Guest guest Posted June 20, 2005 Report Share Posted June 20, 2005 No you aren't prude!! I would cringe at that too. > > > > > > What is MILF ? Im a dork and cant figure it out > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2005 Report Share Posted June 20, 2005 Actually, I'm not really a prude either and pretty open with my son about stuff which, I guess, is why he feels okay about talking to me about most everything, even things I don't really wanna hear. The MILF thing just gets to me for a few different reasons. For one, it leaves me feeling very awkward and not a bit flattered around Devin's friends that have said this since I see them as kids still. It kinda creeps me out. Another reason is that my son has always been attracted to " older " women and the thought of him ever getting into a " situation " with someone's mother makes me wanna puke. I know boys will be boys and I'm not blind to the fact that they talk that way. I just have to remind myself that at their age nearly anything with a crotch is a turn on, lol. Toi > > > > > > What is MILF ? Im a dork and cant figure it out > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2005 Report Share Posted June 20, 2005 Actually, I'm not really a prude either and pretty open with my son about stuff which, I guess, is why he feels okay about talking to me about most everything, even things I don't really wanna hear. The MILF thing just gets to me for a few different reasons. For one, it leaves me feeling very awkward and not a bit flattered around Devin's friends that have said this since I see them as kids still. It kinda creeps me out. Another reason is that my son has always been attracted to " older " women and the thought of him ever getting into a " situation " with someone's mother makes me wanna puke. I know boys will be boys and I'm not blind to the fact that they talk that way. I just have to remind myself that at their age nearly anything with a crotch is a turn on, lol. Toi > > > > > > What is MILF ? Im a dork and cant figure it out > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 ROFLMAO!! YEP!! ~Kat~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Toi, I look back at my life with great sadness actually. I missed so much of life because I did not go out. I HATED family gatherings. My weight often became the center of conversation..especially with my grandmother who is a bean poll. I used to try sooooo hard to get dressed up and " qualify " to be with everyone else. Only to hear, oh honey you need to lose some weight..etc. I am not very close to much of my family as a result. No one could understand my life and how I felt to live in this body. I have been " left out " of many family gatherings so that I didn't embarrass the uppers...upperclass's I guess. No one has come right out and said it, but I struggled to put food on the table for my kids for awhile when I was putting MYSELF through college and I lived on student loans and food stamps. I didn't " qualify " to hang out with the " haves " . Understand my family is all well off...you know I get angry STILL thinking about those days. Now that I make a wage that exceeds even my parents, and " have " ...they want me in their lives more and frankly they can still kiss my ass. I get phone calls now asking where Ive been and how come I dont come around. I have run into a few of my brothers friends and it has gotten back to me that I have passed their approval so to speak. (your sisters hot..when is she going to join us at the pool etc) It seems I now qualify to hang out with the haves..frankly they can all kiss my ass. I am the same person thin as I was fat. I have the same issues and the things I value. In fact I value friendship more that I have gone through these years than I think I ever would of had I not. I do not desire to live and hang around people who think you have to qualify to be around them. Whether it be checking account size, or waist size. My friendships are based on the love I see in peoples hearts. Compassion and acceptance a must. ~Kat~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Kat, I know it is what it is with your family. I just wanted to say we love you, and I'm sorry you have such crapy parents!!! The one good thing is you have an AWESOME honey!!!!!!! Hugs!!! > Toi, > > I look back at my life with great sadness actually. I missed so much > of life because I did not go out. I HATED family gatherings. My > weight often became the center of conversation..especially with my > grandmother who is a bean poll. I used to try sooooo hard to get > dressed up and " qualify " to be with everyone else. Only to hear, oh > honey you need to lose some weight..etc. I am not very close to > much of my family as a result. No one could understand my life and > how I felt to live in this body. I have been " left out " of many > family gatherings so that I didn't embarrass the > uppers...upperclass's I guess. No one has come right out and said > it, but I struggled to put food on the table for my kids for awhile > when I was putting MYSELF through college and I lived on student > loans and food stamps. I didn't " qualify " to hang out with > the " haves " . Understand my family is all well off...you know I get > angry STILL thinking about those days. Now that I make a wage that > exceeds even my parents, and " have " ...they want me in their lives > more and frankly they can still kiss my ass. I get phone calls now > asking where Ive been and how come I dont come around. I have run > into a few of my brothers friends and it has gotten back to me that > I have passed their approval so to speak. (your sisters hot..when is > she going to join us at the pool etc) It seems I now qualify to hang > out with the haves..frankly they can all kiss my ass. I am the same > person thin as I was fat. I have the same issues and the things I > value. In fact I value friendship more that I have gone through > these years than I think I ever would of had I not. I do not desire > to live and hang around people who think you have to qualify to be > around them. Whether it be checking account size, or waist size. My > friendships are based on the love I see in peoples hearts. > Compassion and acceptance a must. > > ~Kat~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Kat, I know it is what it is with your family. I just wanted to say we love you, and I'm sorry you have such crapy parents!!! The one good thing is you have an AWESOME honey!!!!!!! Hugs!!! > Toi, > > I look back at my life with great sadness actually. I missed so much > of life because I did not go out. I HATED family gatherings. My > weight often became the center of conversation..especially with my > grandmother who is a bean poll. I used to try sooooo hard to get > dressed up and " qualify " to be with everyone else. Only to hear, oh > honey you need to lose some weight..etc. I am not very close to > much of my family as a result. No one could understand my life and > how I felt to live in this body. I have been " left out " of many > family gatherings so that I didn't embarrass the > uppers...upperclass's I guess. No one has come right out and said > it, but I struggled to put food on the table for my kids for awhile > when I was putting MYSELF through college and I lived on student > loans and food stamps. I didn't " qualify " to hang out with > the " haves " . Understand my family is all well off...you know I get > angry STILL thinking about those days. Now that I make a wage that > exceeds even my parents, and " have " ...they want me in their lives > more and frankly they can still kiss my ass. I get phone calls now > asking where Ive been and how come I dont come around. I have run > into a few of my brothers friends and it has gotten back to me that > I have passed their approval so to speak. (your sisters hot..when is > she going to join us at the pool etc) It seems I now qualify to hang > out with the haves..frankly they can all kiss my ass. I am the same > person thin as I was fat. I have the same issues and the things I > value. In fact I value friendship more that I have gone through > these years than I think I ever would of had I not. I do not desire > to live and hang around people who think you have to qualify to be > around them. Whether it be checking account size, or waist size. My > friendships are based on the love I see in peoples hearts. > Compassion and acceptance a must. > > ~Kat~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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