnancies.

When I got pregnant the second time after our first loss, it was a

different experience than finding out I was pregnant the first time. I

wondered if I'd miscarry again and had some fear. But I figured one

miscarriage, esp. if its early is hard, but common, so what are my chances

of this happening again? Bad question....a few days later I had another

miscarriage. When I got pregnant for the third time in December, the fear

rang in my head and heart even louder than on the second pregnancy. What

if this and what if that ran through my head. I, at first, even found it

hard to fall in love with the baby for fear I'd lose it. I did let myself

fall in love though, deciding that if I did lose it that I'd at least want

to have had those few precious weeks of being pregnant and connecting with

my baby. Then my pregnancy was ectopic. When I get pregnant with my

fourth baby, I'm assuming that the fear factor will be there; how cuold it

not? Definitely, the sweet innocence is gone.

***************************

& Jani

mailto:newmoon@...

moms to Rowan, born 6/26/98 (20 months old)

three spirit babies:

Cassidy, m/c 8/99, was due April 20, 2000

Mandy, m/c 10/99, was due June 15, 2000

Keegan, ectopic pregnancy, 1/00, was due Sept. 9, 2000

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/14/00 10:36:02 AM Central Standard Time,

@... writes:

<< God gave us the technology and I intend to USE it! LOL >>

I couldn't have said that better myself!!!!!!!! Even though I have a

daughter, I never experienced the " joy " of labor. I had a c-section two

months early so I guess that doesn't count. If I ever get pg and do a

" normal " delivery, believe me, I want as many drugs as they can safely give

me! That time should be a joy, not full of pain! DRUGS! DRUGS! DRUGS!

L

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In a message dated 3/14/00 10:37:00 AM Central Standard Time,

ride7108@... writes:

<< I am trying to give swearing for Lent. It's no going too well. >>

Tara, we have to be related!!!!! This is also what I'm trying to give up! I

have failed miserably today but am still working on it! You crack me up!

L

(can I stop using the L since I'm the only posting? Lemme know)

[Guest guest]

Tara,

We only turned on the video camera after the baby was out and everything

was ok, I didn't want any beav shots on camera for anyone to see!!! But

we got some cute video of him being weighed and suctioned! I am making

an awful face in part of it, but I was being stitched up at the time,

next time I'll tell DH to keep the camera on the baby unless he warns me

1st! Here's hoping there will be lots of happy videos to come!

Vicki

Tara Correia wrote:

>

> ,

>

> Rico just got a new camera in preparation of the baby's arrival. (Just a

> convenient excuse to buy a new toy:)) He wants to do the same thing with

> our family, esp. the kids. I draw the line at videoing the birth. He

> thinks we should do one for us and an edited version for friends and

> family. I'm not going for it!

>

> Tara

>

> Re: new poll... about ttc.see what you all

> think

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> Tara:

>

> We feel the same way about the delivery room news I want my dh to go

> out to the family with the video camera and catch their faces when he tells

> them too

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Vicki,

LMAO - you have a way with words.

Tara

Re: new poll... about ttc.see what you all

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> Tara:

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> We feel the same way about the delivery room news I want my dh to go

> out to the family with the video camera and catch their faces when he tells

> them too

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