Re: Digest Number 615,Poly

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Dear Poly,

it´s so wonderful to have the support by the group!! Thank you all very

much!!

Concerning to make grow the lining - no, Dr.Putz didn´t say anything to

that. But after the surgery he went to me and my husband, smiling and said

" blessing in disguise " because he ccould remove all the adhesions. Perhaps

he has more hope than me... Today I took the appt. with him (thursday,

31.5.), and I will see what he is thinking of building the lining in my

case.

I phoned him, too, because of the pain I had this weekend. Unfortunately

I couldn´t speak with him, but the woman of his office told me that it could

be possibly caused by the surgery. If pains continue she told me to go to a

gyn (but which?...).

Managing the family - normally it is no problem. Two nurses are helping me

esp. when I´m sick or somehow or other prevented. But just lifting my father

is the problem. He has strong contractures and it is necessary to put him to

bed (correct his position) almost every ten minutes. And that is aching me.

And I can´t go twice an hour asking somebody to do it for me. Perhaps that

was the reason for the pain.

Poly, you asked me if I want to sue my gyn because of malpractice. No, I

don´t want because to my mind it´s the hospital that caused AS to me and

that have made the mistakes. I phoned the hospital for looking my patient

document (idea from Corinna). First they didn´t want to allow me to look at

it. Then after their permission they told me they have lost the

document...one week later they refound it and so I could read it. I learnt

that I was right with my suspicion that everything has begun 1997 after the

delivery of my daughter. They found some pieces of the placenta and a lot of

necrotic tissue. This is certainly the reason they removed too much of the

endometrium at the D & C. So the first mistake was done by the midwife and the

doctor after the delivery. The second by the hospital because they waited 3

weeks to make a D & C because I was told that everything was fine and to their

opinion I only would like to stay in hospital for resting because of my

father... The third mistake was the D & C too strong, but they were forced to

do it because they had waited too long.

And finally my gyn has never told me about the suspicion of AS although it

was noticed on the report from the hospital in febr.1997!!Of course she

never has done anything either. During the last 4 years when I complained

that I could not become pregnant, she answered always: stressed because of

your father...

The same thing happened to me for something else. Since 4 years I went to

different doctors because of vertigo and pain in the face. Every doc told me

to go for a psychological support, all the problems I have are only in my

head because of my father. This year in jan. I took an appt. with a doc whom

I didn´t tell sth. about my situation at home. And wow! Miracle!! I have

(now!) a chronic sinusitis because the nose is completely closed of nasal

polyps, and it´s urgent to operate it as soon as possible. When I told this

doc how long I suffered for this and no doc believed but sent me to

psychologists, he answered me this is the way the most common and the

easiest...

Dear Poly, at the moment I don´t have any idea what I will do later but now

I don´t feel strong enough to sue or other.

Thanks for listening. Perhaps you understand now better why I´m so

distrustful to docs and their opinions.

Best wishes

neSie