Re: OT: earning brownie points with the DBF's daughter!

[Guest guest]

Yay yay yay!!! But like I said who could resist falling in love with you Ms.

Alisa???? I'm so glad you had a great day together.

Chelle

[Guest guest]

Alisa, How could she not love you???? You are just the kindest woman

AND you TOOK A 15 YEAR OLD shopping!!!!!!! LOL

I'm so glad it was successful!!! You are right it was priceless!!

Hugs to you!!!

> Evening all!

>

> Well yesterday was the big shopping event--Chris' daughter Candace

and

> I did the girls shopping thing. And it was a HUGE success! When I

> picked her up, she seemed pretty hesitant about going. I made some

> small talk on the way to the mall, making sure to focus on her and

> what SHE was doing this summer and not my relationship with her

dad.

> Got to the mall and it was obvious she was a bit overwhelmed! Her

dad

> is one of those " I hate shopping " men (aren't most??) and refuses

to

> spend longer than 30 minutes to an hour in a store that HE doesn't

> want to be in, and will ONLY go to the mall that's closest to their

> house (which is crappy). So I told her that my day was her day,

and

> that we could go to any or all of the stores that day--with NO TIME

> LIMITS! You'd think I'd have given her a Gold AMEX card LOL!

>

> So we hit the stores, her eyes getting bigger by the minute. She

had a

> particular " look " in mind and was at first resistant to the things

I

> picked up to show her--until I apparently picked up some top that

was

> IT. IT as in, " I have to try this on and I think I'm buying it

and I

> can't believe that she MIGHT actually have good taste in clothing "

IT.

> LOL--it was funny to see her resist my choices then when I urged

her

> to try them on she fell in love with them. And gratifying--we were

> able to click. And she didn't even fight me when I would say no to

> something because it was too mature/too expensive (even though she

was

> spending her own $$$)/too sexy...etc. We had lunch--she bought her

> own (had warned me she might be a bit selfish with $$ and he

was

> right--lol--but I didn't ask her to buy mine nor was I offering to

buy

> hers!). It was fun--I am a shopping goddess so it didn't faze me

when

> she wanted to try on 10-20 things in a store! At one point she said

> " you've not done any shopping " . And I told her that when I had

asked

> her to go shopping I was taking HER shopping--we weren't shopping

for

> me (except when we were in the shoe store-lol). She had a funny

look

> on her face like she couldn't believe that I would do this. And

just

> smiled. She kept asking about time and I said again there wasn't a

> time limit--I wasn't her dad. I called him about an hour after he

got

> off work and he was wondering why we weren't home yet--and when

were

> we coming back! I said we'd be home around 7 or 7:30 and to go

home,

> eat, and just relax. We had to go to another mall to find this

jacket

> she HAD to have and it was on the way to her house. And then

stopped

> at Wally World--she has super curly and thick hair and didn't know

> about Frizz Eaze--so I wanted to introduce her to it.

>

> Got home, and I asked her to do a fashion show for Chris--who kept

> asking how much everything cost until I told him that she didn't

spend

> all of her money AND that it wasn't his business! LOL--he said

that

> was true and let it go--she was so happy. The best part? When she

> got into her bedroom, she called her best friend le right

away

> and told her she HAD to come over NOW-- " she has really good taste

and

> I got some great clothes! " le came over and all of my

> selections were met with loud approval--lol. I had already

promised

> Candace that we'd go again on the No Sales Tax holiday we have

here,

> and le asked if she too could go because she really liked the

> stuff Candace had. I could have floated up to the sky right

then! My

> date night with consisted of watching a movie while holding

> hands--lol. Oh and you're wondering how long were we gone???? 7,

yes

> 7 hours! LOL--most of it was spent shopping too!

>

> Spending 7 hours shopping with your BF's 15yr old daughter: $125

> (that's about what she spent)

>

> Gas in the car for the above shopping trip: $10

>

> Hearing her AND her friend say that you've got good taste--and her

> father saying how happy he was that we had had so much fun together

> (and that he didn't have to do it! lol): PRICELESS!!!!!!

>

> And believe it or not, I DID go shopping by myself today--lol--but

> didn't find much!

>

> Alisab

[Guest guest]

Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

those brownie points goin!!!

Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

regular household product.

Toi

[Guest guest]

Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

those brownie points goin!!!

Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

regular household product.

Toi

[Guest guest]

Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

those brownie points goin!!!

Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

regular household product.

Toi

[Guest guest]

BTW I would love to go shopping with you one day!! I could easily

do 7 hours or more. You are my kind of shopper!!!

Hugs!!

> Evening all!

>

> Well yesterday was the big shopping event--Chris' daughter Candace

and

> I did the girls shopping thing. And it was a HUGE success! When I

> picked her up, she seemed pretty hesitant about going. I made some

> small talk on the way to the mall, making sure to focus on her and

> what SHE was doing this summer and not my relationship with her

dad.

> Got to the mall and it was obvious she was a bit overwhelmed! Her

dad

> is one of those " I hate shopping " men (aren't most??) and refuses

to

> spend longer than 30 minutes to an hour in a store that HE doesn't

> want to be in, and will ONLY go to the mall that's closest to their

> house (which is crappy). So I told her that my day was her day,

and

> that we could go to any or all of the stores that day--with NO TIME

> LIMITS! You'd think I'd have given her a Gold AMEX card LOL!

>

> So we hit the stores, her eyes getting bigger by the minute. She

had a

> particular " look " in mind and was at first resistant to the things

I

> picked up to show her--until I apparently picked up some top that

was

> IT. IT as in, " I have to try this on and I think I'm buying it

and I

> can't believe that she MIGHT actually have good taste in clothing "

IT.

> LOL--it was funny to see her resist my choices then when I urged

her

> to try them on she fell in love with them. And gratifying--we were

> able to click. And she didn't even fight me when I would say no to

> something because it was too mature/too expensive (even though she

was

> spending her own $$$)/too sexy...etc. We had lunch--she bought her

> own (had warned me she might be a bit selfish with $$ and he

was

> right--lol--but I didn't ask her to buy mine nor was I offering to

buy

> hers!). It was fun--I am a shopping goddess so it didn't faze me

when

> she wanted to try on 10-20 things in a store! At one point she said

> " you've not done any shopping " . And I told her that when I had

asked

> her to go shopping I was taking HER shopping--we weren't shopping

for

> me (except when we were in the shoe store-lol). She had a funny

look

> on her face like she couldn't believe that I would do this. And

just

> smiled. She kept asking about time and I said again there wasn't a

> time limit--I wasn't her dad. I called him about an hour after he

got

> off work and he was wondering why we weren't home yet--and when

were

> we coming back! I said we'd be home around 7 or 7:30 and to go

home,

> eat, and just relax. We had to go to another mall to find this

jacket

> she HAD to have and it was on the way to her house. And then

stopped

> at Wally World--she has super curly and thick hair and didn't know

> about Frizz Eaze--so I wanted to introduce her to it.

>

> Got home, and I asked her to do a fashion show for Chris--who kept

> asking how much everything cost until I told him that she didn't

spend

> all of her money AND that it wasn't his business! LOL--he said

that

> was true and let it go--she was so happy. The best part? When she

> got into her bedroom, she called her best friend le right

away

> and told her she HAD to come over NOW-- " she has really good taste

and

> I got some great clothes! " le came over and all of my

> selections were met with loud approval--lol. I had already

promised

> Candace that we'd go again on the No Sales Tax holiday we have

here,

> and le asked if she too could go because she really liked the

> stuff Candace had. I could have floated up to the sky right

then! My

> date night with consisted of watching a movie while holding

> hands--lol. Oh and you're wondering how long were we gone???? 7,

yes

> 7 hours! LOL--most of it was spent shopping too!

>

> Spending 7 hours shopping with your BF's 15yr old daughter: $125

> (that's about what she spent)

>

> Gas in the car for the above shopping trip: $10

>

> Hearing her AND her friend say that you've got good taste--and her

> father saying how happy he was that we had had so much fun together

> (and that he didn't have to do it! lol): PRICELESS!!!!!!

>

> And believe it or not, I DID go shopping by myself today--lol--but

> didn't find much!

>

> Alisab

[Guest guest]

LOL

Thanks Chelle--but YOU know how teenage kids are--especially girls!!!!!

> Yay yay yay!!! But like I said who could resist falling in love with

you Ms. Alisa???? I'm so glad you had a great day together.

>

> Chelle

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL

Thanks Chelle--but YOU know how teenage kids are--especially girls!!!!!

> Yay yay yay!!! But like I said who could resist falling in love with

you Ms. Alisa???? I'm so glad you had a great day together.

>

> Chelle

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL

Thanks Chelle--but YOU know how teenage kids are--especially girls!!!!!

> Yay yay yay!!! But like I said who could resist falling in love with

you Ms. Alisa???? I'm so glad you had a great day together.

>

> Chelle

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

told me that all she's talked about since then was how much fun

it was and how good my choices were and how she couldn't WAIT till 2

weeks from now. I told her we were shopping for bottoms, bras (that

child wears a freaking D cup!) and shoes--she had enough tops for a

bit! Her friend was already trying to figure out how to get enough

money for what she wanted--lol.

Now if I make it through taking 2 15 yr olds shopping then I will

claim the throne as the bestest damn girlfriend--and will be demanding

a very NICE gift for my birthday later this year! LOL

> Alisa, How could she not love you???? You are just the kindest woman

> AND you TOOK A 15 YEAR OLD shopping!!!!!!! LOL

>

>

> I'm so glad it was successful!!! You are right it was priceless!!

>

> Hugs to you!!!

>

>

[Guest guest]

Toi

It really was fun and it helps that she had so much fun--I think

she'll start begrudging the time he and I spend together less.

Girl...her DAD never did her hair! He always paid someone to do

it--and with her being biracial she has a lot of different needs to

deal with. She also asked about a beautician that dealt with " black

hair " --her hair would be considered in that category and she realizes

that it has to be dealt with differently. So...I'm going to ask

someone I know about HER beautician--Candace wants straight hair and

doesn't know how to do it on her on. The Frizz Eaze was sooooooo

needed--that child's hair needs help!!!!!! LOL

> Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

>

> Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

> to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

> those brownie points goin!!!

>

> Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

> surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

> regular household product.

>

> Toi

[Guest guest]

Toi

It really was fun and it helps that she had so much fun--I think

she'll start begrudging the time he and I spend together less.

Girl...her DAD never did her hair! He always paid someone to do

it--and with her being biracial she has a lot of different needs to

deal with. She also asked about a beautician that dealt with " black

hair " --her hair would be considered in that category and she realizes

that it has to be dealt with differently. So...I'm going to ask

someone I know about HER beautician--Candace wants straight hair and

doesn't know how to do it on her on. The Frizz Eaze was sooooooo

needed--that child's hair needs help!!!!!! LOL

> Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

>

> Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

> to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

> those brownie points goin!!!

>

> Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

> surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

> regular household product.

>

> Toi

[Guest guest]

Toi

It really was fun and it helps that she had so much fun--I think

she'll start begrudging the time he and I spend together less.

Girl...her DAD never did her hair! He always paid someone to do

it--and with her being biracial she has a lot of different needs to

deal with. She also asked about a beautician that dealt with " black

hair " --her hair would be considered in that category and she realizes

that it has to be dealt with differently. So...I'm going to ask

someone I know about HER beautician--Candace wants straight hair and

doesn't know how to do it on her on. The Frizz Eaze was sooooooo

needed--that child's hair needs help!!!!!! LOL

> Aaahhhhhlllllright!!!

>

> Sounds like a fun time, and knowing that it takes a pretty cool soul

> to hit it off with 15 yr old girls, sounds to me like you REALLY got

> those brownie points goin!!!

>

> Frizz Ease is MY friend!!! I couldn't get by without it and I'm

> surprised she didn't know about it by now, lol. I thought it was a

> regular household product.

>

> Toi

[Guest guest]

Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

outcast thing.

You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

birthday gift!!!!!!

Hugs!!

> > Alisa, How could she not love you???? You are just the kindest

woman

> > AND you TOOK A 15 YEAR OLD shopping!!!!!!! LOL

> >

> >

> > I'm so glad it was successful!!! You are right it was priceless!!

> >

> > Hugs to you!!!

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

outcast thing.

You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

birthday gift!!!!!!

Hugs!!

> > Alisa, How could she not love you???? You are just the kindest

woman

> > AND you TOOK A 15 YEAR OLD shopping!!!!!!! LOL

> >

> >

> > I'm so glad it was successful!!! You are right it was priceless!!

> >

> > Hugs to you!!!

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

outcast thing.

You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

birthday gift!!!!!!

Hugs!!

> > Alisa, How could she not love you???? You are just the kindest

woman

> > AND you TOOK A 15 YEAR OLD shopping!!!!!!! LOL

> >

> >

> > I'm so glad it was successful!!! You are right it was priceless!!

> >

> > Hugs to you!!!

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

LOL Jodi

I can get even the most diehard non-shopper to enjoy the

experience!!! LOL

> very cool! I'll meet you for coffee afterward...I am just NOT the

shopping type, either.

>

> glad your day was such a great success!!!

>

> love to you!

> jb-bb

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL Jodi

I can get even the most diehard non-shopper to enjoy the

experience!!! LOL

> very cool! I'll meet you for coffee afterward...I am just NOT the

shopping type, either.

>

> glad your day was such a great success!!!

>

> love to you!

> jb-bb

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL Jodi

I can get even the most diehard non-shopper to enjoy the

experience!!! LOL

> very cool! I'll meet you for coffee afterward...I am just NOT the

shopping type, either.

>

> glad your day was such a great success!!!

>

> love to you!

> jb-bb

>

>

[Guest guest]

I know--she told me that she wanted to find a minimizer bra. I felt

really sad for her--she's getting the attention she doesn't want yet

and dealing with other girls who don't HAVE boobs yet. She felt

really comfortable when I told her I could relate as well--I went

from bra and panty sets to REAL bras almost overnight. I told her

that our next outing we would definitely buy new bras.

I think I'll be up to the challenge--the trick is to start them out

early in the morning--let them stay up late playing and then come

get them at 9--when they aren't completely awake yet and I've had a

big ole cup of Starbucks! LOL

> Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

> UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

> grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

> chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

> stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

> was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

> out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

> outcast thing.

>

> You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

> shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

> birthday gift!!!!!!

>

> Hugs!!

>

>

[Guest guest]

I know--she told me that she wanted to find a minimizer bra. I felt

really sad for her--she's getting the attention she doesn't want yet

and dealing with other girls who don't HAVE boobs yet. She felt

really comfortable when I told her I could relate as well--I went

from bra and panty sets to REAL bras almost overnight. I told her

that our next outing we would definitely buy new bras.

I think I'll be up to the challenge--the trick is to start them out

early in the morning--let them stay up late playing and then come

get them at 9--when they aren't completely awake yet and I've had a

big ole cup of Starbucks! LOL

> Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

> UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

> grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

> chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

> stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

> was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

> out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

> outcast thing.

>

> You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

> shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

> birthday gift!!!!!!

>

> Hugs!!

>

>

[Guest guest]

I know--she told me that she wanted to find a minimizer bra. I felt

really sad for her--she's getting the attention she doesn't want yet

and dealing with other girls who don't HAVE boobs yet. She felt

really comfortable when I told her I could relate as well--I went

from bra and panty sets to REAL bras almost overnight. I told her

that our next outing we would definitely buy new bras.

I think I'll be up to the challenge--the trick is to start them out

early in the morning--let them stay up late playing and then come

get them at 9--when they aren't completely awake yet and I've had a

big ole cup of Starbucks! LOL

> Alisa that is so cool!!!! The poor thing is already a D cup.....

> UGH poor girl I can relate!! I started getting my girls in 4th

> grade!! It sucked!! I was the ONLY one with boobs. I was a little

> chubby, but not in plus sizes as a kid. I had a girl ask me if I

> stuffed (my bra), I had NO clue what she was talking about. LOL I

> was thinking about this conversation Y E A R S later and figured

> out what she was asking me. LOL it is a blonde thing and being an

> outcast thing.

>

> You can do it!! You can take 2 15 year olds that are best friends

> shopping!! I also think needs to get you a REALLY nice

> birthday gift!!!!!!

>

> Hugs!!

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hey, if shopping for shoes is on the agenda, I'd love to go too. LOVE

SHOES!!! I still hate trying on clothes. I still have that " too-big-to-

turn-around-in-the-stall " phobia. Some old memories take a long time

to die.

Toi

> Evening all!

>

> Well yesterday was the big shopping event--Chris' daughter Candace

and

> I did the girls shopping thing. And it was a HUGE success! When I

>

[Guest guest]

Hey, if shopping for shoes is on the agenda, I'd love to go too. LOVE

SHOES!!! I still hate trying on clothes. I still have that " too-big-to-

turn-around-in-the-stall " phobia. Some old memories take a long time

to die.

Toi

> Evening all!

>

> Well yesterday was the big shopping event--Chris' daughter Candace

and

> I did the girls shopping thing. And it was a HUGE success! When I

>

[Guest guest]

Hey, if shopping for shoes is on the agenda, I'd love to go too. LOVE

SHOES!!! I still hate trying on clothes. I still have that " too-big-to-

turn-around-in-the-stall " phobia. Some old memories take a long time

to die.

Toi

> Evening all!

>

> Well yesterday was the big shopping event--Chris' daughter Candace

and

> I did the girls shopping thing. And it was a HUGE success! When I

>