Maybe I should switch to men

March 16, 2000

Crew

Josh once asked if a women would be interested in a relation ship with a guy

with nf2.I don't know about ALL women,but I'm batting 0 for 3 this year.

1.I asked my friend,Hillary, of 9 yrs out.We have flirted for along time.

Ah,Her reply " well I don't know,how long do you have to live " Well,in the end

she decided no,cuz I'm a walking dead man.

2.I met this girl,,on aim.She does not live that far from

me(40min).She kept asking to meet me.I figured I should clue her in alittle

on my health.So then she stopped asking to meet.One day I asked her " why you

never ask to meet me anymore " Her answer, " to behonest,I'm afraid to meet

you,I wouldn't know how to act around someone like you,I might offend

you " .Lucky I didn't tell her ALL my health problems,she might have left the

country.

3.Today,feeling fiesty after Hooters,I asked my friend of 9

years,Janelle,out.Her reply, " but jimmy your dying " .

I'm sticking to crewbettes(nf2girls).Although I got an offer once to try

cyber sex with some guy.

Jimmy

March 18, 2000

Hi Jimmy,

I had to answer you letter about maybe switching to men.I know how you

feel..I am totally disgusted to, most of the time.The guys up here as soon as

they find out your hearing impaired or have NF2 they cannot leave fast

enough...I cannot tell you of all the stories of the men that have Imed

looking at my profile and tell me they liked it and wanted to know what a

differntly abled domestic godess was.Thats what I put down for my profession

and I tell them what differntly abled means and there goooooone or they say

WOOOOO sorry to bother you.....It seems when you are hearing impaired and

have other inconvienences that your DEAD insideNOT!!!!!TRUE...so...I am alone

and I know how you feel...

People make me so darn mad at times.....I am seriously looking to get in a

relationship soon...I am tired of being alone..it SUX,at least thats my

thoughts.

I did have a relationship a while ago,we broke up last fall.He seemed nice at

first and also was hearing impaired,but he could still function in a hearing

world with out asistive devices but he did use in the ear hearing aids and

that worked good for him.Well anyhow he turned out to be an A double S and a

JERK.I went on vacation last fall with my son and sister and grandmother and

we went to michigan for a week and when I was gone I found out he was a

playing....and he went playing in love@aol and was seeing woman and tried to

make me believe that ,that was a womans address that wanted to buy some

pictures from him,he was a professional photographer...What an ass#$ & le..He

thought I was a DUMBSHIT,he was!!!! I said BYE....I dont need any players

Well anyhow just to let you know,I know how you feel and I am sure its many

of us out here that feel the same.Oh yea Jimmy wanted to let you know that I

had an offer once from a bisexual woman to go to bed with her husband while

she watched...she IMed me...I was in shock at first...I thought woe...this

stuff really goes on...YUK...buch of wierdos out there

Lana

March 18, 2000

In a message dated 3/18/2000 6:04:31 PM Eastern Standard Time,

HandsomeJimmy@... writes:

<< I'm having great results lying like this,does anyone else totally

lie about their health problems(or lack of) >>

Nope... and actually, my fiance knew about my health troubles before we met

(I met him online). He read my homepage before we even got to know each

other well... and I was amazed that it didn't scare him off. There are some

good people out there!

A.

March 18, 2000

Hey Jimmy,

You sorta have to hang in there. I met my wife after I had NF2. She has met a

lot of people with NF2

since and does not see it as a major problem. Actually, NF2 is a 'major

problem' but I guess it

depends on how you look at it. Keep your chin up and I'm sure you will find a

lovely young lady.

You are " handsome " right??

PS what makes you feel you should switch to men??

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Crew

Josh once asked if a women would be interested in a relation ship with a guy

with nf2.I don't know about ALL women,but I'm batting 0 for 3 this year.

1.I asked my friend,Hillary, of 9 yrs out.We have flirted for along time.

Ah,Her reply " well I don't know,how long do you have to live " Well,in the end

she decided no,cuz I'm a walking dead man.

2.I met this girl,,on aim.She does not live that far from

me(40min).She kept asking to meet me.I figured I should clue her in alittle

on my health.So then she stopped asking to meet.One day I asked her " why you

never ask to meet me anymore " Her answer, " to behonest,I'm afraid to meet

you,I wouldn't know how to act around someone like you,I might offend

you " .Lucky I didn't tell her ALL my health problems,she might have left the

country.

3.Today,feeling fiesty after Hooters,I asked my friend of 9

years,Janelle,out.Her reply, " but jimmy your dying " .

I'm sticking to crewbettes(nf2girls).Although I got an offer once to try

cyber sex with some guy.

Jimmy

March 18, 2000

and all

I have been ditched,on im,when I tell the truth,soooooo many times that I

now lie BIGTIME.I have assumed my sisters identity(minus the

husband:).Ah,yes,I'm A graduate of OSU,and I'm currently a social worker foe

people with substance abuse problems.After that I wing it,only truth about

myself is my name.Well,so far I've met three young women.Not only do they

stick around,but I'm also a " nice guy " , " thankyou for talking to me " , " your

picture is niiiice:) " .Ah,the usual replies(after giving little honest

personal info) " I'm not interested " , " bye " , " why aren't you smiling " .So ,I have

a question,is it morally wrong to lie to these folks.Sure lying is wrong,but

all I'm looking for is ladies(Idont trust guys I don't know,I been hit on a

few times)to chat with.I'm not looking for love or nothing,from complete

strangers.I'm having great results lying like this,does anyone else totally

lie about their health problems(or lack of)

Jimmy

P.S. ,I was thinking most men would hump a post,so I'd be better off

going " that way " .Rest assured I was kidding.Ain't no way I'd give up on

women,Bill Clinton will wat before " handsomeJimmy "

UPS.I send around the picture on the crew web page to people i meet on icq.

> Hey Jimmy,

>

> You sorta have to hang in there. I met my wife after I had NF2. She has

met a lot of people with NF2

> since and does not see it as a major problem. Actually, NF2 is a 'major

problem' but I guess it

> depends on how you look at it. Keep your chin up and I'm sure you will

find a lovely young lady.

> You are " handsome " right??

>

> PS what makes you feel you should switch to men??

>

> ==================

>

March 19, 2000

Hi Jimmy,

I get a lot of " why aren't you smiling " questions too. I think it's better that

people ask that instead of sit back and assume all kinds of strange things. When

someones asks me, I say that my deafness is caused by a problem on the hearing

nerve. Unfortunately, the facial nerve is very close so when my hearing nerve

was damaged, so was the facial nerve.

I think most people appreciate the explanation because they think smiling just

occurs naturally. We know it does not of course so they learn something new. I

think it's a good idea to avoid the word " tumor " at first. That word does scare

people. Perhaps because it's often associated with " cancer " . I generally wait

till I know a person fairly well before I mention tumors. In general, I think

it's better that people ask questions. It may not be a good idea to try and give

all the details in one sitting.

Whatever happens Jimmy, best of luck in meeting the right woman!

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From: Jimmy

Sent: Saturday, March 18, 2000 6:03 PM

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Subject: Re: Maybe I should switch to men