HELEN--

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PLEASE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT THE GIRLS' FATHER. I KNOW THIS IS

VERY HARD ON YOU BUT IT IS BEST FOR YOU AND THE GIRLS THAT YOU NOT SAY

ANYTHING THAT CAN BE USED AGAINST YOU.

WHEN MY OLDEST DAUGHTER, NOW 21, WAS JUST OVER A YEAR OLD MY EX LEFT US.

WHEN I REMARRIED TWO YEARS LATTER WE PROMISED THAT WE WOULD NEVER TELL

BRANDY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT MY EX. WHEN BRANDY WAS 8 DAVID ADOPTED HER.

SHE HAS KNOWN WE WOULD HELP HER FIND HER BIOLOGICAL FATHER WHEN SHE WAS

18. WE HAD NO CONTACT FROM HIM AFTER 1982. THEN IN 1998 BEFORE HER

GRADUATION WE WERE ABLE TO FIND HIM. SHE FOUND OUT QUICKLY HOW BAD OF A

PERSON HE IS. IT WAS THEN THAT I TALKED TO HER ABOUT HIM AND MY LIFE

WHILE I WAS WITH HIM.

I REALIZE THAT THIS IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, BUT IN

A WAY IT IS A BIT SIMILAR. ALSO, I HAVE WATCHED MY FRIENDS DAUGHTER, WHO

HAS 5 KIDS GO THROUGH A MOST AWFUL DIVORCE. I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS NOT TO

SAY ANYTHING AGAINST THEIR FATHER, AND HE IS A MONSTER, HE BEAT THE

CHILDREN AND HIS WIFE. HE WAS EXTREMELY CRUEL AND STILL IS. HE HURT THE

CHILDREN EVERY CHANCE HE COULD.

I PRAY FOR THEM ALWAYS TO BE ABLE TO HAVE NO CONTACT WITH HIM EVER

AGAIN.

PLEASE DO NOT DO ANYTHING THAT COULD AFFECT THE GIRLS IN A BAD WAY.

PLEASE DO NOT STOOP TO HIS LEVEL. HE CANNOT EVEN CALL HIMSELF A MAN FOR

THE PAIN THAT HE IS INFLICTING ON THE GIRLS.

I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW ALSO.

PLEASE KNOW I WILL KEEP YOU , THE GIRLS, YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW, AND THE

GIRLS FATHER IN MY PRAYERS.

FATHER,

PLEASE HELP HELEN AND HER FAMILY TO OVERCOME THE HORROR IN WHICH THEY

HAVE FOUND THEMSELVES IN. FATHER, PLEASE HELP PROTECT THE GIRLS, PUT

YOUR ARMS AROUND THEM AND KEEP THEM SAFE. FATHER, PLEASE HELP THEIR

FATHER TO SEE THAT WHAT HE IS PUTTING THE GIRLS AND THEIR GRANDMA

THROUGH IS AWFUL AND BENEATH HUMAN STANDARDS. FATHER, I ASK THAT YOU BE

WITH HELEN'S HUSBAND AND HIS MOM AS THE DOCTORS ARE TESTING HER AND FEEL

SHE MAY HAVE CANCER, FATHER I ASK THAT YOU COMFORT AND PROTECT THEM.

FATHER, WE THANK YOU FOR ANSWERED PRAYERS.

AMEN

GENTLEHUGS AND PRAYERS

SAM

[Guest guest]

I haven't the slightest idea what it is Billie !!! Have a Great Day !!!

Love Ya

Helen

HELEN MY DEAR FRIEND, WHAT IS THAT GIBERISH AFTER YOUR SADDY??   IF U DIDN'T WANT ME TO READ THE MGS. OR ARE U SENDING SOMETHING IN CODE!!!!! LOL  {

LUVS TO U

"ME"

HOW DO YOU SURVIVE??? TAKE VERY GOOD CARE HON!!!!

HUGS

SHARON

Re:HELEN--FROM SAM

Wow, you sure have your hands full !!!  How do you cope on a daily basis's ???  It is hard everyday isn't it !!!  But faith and determination get me through !!!    I'm not feeling very good this pm. , my hubby wouldn't let me cancel my appointment for in the morning (wens.) so I will be going to the hospital to the pain managment and see what they have to say... It is getting harder to hold my head up and turn it at times, so have to se if they can help me on that subject, I have degenerative arthritis in it real bad and it doesn't seem like it is getting any better (   u J @ [H @ bX~~~~~~ >k ;9 mi>f @ gP =x >k L >b A$ ( A$ >g >k x :h y>f 84>f 9 X a Dv f g b Do They are still tossing around if I have TMJ or not and they want to do a sleep study to see if I have Sleep Apnea, as I don't sleep well at all.. Hope you are doing as well as can be this evening !!!  Write when you are up to it

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Sam, I would Never say anything to my girls that would hurt them!!! I would Never say anything Bad about their Dad to them!!! That is not right... They will have to make up their own minds about him... What used to be three little girls that Loved their father, I now have two little girls that don't even Like him anymore and one that Hates him, and they have only been gone 8 weeks...Does that say to anyone how bad it is for them??? And I am so afraid that he will get to keep them as he is the father and he had the papers to have them legally, just like they are a piece of property...If they would tell me they were Happy where they are and things were fine, I would sit back, drop the entire case and CRY, cause I didn't have them, but be Happy cause they were... But that isn't the case!!! They beg and beg to come home, the Only home they have ever known their entire little life's...They call me Mom ! Not Grma!!! As that is what they chose to do and i tried to correct it and my 7 year old, then only five, put me in my place and explained to Me what a Mother was!!! They have been calling me Mom ( or Mama) ever since...

He doesn't even seem to care how they are feeling or suffering... He says they are Fine, as long as they stay away from us (

Thank-You for the Prayer... It was Lovely..

Hugs

Helen

PLEASE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT THE GIRLS' FATHER. I KNOW THIS ISVERY HARD ON YOU BUT IT IS BEST FOR YOU AND THE GIRLS THAT YOU NOT SAYANYTHING THAT CAN BE USED AGAINST YOU.WHEN MY OLDEST DAUGHTER, NOW 21, WAS JUST OVER A YEAR OLD MY EX LEFT US.WHEN I REMARRIED TWO YEARS LATTER WE PROMISED THAT WE WOULD NEVER TELLBRANDY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT MY EX. WHEN BRANDY WAS 8 DAVID ADOPTED HER.SHE HAS KNOWN WE WOULD HELP HER FIND HER BIOLOGICAL FATHER WHEN SHE WAS18. WE HAD NO CONTACT FROM HIM AFTER 1982. THEN IN 1998 BEFORE HERGRADUATION WE WERE ABLE TO FIND HIM. SHE FOUND OUT QUICKLY HOW BAD OF APERSON HE IS. IT WAS THEN THAT I TALKED TO HER ABOUT HIM AND MY LIFEWHILE I WAS WITH HIM. I REALIZE THAT THIS IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, BUT INA WAY IT IS A BIT SIMILAR. ALSO, I HAVE WATCHED MY FRIENDS DAUGHTER, WHOHAS 5 KIDS GO THROUGH A MOST AWFUL DIVORCE. I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS NOT TOSAY ANYTHING AGAINST THEIR FATHER, AND HE IS A MONSTER, HE BEAT THECHILDREN AND HIS WIFE. HE WAS EXTREMELY CRUEL AND STILL IS. HE HURT THECHILDREN EVERY CHANCE HE COULD.I PRAY FOR THEM ALWAYS TO BE ABLE TO HAVE NO CONTACT WITH HIM EVERAGAIN.PLEASE DO NOT DO ANYTHING THAT COULD AFFECT THE GIRLS IN A BAD WAY.PLEASE DO NOT STOOP TO HIS LEVEL. HE CANNOT EVEN CALL HIMSELF A MAN FORTHE PAIN THAT HE IS INFLICTING ON THE GIRLS.I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW ALSO.PLEASE KNOW I WILL KEEP YOU , THE GIRLS, YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW, AND THEGIRLS FATHER IN MY PRAYERS.FATHER,PLEASE HELP HELEN AND HER FAMILY TO OVERCOME THE HORROR IN WHICH THEYHAVE FOUND THEMSELVES IN. FATHER, PLEASE HELP PROTECT THE GIRLS, PUTYOUR ARMS AROUND THEM AND KEEP THEM SAFE. FATHER, PLEASE HELP THEIRFATHER TO SEE THAT WHAT HE IS PUTTING THE GIRLS AND THEIR GRANDMATHROUGH IS AWFUL AND BENEATH HUMAN STANDARDS. FATHER, I ASK THAT YOU BEWITH HELEN'S HUSBAND AND HIS MOM AS THE DOCTORS ARE TESTING HER AND FEELSHE MAY HAVE CANCER, FATHER I ASK THAT YOU COMFORT AND PROTECT THEM.FATHER, WE THANK YOU FOR ANSWERED PRAYERS.AMENGENTLEHUGS AND PRAYERSSAM

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