Guest guest Posted January 3, 2001 Report Share Posted January 3, 2001 My dh has been very patient with me, taken care of me and our son when I have been unable to during all of this. My last m/c sent me into zomby zone for a long time. Discovering I had Ashermans sent me into zomby zone for a while, and now after hist/lap all is supposed to be great. OK, let's see; m/c and D/C in June, hist/lap in August, and another one December. Lot's of stuff in a short time. We are consistantly having arguements about how our level of intimacy isn't what it used to be. He tells me I'm not like I used to be. I'm not as 'loving' and attentative to his needs. While I know that he is right, I feel that I have the right to be this way. I am afraid to ttc again after three m/c. One minute we are pg, the next m/c, the next we can't ttc, and now we can ttc. What a roller coaster ride. Historically I handle things great during a crisis and then fall apart afterwards. He claims to be supportive and he is always there through the rough rides. What is wrong with me? I am wondering if I need counseling. To greive, or get over it, or on with it or back to it or something. Am I crazy? I'm tired of fighting with him over this. But I am afraid I am driving him away too. Anyone else feel this way? Am I being unreasonable? How do I get over this and back to where we need to be? Could my lack of interest be physical from the hormones? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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