Guest guest Posted February 3, 2003 Report Share Posted February 3, 2003 I know what you mean about why people have to say those things to parents of lost children. It makes me mad too and, no matter how many years pass, you never forget the loss of a child or any loved one. A lot others will try to tell you not to talk about it but, when you do, it eases the pain even more. Hon, if she would had lived, she would be a vegetable in a wheel chair and, a preacher eased my pain a long time ago when he told me that God had a bouquet of roses and, he was missing one. I loved that. She is happy where she's at I'm sure and, I will meet her again along with my Daddy and, my Angel Cris. Yes, I do still grieve but, when I think where she is, I feel so much better. Thank you my friend Love Trudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2003 Report Share Posted February 3, 2003 I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2003 Report Share Posted February 3, 2003 I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2003 Report Share Posted February 3, 2003 I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2003 Report Share Posted February 4, 2003 Hi a, You know, my sister had a miscarriage after trying to have babies for so long, too. She never did conceive after that either. I always will wonder if she could have gotten pregnant once, why in the world it couldn't happen for her again. She adopted 2 children after they had been married for 9 years, but she went through so much grief and heartache each month just waiting to get pregnant. Growing up, she always wanted lots of kids and I didn't want any. Things have sure changed since then! Have a good day. Love, Donna Re: To Donna fr Trudy I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a"The LUPIES Store" Come check out our store...http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies"The LUPIES Web Page"http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html"The LUPIES online photo albums!" Check out what your fellow Lupies look like...http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?username=lupies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2003 Report Share Posted February 4, 2003 Hi a, You know, my sister had a miscarriage after trying to have babies for so long, too. She never did conceive after that either. I always will wonder if she could have gotten pregnant once, why in the world it couldn't happen for her again. She adopted 2 children after they had been married for 9 years, but she went through so much grief and heartache each month just waiting to get pregnant. Growing up, she always wanted lots of kids and I didn't want any. Things have sure changed since then! Have a good day. Love, Donna Re: To Donna fr Trudy I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a"The LUPIES Store" Come check out our store...http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies"The LUPIES Web Page"http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html"The LUPIES online photo albums!" Check out what your fellow Lupies look like...http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?username=lupies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2003 Report Share Posted February 4, 2003 Hi a, You know, my sister had a miscarriage after trying to have babies for so long, too. She never did conceive after that either. I always will wonder if she could have gotten pregnant once, why in the world it couldn't happen for her again. She adopted 2 children after they had been married for 9 years, but she went through so much grief and heartache each month just waiting to get pregnant. Growing up, she always wanted lots of kids and I didn't want any. Things have sure changed since then! Have a good day. Love, Donna Re: To Donna fr Trudy I think that time that I got the madest was when I had a miscarriage after 6 years of trying, and it happened on our anniversary, I was just shocked when people were like, oh well, at least now you know that you can get pregnant. That was supposed to make me feel better?! Anyway, God was at least merciful with that part and I didn't get pregnant again all during our adoptions and now in July I had a hysterectomy so no more worries. a"The LUPIES Store" Come check out our store...http://www.cafepress.com/thelupies"The LUPIES Web Page"http://www.itzarion.com/lupusgroup.html"The LUPIES online photo albums!" Check out what your fellow Lupies look like...http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?username=lupies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2003 Report Share Posted February 5, 2003 Donna. If you were not pregnant, would you have SLAPPED this person but good? Well, maybe no man wants her in bed. Love, NOrmi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2003 Report Share Posted February 5, 2003 Donna. If you were not pregnant, would you have SLAPPED this person but good? Well, maybe no man wants her in bed. Love, NOrmi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2003 Report Share Posted February 7, 2003 Yes sweetie the birds tolerate her and, Angel loves her but, Buddy flies away. Eventually, they all will be happy together once she settles down more. Happy you liked them. Love Trudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2003 Report Share Posted February 7, 2003 Yes sweetie the birds tolerate her and, Angel loves her but, Buddy flies away. Eventually, they all will be happy together once she settles down more. Happy you liked them. Love Trudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2003 Report Share Posted February 7, 2003 Yes sweetie the birds tolerate her and, Angel loves her but, Buddy flies away. Eventually, they all will be happy together once she settles down more. Happy you liked them. Love Trudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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