Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! > Oh, and replying to my own post here, (remember the old rule that you are not a full member of PA until you have misspelled your own name and replied to your own post? Do our newbies know this important information?), let me add that I do not intend to continue seeing this counselor. It's a waste of time and money. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 Are you looking for a new counselor? B Crazy as a Loon! I had a counselling session with Lou yesterday. He has $15, is two months behind in his rent and the bank is calling him about his car payment. He thinks he may lose his car. He feels that I should get a job so that I can help him out. Or I should tell my parents to give him a couple thousand dollars because I kept the tax refunds two years in a row. The first year I kept the refund to replace our fifty year old furnace; the next year he forced me to agree to give him the money by withholding child support from me until I did. My lawyer advised me not to give him the refund; she said, " He'll owe it to you soon enough. " He did not pay child support for two months last year and he was never able to pay the full amount of support. He owes me at least five thousand dollars so how do I owe him two thousand? Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! My parents have told me not to give him any of the money that they give to me. They do not want him to move back in. My lawyer agrees. He only got around to applying for any social services when he was down to $25. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 YI YI YI One wonders about that man. I'M THANKFUL FOR LAUGHTER, JOY AND THE HIGH SPIRITED GLEE THAT FILLS MY HEART TO OVERFLOWING (SIGH). -EEYORE Crazy as a Loon! I had a counselling session with Lou yesterday. He has $15, is two months behind in his rent and the bank is calling him about his car payment. He thinks he may lose his car. He feels that I should get a job so that I can help him out. Or I should tell my parents to give him a couple thousand dollars because I kept the tax refunds two years in a row. The first year I kept the refund to replace our fifty year old furnace; the next year he forced me to agree to give him the money by withholding child support from me until I did. My lawyer advised me not to give him the refund; she said, " He'll owe it to you soon enough. " He did not pay child support for two months last year and he was never able to pay the full amount of support. He owes me at least five thousand dollars so how do I owe him two thousand? Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! My parents have told me not to give him any of the money that they give to me. They do not want him to move back in. My lawyer agrees. He only got around to applying for any social services when he was down to $25. Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 Once again responding to my own post! Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, and giving that money to him. ?????????????? Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money then. " ?????????????????? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 I have a better idea..how about Lou getting a job..so he can help you out..you know...the one who takes care of five kids and manages the house 24/7! Mimi --- bunnytiner wrote: > I had a counselling session with Lou yesterday. > > He has $15, is two months behind in his rent and the > bank is calling him about his car payment. He > thinks he may lose his car. > > He feels that I should get a job so that I can help > him out. > > Or I should tell my parents to give him a couple > thousand dollars because I kept the tax refunds two > years in a row. The first year I kept the refund to > replace our fifty year old furnace; the next year he > forced me to agree to give him the money by > withholding child support from me until I did. My > lawyer advised me not to give him the refund; she > said, " He'll owe it to you soon enough. " > > He did not pay child support for two months last > year and he was never able to pay the full amount of > support. He owes me at least five thousand dollars > so how do I owe him two thousand? > > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou > should move back in. No way! > > My parents have told me not to give him any of the > money that they give to me. They do not want him to > move back in. My lawyer agrees. > > He only got around to applying for any social > services when he was down to $25. > > Salli > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 the man is COMPLETELY insane. ugh... Autism is not the end of the World. . . . just the beginning of a new one. - Sally Meyer Combine all your instant messengers into one easy application! www.trillian.cc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! I have an idea. How about Lou move in with the counselor? I don't believe this man. Does it bother him at all that he is not supporting his children? Why is it that YOU can go out and get a job to support him but HE can't go out and get a job to support himself, never mind his children?????????? This counselor..... got her degree at 7-11, huh? Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > I had a counselling session with Lou yesterday. > > He has $15, is two months behind in his rent and the bank is calling him about his car payment. He thinks he may lose his car. > > He feels that I should get a job so that I can help him out. > > > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. > OMG!!!! <thud> sorry that was my jaw hitting the floor Salli. I cannot believe the counsellor seriously suggested Lou move back in!! Is this your regular counsellor?? If so I would be asking them if he/she has ever actually LISTENED to you . I know you won't give him any money but I'll say it anyway, SALLI DON'T GIVE HIM ANY MONEY!!! Ali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 >>> Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! <<<<< Your counselor is nuts. Let Lou move in with her. Don't give him one red cent. I wish you didn't have to deal with this, Salli. Honestly, for all you put up with, you should get a medal, or a big fat cash reward. Tuna *****************Get more from the Web. FREE MSN Explorer download : http://explorer.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 He wants to take services away from Putter?!?! Where is he, I want to go kick his ass. Tuna Re: Crazy as a Loon! Once again responding to my own post! Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, and giving that money to him. ?????????????? Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money then. " ?????????????????? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 Move in with you? Give him money? Any money? I don't think so! He made his own bed. He can just go lie in it. You reap what you sow and boy did he sow a alot of messy stuff. Those are his problems not yours. Don't you even consider buying into it for a moment. He earned every bit of his troubles. Let him wallow in it. who has no sympathy what-so-ever for Louser Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 Oooh! Oooh! I know! Pick me! 'Kay. You won't give him the money 'cause...um...wait a minute, I know this one...it's either 'cause he's a flaming idiot who doesn't know how to use money wisely and doesn't deserve it in the first place, or 'cause you actually have a family that you have to support and care for on the small amount of money you have, right? Did you laugh at him for asking such a ridiculous thing? B Re: Crazy as a Loon! Once again responding to my own post! Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, and giving that money to him. ?????????????? Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money then. " ?????????????????? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > > > Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a > month, > > and giving that money to him. > > > Psycho! That's not economizing - that's just plain stupid!! He'd sacrifice Putter instead of getting his own job?? How very selfish! Kerri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 WHAT?????????!!!!!!! THAT IS ABSOLUTELY NUTS!!!!! Tamara --- bunnytiner wrote: > I had a counselling session with Lou yesterday. > > He has $15, is two months behind in his rent and the > bank is calling him about his car payment. He > thinks he may lose his car. > > He feels that I should get a job so that I can help > him out. > > Or I should tell my parents to give him a couple > thousand dollars because I kept the tax refunds two > years in a row. The first year I kept the refund to > replace our fifty year old furnace; the next year he > forced me to agree to give him the money by > withholding child support from me until I did. My > lawyer advised me not to give him the refund; she > said, " He'll owe it to you soon enough. " > > He did not pay child support for two months last > year and he was never able to pay the full amount of > support. He owes me at least five thousand dollars > so how do I owe him two thousand? > > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou > should move back in. No way! > > My parents have told me not to give him any of the > money that they give to me. They do not want him to > move back in. My lawyer agrees. > > He only got around to applying for any social > services when he was down to $25. > > Salli > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > ===== Tamara mom to : Ebony, 4 yrs -- asd, ADHD, bi-polar , 1 year wife to: Terry, love of my life __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 I think it is time for Lou to get a job. And if one dont cut it, he needs to get a second one. But asking you or your family for money is unbelievable. And moving back in is outrageous. Cant find any words. Poor Salli n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! > Here's MY brilliant suggestion: NEVER go back to see this quack again. What POSSIBLE reason did she offer for having Lou move back IN with you???? (would SHE let a white-collar criminal with a tendancy toward domestic violence who previously was the subject of a restraining order move back into HER home???) ACK!!!!! Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 > Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, > and giving that money to him. Psycho! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 >>let me add that I do not intend to continue seeing this counselor. It's a waste of time and money. I'm really glad you said that, and I'm really glad I read it before I called the counselor all those bad names. Oh, what a mess. I'm so sorry. Please keep safe. All of you are always in my prayers. Even Lou. -Sara. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2002 Report Share Posted April 16, 2002 >>Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money then. " << OK, I wasn't going to post this, but after reading that I've got to do it. Our TV was left on the other nights and COPS came on. I was nursing the baby & could not get up to turn the TV off, and by the time I could get up, I was engrossed. There were 3 people living in a trailor. A man, his mother, and his " girlfriend " of 22 years. The " girlfriend " is a paranoid schizophrenic on disability. The mother and son don't want her living with them but her name is on the lease so they can't kick her out. The " girlfriend " called 911 because she thought he was going to hit her, although he hadn't. But she said " he beats on me " and showed her bruises from the last time. The cop went over to talk with the man, who ranted on and on about how they were trying to kick the " girlfriend " out and how glad he was the cops had come and they were going to take care of it. After a bit the cop turned the man around and cuffed him and told him he was under arrest for assault. The man said, " Whose side are you on, anyway? " Living in a different world, man. That's had me thinking about Lou a lot lately. I mean, just...not here with the rest of us. OK I'm done. Thank you, please drive through. -Sara. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 Unbelievable!!!! Sue Re: Crazy as a Loon! > Once again responding to my own post! > > Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, > and giving that money to him. > > ?????????????? > > Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the > OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. > > Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money > then. " > > ?????????????????? > > Salli > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 Uh......yeah. She belongs with Lou. You should tell HER to let Lou move in! Sue Re: Crazy as a Loon! > > > > Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. > No way! > > > > Oh, and replying to my own post here, (remember the old rule that you are > not a full member of PA until you have misspelled your own name and replied > to your own post? Do our newbies know this important information?), let me > add that I do not intend to continue seeing this counselor. It's a waste of > time and money. > > Salli > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 > Once again responding to my own post! > > Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, > and giving that money to him. > > ?????????????? > > Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the > OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. > > Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money > then. " > > ?????????????????? > > Salli WHAT A NUT! n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 >>>>>> He feels that I should get a job so that I can help him out. <<<<<< I almost spit tea out of my nose on that one! >>>> My lawyer advised me not to give him the refund; she said, " He'll owe it to you soon enough. " <<<< eegads! With 5 children, I would HOPE so! >>>> He did not pay child support for two months last year and he was never able to pay the full amount of support. He owes me at least five thousand dollars so how do I owe him two thousand? <<<< Obviously math is not Lou's strong suit. >>> Our counselor had the brilliant suggestion that Lou should move back in. No way! <<<< Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa????!!!! >>> My parents have told me not to give him any of the money that they give to me. They do not want him to move back in. My lawyer agrees. <<<< Your parents and your lawyer are smart people. Is there some reason on earth that Lou can not work??? I'm assuming he is a healthy, intelligent male. What's the problem? grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Penny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 I would say so!! >>>> I do not intend to continue seeing this counselor. It's a waste of time and money. Salli <<<<< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2002 Report Share Posted April 17, 2002 Exactly which planet is Lou from? I think it's time for him to go back. Penny Re: Crazy as a Loon! Once again responding to my own post! Lou wants me to economize by stopping Putter's OT, which costs $240 a month, and giving that money to him. ?????????????? Fortunately, Community Mental Health is reimbursing me for that money so the OT doesn't really cost me anything, as I told him. Then he said, " Well, I don't understand why you won't let me have that money then. " ?????????????????? Salli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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