Guest guest Posted April 9, 2001 Report Share Posted April 9, 2001 Thanks everyone for your input...my husband and I are going to talk to an infertility counselor tomorrow and hopefully she will be able to help us make this decision. Gwen, you are right...we have started to discuss those questions you posed and I'm sure these are the same questions that the counselor will ask us. I know 50% sounds good, but what about our chances of m/c again? There are so many things to consider, including financial and other stresses. I physically got sick thinking about going back to the RE (I could not keep lunch down, so I mean I really got sick). But, I know that I don't want either of us to have any regrets when all of this is done. It was tough to continue to tell family about our adoption plans with this hanging over our heads - but we had to tell them; otherwise, my husband's mother and brother would have told them, since they knew the purpose of our trip to California this weekend. Anyhow, we did get very excited at the idea of adopting, but mostly at the idea of being parents. I'll let you all know what we decide after we talk to the counselor tomorrow. I have a feeling it might be to do the ivf - but we still have so many questions. Thanks again and I hope everyone else had a good weekend. P.S. Terri I will e-mail you later what I find out about fear of flying. I'm about to go down and ask some people that I think will be able to help...hang in there...I will send you some information today for sure, so check your e-mail! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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