Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Sure....if you look thru the messages,,,,,,,there is a message here recently about just that......maybe someone still has the site...... From what Ive noticed.....everything has been talked about... -- Re: All in Different ways Thank you. This is very nice indeed. I am wondering, are we allowed to talk abouit the D word? Death, dead? Can we discuss that here in terms of statistics, the odds for each of us etc? Patty All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Sure....if you look thru the messages,,,,,,,there is a message here recently about just that......maybe someone still has the site...... From what Ive noticed.....everything has been talked about... -- Re: All in Different ways Thank you. This is very nice indeed. I am wondering, are we allowed to talk abouit the D word? Death, dead? Can we discuss that here in terms of statistics, the odds for each of us etc? Patty All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Patty, We discuss our "odds" of survival on occasion. If it bothers someone they can just go on to the next post. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Patty, We discuss our "odds" of survival on occasion. If it bothers someone they can just go on to the next post. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Patty, We discuss our "odds" of survival on occasion. If it bothers someone they can just go on to the next post. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Thanks I saw the surgeon on Mon and I am defintly stage 3 and possibly stage 4. We wont know until further testing. It just seems, from what I have read that there is a huge difference in how many survive between stage 3 and stage 4. Is that correct? Patty All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Thanks I saw the surgeon on Mon and I am defintly stage 3 and possibly stage 4. We wont know until further testing. It just seems, from what I have read that there is a huge difference in how many survive between stage 3 and stage 4. Is that correct? Patty All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Thanks I saw the surgeon on Mon and I am defintly stage 3 and possibly stage 4. We wont know until further testing. It just seems, from what I have read that there is a huge difference in how many survive between stage 3 and stage 4. Is that correct? Patty All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty, Everyone is different. We have ladies that are Stage IV that have no evidence of any cancer showing right now. You will be in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty, Everyone is different. We have ladies that are Stage IV that have no evidence of any cancer showing right now. You will be in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty, Everyone is different. We have ladies that are Stage IV that have no evidence of any cancer showing right now. You will be in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com All in Different ways We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. Author Umknown .... My Poetry Honored at http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ Visit MY TUPPERWARE http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain In GOD We Trust If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet Nortons say I'm BUG FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 YES we are sisters sisters in pink think pink baby, oh yeah! Lustmpcrzy@... wrote: Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 YES we are sisters sisters in pink think pink baby, oh yeah! Lustmpcrzy@... wrote: Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 YES we are sisters sisters in pink think pink baby, oh yeah! Lustmpcrzy@... wrote: Patti you can talk about anything you want, that is what this board is all about. You can vent, cry be happy what ever, we will support you all the way. Jeana __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty It's OK with me. Janie > Thank you. This is very nice indeed. I am wondering, are we allowed to talk abouit the D word? Death, dead? Can we discuss that here in terms of statistics, the odds for each of us etc? > Patty > All in Different ways > > > We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. > Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. > Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. > Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? > All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. > There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. > Author Umknown > > ... > > > > My Poetry Honored at > http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ > > Visit MY TUPPERWARE > http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain > > In GOD We Trust > If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. > " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... > But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " > > > Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet > > > Nortons say I'm > BUG FREE > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty It's OK with me. Janie > Thank you. This is very nice indeed. I am wondering, are we allowed to talk abouit the D word? Death, dead? Can we discuss that here in terms of statistics, the odds for each of us etc? > Patty > All in Different ways > > > We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. > Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. > Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. > Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? > All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. > There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. > Author Umknown > > ... > > > > My Poetry Honored at > http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ > > Visit MY TUPPERWARE > http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain > > In GOD We Trust > If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. > " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... > But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " > > > Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet > > > Nortons say I'm > BUG FREE > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 7, 2004 Report Share Posted October 7, 2004 Patty It's OK with me. Janie > Thank you. This is very nice indeed. I am wondering, are we allowed to talk abouit the D word? Death, dead? Can we discuss that here in terms of statistics, the odds for each of us etc? > Patty > All in Different ways > > > We all show fear in different ways......some cry and retreat...some are stoic and never say anything. Some show fear in a different way......like being silly or trying to be funny. Some just retreat from the human race. > Alone and still fearful and some are whiners, never letting up. > Does this make that person less fearful? I think not. Never the less, it is still fear of something. > Should we as people think this person is NOT afraid, and treat them differently? Perhaps shun them because they are not meeting our sense of fear? Perhaps thinking our fear is greater? > All of us are in the same boat, regardless of our fear or how big we think our fear is. > There but for the Grace of GOD, go I. > Author Umknown > > ... > > > > My Poetry Honored at > http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/ > > Visit MY TUPPERWARE > http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain > > In GOD We Trust > If you Live in my heart....you live rent free. > " We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person... > But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY " > > > Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet > > > Nortons say I'm > BUG FREE > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2004 Report Share Posted October 8, 2004 Let God help you with this Patty. His percentages are a lot better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2004 Report Share Posted October 8, 2004 Let God help you with this Patty. His percentages are a lot better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2004 Report Share Posted October 8, 2004 Let God help you with this Patty. His percentages are a lot better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2004 Report Share Posted October 8, 2004 Patty: You can't concentrate so much on dying instead concentrate on winning this fight. I have stage IV breast cancer which has spread to my bones and I am only 37 yrs. old. I was a minister before becoming so ill that I just couldn't keep up with my responsibilities. Yes, if I am honest it is very scaring thinking about dying but I rather think about living and fighting this terrible monster and one day I hope they will be able to find a cure for Breast Cancer so no one younger or older than I will ever have to fight this terrible monster again, whether it will happen before I or anyone else here in this group dies we do not know but I pray so. Looking at numbers is all right but I think of nne and many others in this group that have lived for many years. Before anyone says anything yes I understand that some of these ladies don't have stage IV but some do and they made it for MANY years I strongly feel it is the mind set you have if you are positive you will go many years if you are negative all the time you may not live as long. I would encourage you to do a couple things (ok this is the Minster part of me coming out I am sorry if I offend anyone) keep close to God or whatever you believe in. Secondly, keep a positive attitude and you will be just fine. Lastly, find a good friend you can talk to about your fears who you can share your tears and laugher with and do that find someone you trust. And talk here we don't know all the answers even though we are going through the same feeling and fears but as a group of friends and I believe a family we can uplift each other and help each other through the down times as well as the up times. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Hugs, Ronda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2004 Report Share Posted October 8, 2004 Patty: You can't concentrate so much on dying instead concentrate on winning this fight. I have stage IV breast cancer which has spread to my bones and I am only 37 yrs. old. I was a minister before becoming so ill that I just couldn't keep up with my responsibilities. Yes, if I am honest it is very scaring thinking about dying but I rather think about living and fighting this terrible monster and one day I hope they will be able to find a cure for Breast Cancer so no one younger or older than I will ever have to fight this terrible monster again, whether it will happen before I or anyone else here in this group dies we do not know but I pray so. Looking at numbers is all right but I think of nne and many others in this group that have lived for many years. Before anyone says anything yes I understand that some of these ladies don't have stage IV but some do and they made it for MANY years I strongly feel it is the mind set you have if you are positive you will go many years if you are negative all the time you may not live as long. I would encourage you to do a couple things (ok this is the Minster part of me coming out I am sorry if I offend anyone) keep close to God or whatever you believe in. Secondly, keep a positive attitude and you will be just fine. Lastly, find a good friend you can talk to about your fears who you can share your tears and laugher with and do that find someone you trust. And talk here we don't know all the answers even though we are going through the same feeling and fears but as a group of friends and I believe a family we can uplift each other and help each other through the down times as well as the up times. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Hugs, Ronda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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