questions (personal) you know....life

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if you miss a friend, and you tell that friend "I miss you", and the friend says "mhhh.. I love you but I don't miss you", how could you feel?

if you daily e-m to that friend, and you got complains from that friend that your e-m are too many and too long (2 or 3 a day---she is the one that told me that nobody e-m to her, and now she seems to get so many ems!)), and you are asked to write just one a day, how could you feel?

if you are the only one calling, the friend never does, mailing cards, the friend never does, sharing life, the friend never does, how could you feel?

if you say 'I'm glad to hear you are ok", and the friend answer back "why you are asking? did you think I wasn't ? ", how could you feel?

I'm going to visit this friend next week end, and sleep over, she invited me, but I'm not sure I wanna do it. I am very emotional involved, but she is not, not at my level. I respect taht, but it is right for me to keep going?

If I try to fade, gently, to save myself, this friend look for me, e-m me.

I confess I'm tempted to close this relationship, because I'm not getting what I want, but being hurted very often.

But she is talking about co-dependency, idolatry, barriers, and about this inner self that has been hurted, and now she try to protect.

Gosh I have no barriers. For my friends, I'm an open book.

I don't know if it will be healthy for me to go visit her for the week end. She is not giving me back what I want... and when confronted, she is pointing me the fact that I have expectations, and that is bad. We should put our expectations in the Lord,and in the Lord only.

Why I am so attached to her, I don't know.

I don't know if I'll go next week.

I don't know what to do.

Oh......I wish you were here girls. I feel so good with all of you.

Lucilla

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Lucilla,

My suggestion would be to follow your heart. If you don't feel like it is right then I would not go. You are giving an awful lot and not get anything back in return. You are in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

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Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

questions (personal) you know....life

if you miss a friend, and you tell that friend "I miss you", and the friend says "mhhh.. I love you but I don't miss you", how could you feel?

if you daily e-m to that friend, and you got complains from that friend that your e-m are too many and too long (2 or 3 a day---she is the one that told me that nobody e-m to her, and now she seems to get so many ems!)), and you are asked to write just one a day, how could you feel?

if you are the only one calling, the friend never does, mailing cards, the friend never does, sharing life, the friend never does, how could you feel?

if you say 'I'm glad to hear you are ok", and the friend answer back "why you are asking? did you think I wasn't ? ", how could you feel?

I'm going to visit this friend next week end, and sleep over, she invited me, but I'm not sure I wanna do it. I am very emotional involved, but she is not, not at my level. I respect taht, but it is right for me to keep going?

If I try to fade, gently, to save myself, this friend look for me, e-m me.

I confess I'm tempted to close this relationship, because I'm not getting what I want, but being hurted very often.

But she is talking about co-dependency, idolatry, barriers, and about this inner self that has been hurted, and now she try to protect.

Gosh I have no barriers. For my friends, I'm an open book.

I don't know if it will be healthy for me to go visit her for the week end. She is not giving me back what I want... and when confronted, she is pointing me the fact that I have expectations, and that is bad. We should put our expectations in the Lord,and in the Lord only.

Why I am so attached to her, I don't know.

I don't know if I'll go next week.

I don't know what to do.

Oh......I wish you were here girls. I feel so good with all of you.

Lucilla

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[Guest guest]

Lucilla,

My suggestion would be to follow your heart. If you don't feel like it is right then I would not go. You are giving an awful lot and not get anything back in return. You are in my prayers.

Hugs

nne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

questions (personal) you know....life

if you miss a friend, and you tell that friend "I miss you", and the friend says "mhhh.. I love you but I don't miss you", how could you feel?

if you daily e-m to that friend, and you got complains from that friend that your e-m are too many and too long (2 or 3 a day---she is the one that told me that nobody e-m to her, and now she seems to get so many ems!)), and you are asked to write just one a day, how could you feel?

if you are the only one calling, the friend never does, mailing cards, the friend never does, sharing life, the friend never does, how could you feel?

if you say 'I'm glad to hear you are ok", and the friend answer back "why you are asking? did you think I wasn't ? ", how could you feel?

I'm going to visit this friend next week end, and sleep over, she invited me, but I'm not sure I wanna do it. I am very emotional involved, but she is not, not at my level. I respect taht, but it is right for me to keep going?

If I try to fade, gently, to save myself, this friend look for me, e-m me.

I confess I'm tempted to close this relationship, because I'm not getting what I want, but being hurted very often.

But she is talking about co-dependency, idolatry, barriers, and about this inner self that has been hurted, and now she try to protect.

Gosh I have no barriers. For my friends, I'm an open book.

I don't know if it will be healthy for me to go visit her for the week end. She is not giving me back what I want... and when confronted, she is pointing me the fact that I have expectations, and that is bad. We should put our expectations in the Lord,and in the Lord only.

Why I am so attached to her, I don't know.

I don't know if I'll go next week.

I don't know what to do.

Oh......I wish you were here girls. I feel so good with all of you.

Lucilla

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