Guest guest Posted February 20, 2003 Report Share Posted February 20, 2003 I had to call my rheumy yesterday, hoping to be able to get in sometime next week (I haven't been feeling too well and just really needed a professional to let me know whether I should worry or not). I was really surprised, my next appointment was March 25 and I didn't know how soon they would be able to see me. They took my name and got back to me telling me I could see him today. Anyway, I did - everything is ok (or as ok as it can get), but I have a decision to make. This is someone new I've been seeing since November and I do like him. He answers all questions, doesn't use too many medical terms, or at least makes sure I understand when he does. He takes his time and asks me about not only about my physical problems, but whether I think I'm handling everything ok. He's also associated with Wood University Hospital, where I really wanted to "get in". Well, he told me he's leaving, opening a private practice and of course it is up to me whether I choose to see another doctor there or follow up with him at the new place. I don't know what to do. I feel real comfortable with him. Should I try another rheumy there for comparison and see what happens - I really did hear very good things about most of the rheumys at that hospital. I know you guys can't tell me what to do either, but I should would like to hear what you think. Mojo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2003 Report Share Posted February 20, 2003 Mojo, gee I dont know what to tell you, but I have noticed that alot of people on the list have sure had a hard time finding a dr they like. You do have a valid point there, you could try someone else and then follow him later if you dont like the other dr. Sorry to be of no help! a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2003 Report Share Posted February 20, 2003 Mojo, gee I dont know what to tell you, but I have noticed that alot of people on the list have sure had a hard time finding a dr they like. You do have a valid point there, you could try someone else and then follow him later if you dont like the other dr. Sorry to be of no help! a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2003 Report Share Posted February 20, 2003 Hi sweetie, I wish I could help answer your question, BUT.... I do know of someone here in the group who also goes to Wood Hosp. Her name is Kerry and she is a dear friend of mine. I know she has been ill but Im sure if you write her at her personal email explaining your decision etc. she maybe able to help you. Her email addy is Kaycee71@... Let me know ok Much Love, Deanna Host & Owner > I had to call my rheumy yesterday, hoping to be able to get in sometime next week (I haven't been feeling too well and just really needed a professional to let me know whether I should worry or not). I was really surprised, my next appointment was March 25 and I didn't know how soon they would be able to see me. They took my name and got back to me telling me I could see him today. Anyway, I did - everything is ok (or as ok as it can get), but I have a decision to make. This is someone new I've been seeing since November and I do like him. He answers all questions, doesn't use too many medical terms, or at least makes sure I understand when he does. He takes his time and asks me about not only about my physical problems, but whether I think I'm handling everything ok. He's also associated with Wood University Hospital, where I really wanted to " get in " . Well, he told me he's leaving, opening a private practice and of course it is up to me whether I choose to see another doctor there or follow up with him at the new place. > I don't know what to do. I feel real comfortable with him. Should I try another rheumy there for comparison and see what happens - I really did hear very good things about most of the rheumys at that hospital. I know you guys can't tell me what to do either, but I should would like to hear what you think. > > Mojo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2003 Report Share Posted February 20, 2003 Hi sweetie, I wish I could help answer your question, BUT.... I do know of someone here in the group who also goes to Wood Hosp. Her name is Kerry and she is a dear friend of mine. I know she has been ill but Im sure if you write her at her personal email explaining your decision etc. she maybe able to help you. Her email addy is Kaycee71@... Let me know ok Much Love, Deanna Host & Owner > I had to call my rheumy yesterday, hoping to be able to get in sometime next week (I haven't been feeling too well and just really needed a professional to let me know whether I should worry or not). I was really surprised, my next appointment was March 25 and I didn't know how soon they would be able to see me. They took my name and got back to me telling me I could see him today. Anyway, I did - everything is ok (or as ok as it can get), but I have a decision to make. This is someone new I've been seeing since November and I do like him. He answers all questions, doesn't use too many medical terms, or at least makes sure I understand when he does. He takes his time and asks me about not only about my physical problems, but whether I think I'm handling everything ok. He's also associated with Wood University Hospital, where I really wanted to " get in " . Well, he told me he's leaving, opening a private practice and of course it is up to me whether I choose to see another doctor there or follow up with him at the new place. > I don't know what to do. I feel real comfortable with him. Should I try another rheumy there for comparison and see what happens - I really did hear very good things about most of the rheumys at that hospital. I know you guys can't tell me what to do either, but I should would like to hear what you think. > > Mojo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Thank you Deanna, I actually think your friend Kerry is the one that recommended this clinic to me a while ago when I asked about good rheumys in my area. I'll write her and see what she thinks. I believe she had to do with a couple of doctors there, but one of them is the head of the department and almost impossible to see. Maybe he'll take me since this one is leaving. Mojo > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 Thank you Deanna, I actually think your friend Kerry is the one that recommended this clinic to me a while ago when I asked about good rheumys in my area. I'll write her and see what she thinks. I believe she had to do with a couple of doctors there, but one of them is the head of the department and almost impossible to see. Maybe he'll take me since this one is leaving. Mojo > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2003 Report Share Posted February 21, 2003 I did all that. It would pretty much be the same distance just in a different direction. When I asked him about insurance, he said don't worry about it. I gather since he's opening his own practice, he probably wants as many patients to start with that he's willing to sign up with different insurance companies and the one I have is generally accepted everywhere. He will no longer be at this hospital, which is a big draw back for me - I really felt safe finally having a good hospital within a short distance I could go to where someone knows me. All my doctors so far have been in New York. I do get great care there, but in an emergency I want something where I can get fast, not get stuck in traffic for three hours. Last October I had to rush to the closest hospital for pancreatitis and that stay was a nightmare. 4 days of strange doctors who had no clue what they were doing, but would not take the time to pick up the phone and call my doctors in New York. What is wrong with them? It got to a point, where I told them I was not being treated at this hospital and would leave because all they were doing was wasting my time. That got their attention. Now they're sending me a bill for $650.00, the insurance said they charged over the customary allowance and I am fighting them on it. That's one of the reasons it is so important for me to make the right decisions. Thanks for the suggestions. I'll think about it and see what I can find out about the other doctors at the division there. Mojo RE: Making a decision > You need to first ask yourself and your doctor a few questions before > making a decision to change doctors. > > 1. Will his new office still be within driving distance to you? > 2. Will his new office still take the insurance you use? > 3. Will he have hospital privileges at the hospital you use now? > > If any of the answers are no, then you must weigh how important that > answer is to you personally. > > Are you able to drive farther away? > If his office doesn't take your insurance, can you afford him? > If he has no hospital privileges, you will have a strange doctor taking > care of you if you are ever hospitalized. Are you willing to take that > option? > > If all these answers are yes .. then follow him. > > If you decide to stay with the group of doctors you are now seeing, talk > to the nurses privately. Tell them you cannot follow your doctor and > need to see another in the group.. ask them which one THEY would go to > if it was them that needed a doctor. > > Most nurses will tell you " don't go to that doctor .. he is a son of a > gun to work for .. but in the end, if they need a good doctor, they will > say .. I don't like him to work with, but he is the best of the bunch so > I would go with him. > > The nurses can help you decide on which of the other doctors to choose. > > > > > > " The LUPIES Store " Come check out our store... > http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies > > " The LUPIES Web Page " > http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html > > " The LUPIES online photo albums! " > Check out what your fellow Lupies look like... > http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?username=lupies > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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