Re: hey Anglela (mc men)

[Guest guest]

,

you put a big smile on my face. Thank you. Star Trek, huh? I sure

understand that. I cry over the strangest things. Sunday night I was

so bummed out, we were eating dinner, and DH took a piece of my steak

(it was hugh, I couldn't eat it all anyway) and I started sobbing. He

was like, I'll give the steak back, here, I didn't know you wanted it

so bad. And here I am, bawling, saying, it's not the steak...

I've cried at some weird stuff.... I'm sorry for what you've had to

deal with as well. It's so awful that so many of us have to hurt like

this....Well, I feel like I finally have a safe place to share my

feelings and be understood. Thanks!

Angie-

PS> I wish my mother in law didn't speak english. Tee hee.

-- In MullerianAnomalies@y..., melissa_gentile@v... wrote:

>

> Hi ,

> Sunday must have hurt so much!! What a low blow. I ran into that

with

> taking Catholic marriage prep courses - the last class was solely

about how

> to limit family size by natural family planning. I clenched my

teeth while

> the tears streamed down my face for three hours. They did a bit of

anatomy

> instruction and of course showed that classic moosehead diagram of

the

> uterus that I don't have.

>

> It's those unexpected surprises that rip us apart, you know? I

cried over a

> Star Trek: The Next Generation episode the other night. Sheesh.

>

> My family isn't too bad about " grandbabies " ... my mom & dad had 6

yrs IF

> work, male factor and one miscarriage, my aunt and uncle had 6 yrs

> unsuccessful IF (no know reason) - no biological children, other

aunt and

> uncle - neonatal loss. So I'm lucky in that they all understand.

DH's

> family's another story, but I don't think I've felt their full

force yet.

> On the plus side, alot of them don't speak english and I don't speak

> italian ;-)

>

> Have you talked to DH about his family? How baldy, bitterly

insensitive for

> that woman to imply your stress was at fault for your m/c. I don't

think

> I'd be able to avoid getting nasty ... something along the lines

of 'Well,

> my doctors don't think so ... I'll have to let them all know you

disagree. "

> Oooooh that makes me so mad!! I've had to re-write 4 lines of type

because

> I can't keep my keyboard civil!!!

>

> Ahem. Sorry.

>

> It's nice to hear you make a plan about what you'll say to someone

who

> pushes too hard. I actually said to someone, " I'm sorry ... this is

way too

> painful to talk about right now, but ask DH, he can update you. " It

changed

> the subject quickly and eventually got DH to stand up for me b/c

when HE

> was in the hotseat he didn't like it so much. I can't believe they

MAIL you

> stuf?!?!? How obscene.

>

> Anywho, we love you and would happily box those relatives up and

send them

> to the moon for you <hug>

> <still snarling and stomping>

>