Guest guest Posted March 27, 1999 Report Share Posted March 27, 1999 - Thanks for sharing that very special moment with us. Laurie .L. wrote: > > > I was touched by your story, especially because I live it too.My son is > more like a 6 month old than 20 months, he is immobile and nonverbal but > does this hinder his ability to be a loving, social being? Far from it! > He has amazed me and everyone who meets him.All the nurses and docs we > encounter fall in love with him.The nurses from my town come to the city > when he is in because they miss him!He has single-handedly brought > members of my family who had not talked to each other for years, back > together and reunited me with my mom, which I thought was a relationship > that could'nt be mended.He lights up a room when he smiles and has love > for everyone who even looks his way!He makes people feel good in a world > where there can be so much bad.One experience really hit me......we were > at our metabolic clinic appointment in the city and while we were > waiting in the play area a 15 yr old boy wheeled himself in.He was using > his feet and had his head down.He was a patient on the ward and had > obviously had extensive brain surgery.His scalp was all scars.There were > other parents and kids in the room and they all started acting wary.The > ones who knew him(he is a long time resident of this ward) were trying > to convince him to leave and return to his room.I was shocked!Anyway > Jonah is watching him and as soon as the boy makes eye contact with him > his face lit up smiling.The boy wheeled over and slurrily asked if he > could give Jonah a toy.I of course said yes and for the next 20 min they > interacted with one another.The boy told me he looks scary and kids are > afraid of him because of his scars.I said that Jonah didn't seem scared > and he looked so sad for a minute and then he hung his head.I was > starting to get a big lump in my throat when all of a sudden Jonah > reached up (this is rare) and placed both hands on this boys head and > began to rub one of the scars with his thumb.The boy looked up with a > smile of such joy and said you are right! He isn't scared!I swear I > barely kept the tears in!It may be a little wacky of me but it seemed > like Jonah understood on some level what this boy needed and gave it to > him.Despite his disabilities, Jonah connected withthis boy.Well, my > novel is over.......Thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 1999 Report Share Posted March 27, 1999 - Thanks for sharing that very special moment with us. Laurie .L. wrote: > > > I was touched by your story, especially because I live it too.My son is > more like a 6 month old than 20 months, he is immobile and nonverbal but > does this hinder his ability to be a loving, social being? Far from it! > He has amazed me and everyone who meets him.All the nurses and docs we > encounter fall in love with him.The nurses from my town come to the city > when he is in because they miss him!He has single-handedly brought > members of my family who had not talked to each other for years, back > together and reunited me with my mom, which I thought was a relationship > that could'nt be mended.He lights up a room when he smiles and has love > for everyone who even looks his way!He makes people feel good in a world > where there can be so much bad.One experience really hit me......we were > at our metabolic clinic appointment in the city and while we were > waiting in the play area a 15 yr old boy wheeled himself in.He was using > his feet and had his head down.He was a patient on the ward and had > obviously had extensive brain surgery.His scalp was all scars.There were > other parents and kids in the room and they all started acting wary.The > ones who knew him(he is a long time resident of this ward) were trying > to convince him to leave and return to his room.I was shocked!Anyway > Jonah is watching him and as soon as the boy makes eye contact with him > his face lit up smiling.The boy wheeled over and slurrily asked if he > could give Jonah a toy.I of course said yes and for the next 20 min they > interacted with one another.The boy told me he looks scary and kids are > afraid of him because of his scars.I said that Jonah didn't seem scared > and he looked so sad for a minute and then he hung his head.I was > starting to get a big lump in my throat when all of a sudden Jonah > reached up (this is rare) and placed both hands on this boys head and > began to rub one of the scars with his thumb.The boy looked up with a > smile of such joy and said you are right! He isn't scared!I swear I > barely kept the tears in!It may be a little wacky of me but it seemed > like Jonah understood on some level what this boy needed and gave it to > him.Despite his disabilities, Jonah connected withthis boy.Well, my > novel is over.......Thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 1999 Report Share Posted March 27, 1999 - Thanks for sharing that very special moment with us. Laurie .L. wrote: > > > I was touched by your story, especially because I live it too.My son is > more like a 6 month old than 20 months, he is immobile and nonverbal but > does this hinder his ability to be a loving, social being? Far from it! > He has amazed me and everyone who meets him.All the nurses and docs we > encounter fall in love with him.The nurses from my town come to the city > when he is in because they miss him!He has single-handedly brought > members of my family who had not talked to each other for years, back > together and reunited me with my mom, which I thought was a relationship > that could'nt be mended.He lights up a room when he smiles and has love > for everyone who even looks his way!He makes people feel good in a world > where there can be so much bad.One experience really hit me......we were > at our metabolic clinic appointment in the city and while we were > waiting in the play area a 15 yr old boy wheeled himself in.He was using > his feet and had his head down.He was a patient on the ward and had > obviously had extensive brain surgery.His scalp was all scars.There were > other parents and kids in the room and they all started acting wary.The > ones who knew him(he is a long time resident of this ward) were trying > to convince him to leave and return to his room.I was shocked!Anyway > Jonah is watching him and as soon as the boy makes eye contact with him > his face lit up smiling.The boy wheeled over and slurrily asked if he > could give Jonah a toy.I of course said yes and for the next 20 min they > interacted with one another.The boy told me he looks scary and kids are > afraid of him because of his scars.I said that Jonah didn't seem scared > and he looked so sad for a minute and then he hung his head.I was > starting to get a big lump in my throat when all of a sudden Jonah > reached up (this is rare) and placed both hands on this boys head and > began to rub one of the scars with his thumb.The boy looked up with a > smile of such joy and said you are right! He isn't scared!I swear I > barely kept the tears in!It may be a little wacky of me but it seemed > like Jonah understood on some level what this boy needed and gave it to > him.Despite his disabilities, Jonah connected withthis boy.Well, my > novel is over.......Thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 1999 Report Share Posted March 28, 1999 Hi, When I was pregnant with our son I never felt movement. Even though our son is still going through testing for mito I thoought I would share that with you. Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 1999 Report Share Posted March 28, 1999 Hi, When I was pregnant with our son I never felt movement. Even though our son is still going through testing for mito I thoought I would share that with you. Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 1999 Report Share Posted March 28, 1999 Hi, When I was pregnant with our son I never felt movement. Even though our son is still going through testing for mito I thoought I would share that with you. Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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