Guest guest Posted September 5, 2007 Report Share Posted September 5, 2007 Yeah, I do try to wait until I cool off and see if it still seems like an "issue", or wait and see if it was a one-time thing or a behavior pattern that I really don't like - for instance, If I'd lost my temper and yelled at him, it probably would have started a big pointless fight - but THIS morning he offered to scramble me some eggs, so he must've taken the hint Glad you are feeling better too! Mikki -----Original Message-----From: IntuitiveEating_Support [mailto:IntuitiveEating_Support ]On Behalf Of alyzu1Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2007 12:57 PMTo: IntuitiveEating_Support Subject: Re: AAAgh! Hoo Boy! This was me, yesterday,lol! I've been working on somesimilar things, and one of the hardest things to do is to let myhusband know when he has hurt me, or when he's behaved in a way thatis NOT OK!!!!!!!!!! My hubby is also a great guy and really helpswith the kids, but sometimes he slacks off. I have to sit him down,after I've calmed down, and spell it out for him. I know, it shouldbe obvious, but many men REALLY need it pointed out to them! Do youhave a female friend or co-worker you can vent to? That's what helpedcalm me down yesterday. There's nothing like having your point of viewvalidated, and sometimes the best man for the job is a woman,lol! [Mikki Behnke] Messages in this topic (0) Reply (via web post) | Start a new topic .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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