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I have three suggestions, all of which I've used.

1) Get a workout buddy. If you have someone knocking on your door, you can't say

no.

2) Visualize someone in your life, who is supportive, picking you up from your

chair, and walking you out the door to exercise. You can get into this as much

as you'd like. Such as, one person in your life is getting your keys, and

warming up the car, another person is pulling at you to get out of your chair,

another person is getting your workout clothes. How can you say NO to three

people all pulling at you wanting you to do the same thing. Sound weird? Maybe,

but whatever works.

3) The most difficult part about exercising is going from a resting state to an

active state, I think. I always have alot more difficulty just getting myself to

go do it than I do actually doing it. When I'm finally working out, it feels

good and I enjoy it. So, what I do to get myself to just get out there to do it

is to think about other things and not about the fact that I'm going to

exercise. If my mind is involved in other things and my body is well on its way

to do the workout before I'm even thinking about what I'm doing, by the time I

think about what I'm doing I'm almost finished.

4) Just thought of one more. Come up with a reward you really, really want and

can only have if you lose the weight. Keep that thought in front of you...every

day...to motivate yourself to do what you need to do to lose the weight.

I know many of these probably sound weird, but they've worked for me.

Terri

Loathe Exercise!-Help!

Geez guys, I keep telling myself everyday that I am going to do it but I

don't. I did do it about 4 times last month but then I just didnt keep up with

it. It is not something that I just get excited to do or make time for. Please,

if anyone has any good tips or suggestions, I would love you sharing them with

us all. I know that it is really good for you but I just can't seem to make

myself. I dread it SO much!

Spanking myself for being bad!!!

Tina

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I have three suggestions, all of which I've used.

1) Get a workout buddy. If you have someone knocking on your door, you can't say

no.

2) Visualize someone in your life, who is supportive, picking you up from your

chair, and walking you out the door to exercise. You can get into this as much

as you'd like. Such as, one person in your life is getting your keys, and

warming up the car, another person is pulling at you to get out of your chair,

another person is getting your workout clothes. How can you say NO to three

people all pulling at you wanting you to do the same thing. Sound weird? Maybe,

but whatever works.

3) The most difficult part about exercising is going from a resting state to an

active state, I think. I always have alot more difficulty just getting myself to

go do it than I do actually doing it. When I'm finally working out, it feels

good and I enjoy it. So, what I do to get myself to just get out there to do it

is to think about other things and not about the fact that I'm going to

exercise. If my mind is involved in other things and my body is well on its way

to do the workout before I'm even thinking about what I'm doing, by the time I

think about what I'm doing I'm almost finished.

4) Just thought of one more. Come up with a reward you really, really want and

can only have if you lose the weight. Keep that thought in front of you...every

day...to motivate yourself to do what you need to do to lose the weight.

I know many of these probably sound weird, but they've worked for me.

Terri

Loathe Exercise!-Help!

Geez guys, I keep telling myself everyday that I am going to do it but I

don't. I did do it about 4 times last month but then I just didnt keep up with

it. It is not something that I just get excited to do or make time for. Please,

if anyone has any good tips or suggestions, I would love you sharing them with

us all. I know that it is really good for you but I just can't seem to make

myself. I dread it SO much!

Spanking myself for being bad!!!

Tina

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i used to be exactly like you, I hated the mere thought of exercise! But, I

tried several things out until I found something that I enjoyed and got

hooked. For me it is walking and Tae-Bo tapes, and Kathy tapes...she

is wonderful and has tons of tapes out there with every imaginable need in

mind. THere is something for everyone in her line up. I got hooked on Tae Bo

because it is challenging and FUN! I punch and kick and think of people that

I hate, it's so much stress relief.

But before I found that I liked these things I tried tons of exercises, gave

them all a few days to a week, then knew it wasn't for me...didn't hold my

attention, wasn't enjoyable, whatever. Eventually I found what I like and

now just try to rotate and vary them. I suggest trying different things, no

committments to stick forever, and eventually you will find things that you

can get into. This may not work for you, but it did for me!

Theresa

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just wanted to add one important key: don't let time lapse between not

liking one and starting another. Just keep going, keep changing until you

find some things to do regularly. This way you're still losing weight while

you're searching.

Theresa

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just wanted to add one important key: don't let time lapse between not

liking one and starting another. Just keep going, keep changing until you

find some things to do regularly. This way you're still losing weight while

you're searching.

Theresa

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I think repitition is the key to maintaining on a new eating program or exercise

, whatever it is your trying to take control of.....the first day is hard, it is

HELL but then the second is just a bit easier then 3rd even better and so on and

so forth, i have been on WW now for 14 days now and i have lost 14 pounds, I did

not think I would ever loose any weight, but i found if i took it one day at a

time, kept my journal, my food diary, religiously every day, it would work, I

started exercising on my eliptical traineronly maybe 2 mins at a time it was all

i could do then wnet to 3 and so on you know the story hehe....now i am addicted

to exericising and eating right ( i mean in a good way), the more you stick with

somthing, the more you want to keep on the right track, just take it one day at

a time, dont over think things, and it will happen for you, i know you can do

it, justu belive in yourself, and be your biggest fan, you can only do it for

you, noone else and until you are ready to do it for you, your not ready....dont

start out with a boot camp type regimen i have noticed sevral posters doing that

here, that is very dangerous esp if your very outof shape like the women who

over heated, start slow your body is not ready for boot camp yet, all the ideas

here seem great, just pic what works for you and go for it :)

stacy/akira

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That sounds like a wonderful idea Theresa. You know my son had a punching bag

and when I would get so frustrated and angry at the ex I would punch it and it

surely did help get all my frustrations out. Maybe I should try something like

that. I think my sister has those tapes. I do love the Sansone tapes but

I did get a little bored. Of course I only did the 1 mile walk. I have just

started working and that is the kind of exercise that I love, Work!

Tina

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i used to be exactly like you, I hated the mere thought of exercise! But, I

tried several things out until I found something that I enjoyed and got

hooked. For me it is walking and Tae-Bo tapes, and Kathy tapes...she

is wonderful and has tons of tapes out there with every imaginable need in

mind. THere is something for everyone in her line up. I got hooked on Tae Bo

because it is challenging and FUN! I punch and kick and think of people that

I hate, it's so much stress relief.

But before I found that I liked these things I tried tons of exercises, gave

them all a few days to a week, then knew it wasn't for me...didn't hold my

attention, wasn't enjoyable, whatever. Eventually I found what I like and

now just try to rotate and vary them. I suggest trying different things, no

committments to stick forever, and eventually you will find things that you

can get into. This may not work for you, but it did for me!

Theresa

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That sounds like a wonderful idea Theresa. You know my son had a punching bag

and when I would get so frustrated and angry at the ex I would punch it and it

surely did help get all my frustrations out. Maybe I should try something like

that. I think my sister has those tapes. I do love the Sansone tapes but

I did get a little bored. Of course I only did the 1 mile walk. I have just

started working and that is the kind of exercise that I love, Work!

Tina

Re: Loathe Exercise!-Help!

i used to be exactly like you, I hated the mere thought of exercise! But, I

tried several things out until I found something that I enjoyed and got

hooked. For me it is walking and Tae-Bo tapes, and Kathy tapes...she

is wonderful and has tons of tapes out there with every imaginable need in

mind. THere is something for everyone in her line up. I got hooked on Tae Bo

because it is challenging and FUN! I punch and kick and think of people that

I hate, it's so much stress relief.

But before I found that I liked these things I tried tons of exercises, gave

them all a few days to a week, then knew it wasn't for me...didn't hold my

attention, wasn't enjoyable, whatever. Eventually I found what I like and

now just try to rotate and vary them. I suggest trying different things, no

committments to stick forever, and eventually you will find things that you

can get into. This may not work for you, but it did for me!

Theresa

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Thanks for the tips. Tina

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just wanted to add one important key: don't let time lapse between not

liking one and starting another. Just keep going, keep changing until you

find some things to do regularly. This way you're still losing weight while

you're searching.

Theresa

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Thanks for the tips. Tina

Re: Loathe Exercise!-Help!

just wanted to add one important key: don't let time lapse between not

liking one and starting another. Just keep going, keep changing until you

find some things to do regularly. This way you're still losing weight while

you're searching.

Theresa

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Thanks so much . I have been battling this exercise hatred all of my life.

I am 46, soon to be 47 in Oct. I did the walking tapes for about 5 days but it

didnt make any difference to me. I have always had this problem with this issue.

I know it takes commitment and I just dont have it. I just have to keep trying I

guess.

Thanks, Tina ps..........I will try again sunday or soon. Where's Ang, I

know she can relate to this! LOL

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I think repitition is the key to maintaining on a new eating program or

exercise , whatever it is your trying to take control of.....the first day is

hard, it is HELL but then the second is just a bit easier then 3rd even better

and so on and so forth, i have been on WW now for 14 days now and i have lost 14

pounds, I did not think I would ever loose any weight, but i found if i took it

one day at a time, kept my journal, my food diary, religiously every day, it

would work, I started exercising on my eliptical traineronly maybe 2 mins at a

time it was all i could do then wnet to 3 and so on you know the story

hehe....now i am addicted to exericising and eating right ( i mean in a good

way), the more you stick with somthing, the more you want to keep on the right

track, just take it one day at a time, dont over think things, and it will

happen for you, i know you can do it, justu belive in yourself, and be your

biggest fan, you can only do it for you, noone else and until you are ready to

do it for you, your n

stacy/akira

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Thanks so much . I have been battling this exercise hatred all of my life.

I am 46, soon to be 47 in Oct. I did the walking tapes for about 5 days but it

didnt make any difference to me. I have always had this problem with this issue.

I know it takes commitment and I just dont have it. I just have to keep trying I

guess.

Thanks, Tina ps..........I will try again sunday or soon. Where's Ang, I

know she can relate to this! LOL

Re: Loathe Exercise!-Help!

I think repitition is the key to maintaining on a new eating program or

exercise , whatever it is your trying to take control of.....the first day is

hard, it is HELL but then the second is just a bit easier then 3rd even better

and so on and so forth, i have been on WW now for 14 days now and i have lost 14

pounds, I did not think I would ever loose any weight, but i found if i took it

one day at a time, kept my journal, my food diary, religiously every day, it

would work, I started exercising on my eliptical traineronly maybe 2 mins at a

time it was all i could do then wnet to 3 and so on you know the story

hehe....now i am addicted to exericising and eating right ( i mean in a good

way), the more you stick with somthing, the more you want to keep on the right

track, just take it one day at a time, dont over think things, and it will

happen for you, i know you can do it, justu belive in yourself, and be your

biggest fan, you can only do it for you, noone else and until you are ready to

do it for you, your n

stacy/akira

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Thanks so much for the tips Terry. I do appreciate it. I really like # 4. lol

Tina

Loathe Exercise!-Help!

Geez guys, I keep telling myself everyday that I am going to do it but I

don't. I did do it about 4 times last month but then I just didnt keep up with

it. It is not something that I just get excited to do or make time for. Please,

if anyone has any good tips or suggestions, I would love you sharing them with

us all. I know that it is really good for you but I just can't seem to make

myself. I dread it SO much!

Spanking myself for being bad!!!

Tina

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Thanks so much for the tips Terry. I do appreciate it. I really like # 4. lol

Tina

Loathe Exercise!-Help!

Geez guys, I keep telling myself everyday that I am going to do it but I

don't. I did do it about 4 times last month but then I just didnt keep up with

it. It is not something that I just get excited to do or make time for. Please,

if anyone has any good tips or suggestions, I would love you sharing them with

us all. I know that it is really good for you but I just can't seem to make

myself. I dread it SO much!

Spanking myself for being bad!!!

Tina

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Tina, if that's what you like, try the Tae-Bo, but i also recommend a couple

others that I have and love: Kathy 's " kickboxing workout " , and

" Boxout, the new way to exercise " , that one is lead by Sugar Ray Leonard.

Theresa

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Ang....just commit to 10 minutes one day then! And really do it! Then you

can slowly up that and before you know it you will be doing much more than

you ever imagined! Believe in yourself....YOU CAN DO IT!! Just keep telling

yourself that: I'm strong and I can DO IT

Theresa

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Me too...

Well, I suppose I could do it once a week, just as a starter. Not a

whole 1/2 hour though....that's just going to far! Let's see, it

takes maybe 10 mints to do floor exersices. I think I could commit

to 10 mints a week. You?

If we can do 10 mints a week - that's only 1 day - and we could keep

it up without fail till the end of the month....I bet by then we

wouldn't be so afraid to go for double that next. Ya think?

Hey - walking fast at the mall should count as a bonus too.

And we need excuses...oh, I meen, reasons that we can back out...no,

I meen reasons that would make it ok if we just absolutely could not

do it. Hmmm...ok, if your b-day or aniversary falls in that week -

your off the hook. If your sick for at least 3 days out of the week -

you can renig without consequence.

Oh - we need consequence....ok, if we don't do it, we have to do

double the next week.

10 mints doens't seem long enough, I know...but I also know that

anything more than 10 mints and I'd have to make it a 2 day thing -

split it up. I just don't think I can commit to 2 days yet. I'm so

bad....

Ang (to)

> Geez guys, I keep telling myself everyday that I am going to do it

but I don't. I did do it about 4 times last month but then I just

didnt keep up with it. It is not something that I just get excited to

do or make time for. Please, if anyone has any good tips or

suggestions, I would love you sharing them with us all. I know that

it is really good for you but I just can't seem to make myself. I

dread it SO much!

>

> Spanking myself for being bad!!!

> Tina

>

>

>

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> Thanks, Tina ps..........I will try again sunday or soon.

Where's Ang, I know she can relate to this! LOL

I'm here :-)

Just can't possibly reply to all anymore - my arm is realy acting

crazy. I know my hearts ok, so I stopped worrying ... but it's

worse! I had the sudden horrible thought today, rmember that

diabetics can loose limbs. My husband use to always tell me I'd turn

myself into a sugar diabet the way I ate nothing but sugar.

It's my elbow down now instead of just the pinky finger. And it's

only been a few days. No clue. Guess I should call the doc an make

an appointment. No way I can afford more testsa though - so don't

see the point.

Ya know what...aobut the exerscie - we realy do HAVE to soon. I

meen by the end of the year, only 3 months away, we need to be doing

a 3 time a week program for a decent amount of time. Gonna have to

build ourselves up to it.

We'll have to start measureing before and all during so we can see

the progress. I for one won't do something I hat4e unles I see

improvements or rewards.

Ang

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I know it takes commitment and I just dont have it. I just have to

keep trying I guess.

> Thanks,

Tina, Just DO IT as the saying goes... and remember " 30 days a habit

makes " .... you can make a new habit.... a good one. STart by

telling yourself you love to exercise! Here's a few favorite quotes:

Sow a thought, reap an action

Sow an action, reap a habit

Sow a habit, reap a character

Sow a character, reap a destiny!

What the mind of [a person] can conceive and believe, the mind of [a

person] can achieve.

Napoleon Hill

" Never, never, never quit. " Winston Churchill

" Quitters never win and winners never quit! "

Well, I hope these help! put them on post-it notes and stick them

around the house to motivate yourself!

be blessed!

{{{{{hugs}}}}}

Joanne

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> We'll have to start measureing before and all during so we can see

> the progress. I for one won't do something I hat4e unles I see

> improvements or rewards.

> Ang

Ang,

Exercising is a FAST reward thing for me. you will see results

quickly and even if you don't lose weight, which you will... you will

drop a size fast. I lost 13 inches in 9 weeks!!! That's fast

resutls!!! Here's why I do it... lean muscle burns more calories at

rest then fat!!! I figured if I built up my muscles, then my body

would be more efficient, and at some point I'll just be a fat buring

machine! (I'm hoping this happens when I hit 145 and go from

overweight to average!) I spend a lot of time sitting and want my

body to be the most efficient it can be. It just made sense to me!

Joanne

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Hi,

I recently read a suggestion for people who loathe exercise. I don't know if

it will help or not.

Be sure to do a 5 minute " cool down " at the end of exercise. Here's the

reason they gave:

If you don¹t cool down you will feel rotten. (I feel rotten if I don¹t do a

cool down, so this seems true.)

You tend to remember how you felt at the end of exercise, so you learn to

hate exercise.

Anyway, forcing yourself to do the cool down during your next few sessions

may help. It's worth a try.

I also think that if you loathe exercise, it's best to start at a slow pace.

If you push yourself too hard, you will hate it. The best thing is to

develop the habit of exercise. Do it at least 4 times a week. Later on,

consider pushing yourself-- but only after you no longer hate the whole

idea.

Lucia

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http://www.thedietdiary.com/diet/myProgress/ResultsPlan1.html

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On 9/21/02 7:16 AM, " weightlossbuddies2 "

<weightlossbuddies2 > wrote:

> Ang....just commit to 10 minutes one day then! And really do it! Then you

> can slowly up that and before you know it you will be doing much more than

> you ever imagined! Believe in yourself....YOU CAN DO IT!! Just keep telling

> yourself that: I'm strong and I can DO IT

When I started weight training, I did about 10 minutes 3 times a week. I now

do about 30 minutes 3 times a week.

If I'd started with too much, I would have quit. Now I like it.

Do what you can!

Lucia

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http://www.thedietdiary.com/diet/myProgress/ResultsPlan1.html

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Yep - that's right. Now - if I do it today, I'll get it in for this

past week still. Fingers crossed....hmmm...walking briskly for 10

mints count? I could do that with the little one.

Ang

> Ang....just commit to 10 minutes one day then! And really do it!

Then you

> can slowly up that and before you know it you will be doing much

more than

> you ever imagined! Believe in yourself....YOU CAN DO IT!! Just

keep telling

> yourself that: I'm strong and I can DO IT

>

> Theresa

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I wonder if I could get results without the cardio. Just weights and

flooor exersices?

> > We'll have to start measureing before and all during so we can

see

> > the progress. I for one won't do something I hat4e unles I see

> > improvements or rewards.

> > Ang

>

> Ang,

> Exercising is a FAST reward thing for me. you will see results

> quickly and even if you don't lose weight, which you will... you

will

> drop a size fast. I lost 13 inches in 9 weeks!!! That's fast

> resutls!!! Here's why I do it... lean muscle burns more calories

at

> rest then fat!!! I figured if I built up my muscles, then my body

> would be more efficient, and at some point I'll just be a fat

buring

> machine! (I'm hoping this happens when I hit 145 and go from

> overweight to average!) I spend a lot of time sitting and want my

> body to be the most efficient it can be. It just made sense to me!

> Joanne

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Thanks Theresa. I will look into that. Tina

Re: Loathe Exercise!-Help!

Tina, if that's what you like, try the Tae-Bo, but i also recommend a couple

others that I have and love: Kathy 's " kickboxing workout " , and

" Boxout, the new way to exercise " , that one is lead by Sugar Ray Leonard.

Theresa

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