Re: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

[Guest guest]

Dear Judy,

Had a double mastectomy on June 2, and in the middle of chemo right now. Please feel free to ask any questions you like...I will do my best to answer any of your concerns.

It's a very confusing time and I really feel for you...

All my best,

[Guest guest]

Dear Judy,

Had a double mastectomy on June 2, and in the middle of chemo right now. Please feel free to ask any questions you like...I will do my best to answer any of your concerns.

It's a very confusing time and I really feel for you...

All my best,

[Guest guest]

Judy we will be here for you. Ask us any thing you would like to know, someone here will have an answer. Yes cancer is a big deal and it is not fun going through the treatment but it can be done. I was dx with stage III and two positive nodes. I had 4 rounds of chemo and then 37 radiation treatments, and then more chemo. I cant say it was fun but I would do it again it a heartbeat.

If you need to just vent that is ok to. We have all been there.

Hugs

Jeana

[Guest guest]

Judy we will be here for you. Ask us any thing you would like to know, someone here will have an answer. Yes cancer is a big deal and it is not fun going through the treatment but it can be done. I was dx with stage III and two positive nodes. I had 4 rounds of chemo and then 37 radiation treatments, and then more chemo. I cant say it was fun but I would do it again it a heartbeat.

If you need to just vent that is ok to. We have all been there.

Hugs

Jeana

[Guest guest]

Judy we will be here for you. Ask us any thing you would like to know, someone here will have an answer. Yes cancer is a big deal and it is not fun going through the treatment but it can be done. I was dx with stage III and two positive nodes. I had 4 rounds of chemo and then 37 radiation treatments, and then more chemo. I cant say it was fun but I would do it again it a heartbeat.

If you need to just vent that is ok to. We have all been there.

Hugs

Jeana

[Guest guest]

Hi Judy - I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I felt just like you described....sometimes I still do. I had a mastectomy in Jan of 2003, chemo and then radiation. I will try to answer any questions that you may have. Your feelings are very much important. I hope you feel free to express them here - these ladies are wonderful!!! You can count on them to be very supportive. I am sending you many, many hugs. Sue

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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Hi Judy - I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I felt just like you described....sometimes I still do. I had a mastectomy in Jan of 2003, chemo and then radiation. I will try to answer any questions that you may have. Your feelings are very much important. I hope you feel free to express them here - these ladies are wonderful!!! You can count on them to be very supportive. I am sending you many, many hugs. Sue

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

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and

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy - I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I felt just like you described....sometimes I still do. I had a mastectomy in Jan of 2003, chemo and then radiation. I will try to answer any questions that you may have. Your feelings are very much important. I hope you feel free to express them here - these ladies are wonderful!!! You can count on them to be very supportive. I am sending you many, many hugs. Sue

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

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and

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy and welcome,

Your feelings are normal and those ladies didn't sound very nice. I guarantee you, you won't get brushed off here. We are all here to help one another. NO question is stupid. So please feel free to ask any questions you may have and we will do our best to answer them. You are in my prayers.

Hugs

marianne

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Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

My Poetry Honored at

http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

HOST A ONLINE

PARTY

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy and welcome,

Your feelings are normal and those ladies didn't sound very nice. I guarantee you, you won't get brushed off here. We are all here to help one another. NO question is stupid. So please feel free to ask any questions you may have and we will do our best to answer them. You are in my prayers.

Hugs

marianne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

My Poetry Honored at

http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

HOST A ONLINE

PARTY

http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain

If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

Nortons say I'm

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy and welcome,

Your feelings are normal and those ladies didn't sound very nice. I guarantee you, you won't get brushed off here. We are all here to help one another. NO question is stupid. So please feel free to ask any questions you may have and we will do our best to answer them. You are in my prayers.

Hugs

marianne

Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html

Check out my breast cancer ornaments at:http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlalso check out my other ornaments and lots of nice gifts at:http://www.cancerclub.com

Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

My Poetry Honored at

http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

HOST A ONLINE

PARTY

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy, My name is Carol and I live in Michigan. Welcome to our place on the information highway!! I am sorry we have to meet this way. I can relate to you about being scared and mad. We have all played the waiting game. All this emotion is normal. I have delt with breast cancer 3 times in the last 10yrs. I have mets to my lungs now, in remission though. I take a daily pill, arimidex. It works like tomoxefen, blocks the hormones. My cancer was her-2 positive, meaning in laymen terms, my cancer was fed by my hormones. I am a proud 43 with 2 grown daughters that I worry all the time about. Wondering , did I give them my genes, will they developed this dragon they call breast cancer.... but I put all my worries into gods arms every night, you see I believe he is the only reason I am alive today. Some people don't believe in god, but I do. And I feel so much better when I talk to him, tell him my troubles. You have found the most wonderful group of ladies you will ever meet!!!! Just post you questions, concerns, or just bitch to get it out in the open, we will listen, comfort and be there for you!!!!

healing hugs and prayers,

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Judy G Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 8:12 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

My Poetry Honored at

http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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[Guest guest]

Hi Judy, My name is Carol and I live in Michigan. Welcome to our place on the information highway!! I am sorry we have to meet this way. I can relate to you about being scared and mad. We have all played the waiting game. All this emotion is normal. I have delt with breast cancer 3 times in the last 10yrs. I have mets to my lungs now, in remission though. I take a daily pill, arimidex. It works like tomoxefen, blocks the hormones. My cancer was her-2 positive, meaning in laymen terms, my cancer was fed by my hormones. I am a proud 43 with 2 grown daughters that I worry all the time about. Wondering , did I give them my genes, will they developed this dragon they call breast cancer.... but I put all my worries into gods arms every night, you see I believe he is the only reason I am alive today. Some people don't believe in god, but I do. And I feel so much better when I talk to him, tell him my troubles. You have found the most wonderful group of ladies you will ever meet!!!! Just post you questions, concerns, or just bitch to get it out in the open, we will listen, comfort and be there for you!!!!

healing hugs and prayers,

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Judy G Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 8:12 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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[Guest guest]

Carol - If you ever wonder if you help someone - feel reassured that you do! Thank you for everything that you post! Love - Sue

RE: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

Hi Judy, My name is Carol and I live in Michigan. Welcome to our place on the information highway!! I am sorry we have to meet this way. I can relate to you about being scared and mad. We have all played the waiting game. All this emotion is normal. I have delt with breast cancer 3 times in the last 10yrs. I have mets to my lungs now, in remission though. I take a daily pill, arimidex. It works like tomoxefen, blocks the hormones. My cancer was her-2 positive, meaning in laymen terms, my cancer was fed by my hormones. I am a proud 43 with 2 grown daughters that I worry all the time about. Wondering , did I give them my genes, will they developed this dragon they call breast cancer.... but I put all my worries into gods arms every night, you see I believe he is the only reason I am alive today. Some people don't believe in god, but I do. And I feel so much better when I talk to him, tell him my troubles. You have found the most wonderful group of ladies you will ever meet!!!! Just post you questions, concerns, or just bitch to get it out in the open, we will listen, comfort and be there for you!!!!

healing hugs and prayers,

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Judy G Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 8:12 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

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[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Just wanted to know if you chose to have a double mascetomy or if

it was advised?

I have a benign lump in my left breast,my surgeon said that

there was no need to take both breasts and now all I seem to do is

worry about that lump thats near my chest wall.

> Dear Judy,

>

> Had a double mastectomy on June 2, and in the middle of chemo right

now.

> Please feel free to ask any questions you like...I will do my best

to answer any

> of your concerns.

>

> It's a very confusing time and I really feel for you...

>

> All my best,

>

[Guest guest]

so sorry that you have to be yet another one that has to go through this ordeal. Do you know what your stage and/or prognosis is? You'll be ok most of us are!

CJudy G wrote:

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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"there are only 2 tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it." Wilde__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

so sorry that you have to be yet another one that has to go through this ordeal. Do you know what your stage and/or prognosis is? You'll be ok most of us are!

CJudy G wrote:

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

Nortons say I'm

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"there are only 2 tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it." Wilde__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

so sorry that you have to be yet another one that has to go through this ordeal. Do you know what your stage and/or prognosis is? You'll be ok most of us are!

CJudy G wrote:

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

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" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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"there are only 2 tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it." Wilde__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

I really dont know.....the tumor was 2.5m on one report.and on the other 1.5 or something......I guess I just haven't been told yet.........and haven't really thought of asking... :-(

Hugs

Judy

-- Re: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

so sorry that you have to be yet another one that has to go through this ordeal. Do you know what your stage and/or prognosis is? You'll be ok most of us are!

CJudy G wrote:

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

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If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

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"there are only 2 tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it." Wilde

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

thanks sue!~ you just made my day!~)

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Sue Erbe Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 10:26 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

Carol - If you ever wonder if you help someone - feel reassured that you do! Thank you for everything that you post! Love - Sue

RE: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

Hi Judy, My name is Carol and I live in Michigan. Welcome to our place on the information highway!! I am sorry we have to meet this way. I can relate to you about being scared and mad. We have all played the waiting game. All this emotion is normal. I have delt with breast cancer 3 times in the last 10yrs. I have mets to my lungs now, in remission though. I take a daily pill, arimidex. It works like tomoxefen, blocks the hormones. My cancer was her-2 positive, meaning in laymen terms, my cancer was fed by my hormones. I am a proud 43 with 2 grown daughters that I worry all the time about. Wondering , did I give them my genes, will they developed this dragon they call breast cancer.... but I put all my worries into gods arms every night, you see I believe he is the only reason I am alive today. Some people don't believe in god, but I do. And I feel so much better when I talk to him, tell him my troubles. You have found the most wonderful group of ladies you will ever meet!!!! Just post you questions, concerns, or just bitch to get it out in the open, we will listen, comfort and be there for you!!!!

healing hugs and prayers,

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Judy G Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 8:12 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

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-----Original Message-----From: Sue Erbe Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 10:26 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Re: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

Carol - If you ever wonder if you help someone - feel reassured that you do! Thank you for everything that you post! Love - Sue

RE: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

Hi Judy, My name is Carol and I live in Michigan. Welcome to our place on the information highway!! I am sorry we have to meet this way. I can relate to you about being scared and mad. We have all played the waiting game. All this emotion is normal. I have delt with breast cancer 3 times in the last 10yrs. I have mets to my lungs now, in remission though. I take a daily pill, arimidex. It works like tomoxefen, blocks the hormones. My cancer was her-2 positive, meaning in laymen terms, my cancer was fed by my hormones. I am a proud 43 with 2 grown daughters that I worry all the time about. Wondering , did I give them my genes, will they developed this dragon they call breast cancer.... but I put all my worries into gods arms every night, you see I believe he is the only reason I am alive today. Some people don't believe in god, but I do. And I feel so much better when I talk to him, tell him my troubles. You have found the most wonderful group of ladies you will ever meet!!!! Just post you questions, concerns, or just bitch to get it out in the open, we will listen, comfort and be there for you!!!!

healing hugs and prayers,

Carol

-----Original Message-----From: Judy G Sent: Thursday, September 09, 2004 8:12 PMTo: breastcancer2 Subject: Hi everyone.....I just got diagnosed and I'm scared

My name is Judy....I live in Utah and I found out last week I have breast cancer... I am going in Monday for more surgery and then on to Chemo and Radiation....Im so scared I can hardly breath.......and oh so mad too.

I went on the Cancer.org and into a chat room, but they were all chatting and all I got out of it was......Oh dont be scared.I went through it..I didnt need that at this time.I need answers.....I almost felt as if my feelings were not valid........so I left the chat room, with apologies.....

I admire all of you and have always supported Breast Cancer awareness.. God only knows now all I need is some support.....and some simple and maybe stupid questions answered.

I hope this is appropriate in contacting the group....I wasn't sure if I had to wait until Friday or what.....It seems like thats all I've been doing is waiting these past weeks....

Scared, angry and feeling alone

Judy

....

My Poetry Honored at

http://poetryinacup.org/morningrain/

Visit MY TUPPERWARE

and

HOST A ONLINE

PARTY

http://my.tupperware.com/MorningRain

If you Live in my heart....you live rent free.

" We come to love NOT by meeting a PERFECT person...

But by seeing an IMPERFECT person PERFECTLY "

In God We Trust

Proud wife of a Vietnam Vet

Nortons say I'm

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