Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 If this message goes thru twice I'm sorry. Having the problems you all are having. Sonja, OK we have three ttc. Me, you and Joanne (great grammar for a former english teacher huh ladies). I am not officially trying until Jan, but I am no longer taking precautions. So I guess I'm unofficial. I wanted to have a couple of months of unpressured horizontals. After the holidays we will turn up the heat. You can find out who joined first by checking the members list by going directly to the egroups. I will list the first 10 ladies, there are 30 in all but some are dups (I have 2 listings - work and home) 1. Our fearless leader Krista 2 & 3. On 8/25 and joined 4 & 5. on 8/27 you (Sonja) and 6. 8/29 7. on 9/1 Stacey G. 8. It was me on 9/3 (Tara) 9. On 9/7 there was (I don't think she's posted in a while) 10. On 9/30 it was juliecp - I'm not sure who this is. For the complete list go to egroups Ta Re: Just thinking... Dear , PLEASE don't feel guilty about not having the same feelings that some here do. The first time this happended to me, I was emotionally wrecked. I was in such a state of grief that I wasn't sure I'd ever recover. My blow, too, was lessened by the fact that I had a 2 yr old daughter to come home to, but the pain was still there. The second time I suffered a pregnancy loss was different. I felt more *detached*. Like I had NO hope whatsoever that it was going to be alright. I felt that if I was not hopeful or optimistic, then I wouldn't be hurt. I am ashamed to admit, but each time I have a loss, I am less affected by it. Not to say I don't mourn the loss and feel sorry for myself (yes, I do go through the self-pity thing). I just get more resolved to the fact that I may never have another child and maybe I should just count my blessings and thank God that I have my daughter. Why do I feel I HAVE to have another child? Olivia can be an only child, there are worse things. It is though, this nagging ache in my heart that still wants. I can't stop it. I think that maybe one day, if it doesn't happen for me, I'll have to resolve myself to the fact that I need to accept my luck. Until that point, I will keep trying or atleast thinking about that baby that I want so badly! Now, that is some endless rambling... I apologize for the poor grammar, however it is 12am!!! Take Care, ------------------------------------------------------------------------ A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. You never know what you might find at eBay! http://clickhere./click/1140 -- Easily schedule meetings and events using the group calendar! -- /cal?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 ------------------------------------------------------------------------ A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. You never know what you might find at eBay! http://clickhere./click/1140 -- Talk to your group with your own voice! -- /VoiceChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 ------------------------------------------------------------------------ A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. You never know what you might find at eBay! http://clickhere./click/1140 eGroups.com Home: /group/ectopicpregnancy/ - Simplifying group communications Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 Hi Tara & Sonja, I'm TTC too! I wrestled with throwing caution to the wind last night because I could feel the pain on the right side and knew I was ovulating from the " good " side. I get my first u/s to monitor ovulation at the end of the month. So actually I'm ovulating right now, but won't actively try again until December. I just got to scared last night and kept thinking of worst case scenario and can't go through it a fourth time. I've lost confidence in being able to make decisions on my own without having an entire medical group behind it. Hopefully I made the right choice and I will ovulate from the right ovary next month as well. I'll keep ya'll in my thoughts and prayers that we may have exciting news to pass along soon Thanks Joann and for being night owls and writing me back so quickly last night, you were life savers. have a good day! Stacey M Re: Just thinking... > >Dear , > >PLEASE don't feel guilty about not having the same feelings that some >here >do. The first time this happended to me, I was emotionally wrecked. I >was >in >such a state of >grief that I wasn't sure I'd ever recover. My blow, too, was lessened >by >the >fact that I >had a 2 yr old daughter to come home to, but the pain was still there. > >The second time I suffered a pregnancy loss was different. I felt more >*detached*. Like I had NO hope whatsoever that it was going to be >alright. >I felt that if I was not hopeful or optimistic, then I wouldn't be hurt. > >I am ashamed to admit, but each time I have a loss, I am less affected >by >it. > Not to say I don't mourn the loss and feel sorry for myself (yes, I do >go >through the self-pity thing). I just get more resolved to the fact that >I >may >never have another child and maybe I should just count my blessings and >thank >God that I have my daughter. >Why do I feel I HAVE to have another child? Olivia can be an only >child, >there are worse things. It is though, this nagging ache in my heart >that >still wants. I can't stop it. I think that maybe one day, if it >doesn't >happen for me, I'll have to resolve myself to the fact that I need to >accept >my luck. Until that point, I will keep trying or atleast thinking about > >that >baby that I want so badly! > >Now, that is some endless rambling... I apologize for the poor grammar, >however it is >12am!!! > >Take Care, > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Easily schedule meetings and events using the group calendar! >-- /cal?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Talk to your group with your own voice! >-- /VoiceChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >eGroups.com Home: /group/ectopicpregnancy/ > - Simplifying group communications > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shoppers dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Create a poll/survey for your group! >-- /vote?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 Well ladies we're up to four now. Any other takers. 1. Sonja 2. Tara 3. Joanne 4. Stacey M Ta Re: Just thinking... > >Dear , > >PLEASE don't feel guilty about not having the same feelings that some >here >do. The first time this happended to me, I was emotionally wrecked. I >was >in >such a state of >grief that I wasn't sure I'd ever recover. My blow, too, was lessened >by >the >fact that I >had a 2 yr old daughter to come home to, but the pain was still there. > >The second time I suffered a pregnancy loss was different. I felt more >*detached*. Like I had NO hope whatsoever that it was going to be >alright. >I felt that if I was not hopeful or optimistic, then I wouldn't be hurt. > >I am ashamed to admit, but each time I have a loss, I am less affected >by >it. > Not to say I don't mourn the loss and feel sorry for myself (yes, I do >go >through the self-pity thing). I just get more resolved to the fact that >I >may >never have another child and maybe I should just count my blessings and >thank >God that I have my daughter. >Why do I feel I HAVE to have another child? Olivia can be an only >child, >there are worse things. It is though, this nagging ache in my heart >that >still wants. I can't stop it. I think that maybe one day, if it >doesn't >happen for me, I'll have to resolve myself to the fact that I need to >accept >my luck. Until that point, I will keep trying or atleast thinking about > >that >baby that I want so badly! > >Now, that is some endless rambling... I apologize for the poor grammar, >however it is >12am!!! > >Take Care, > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Easily schedule meetings and events using the group calendar! >-- /cal?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Talk to your group with your own voice! >-- /VoiceChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >eGroups.com Home: /group/ectopicpregnancy/ > - Simplifying group communications > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >A shoppers dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Create a poll/survey for your group! >-- /vote?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. You never know what you might find at eBay! http://clickhere./click/1140 eGroups.com Home: /group/ectopicpregnancy/ - Simplifying group communications Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 Tara, is the member who was/is looking for information on cornual ectopics, so if anyone sees anything-pass it on! Take care, Krista Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 All right ... twist my arm, put me on this list. I am jumping on the bandwagon! This is what I have been thinking ladies, I would appreciate your thoughts. I had my last EP in May and then was told by my regular OB/GYN to have my right tube removed electively (all three EP's that I've had have been in the right tube and the damn thing has never ruptured, so it's still there). Well, me being the chicken that I am, have been procrastinating on scheduling my surgery. Partly because I am scared, partly because of the finality of removing a " part " of me, even if it is dysfunctional, and partly because I am a really BUSY person and surgery doesn't exactly fit into my agenda right now. Well, I have recently been thinking to myself and to my DH that if we just go ahead and TTC and I get pregnant and it's in the right tube again, well, then I'll have the surgery and get rid of it, BUT, if the law of averages finally catches up and it is from the left side ... well, then I don't need surgery and I may end up with a pregnancy that is where it is supposed to be. I was especially encouraged when Stacey posted about her appt with the R.E. who is going to do U/S to detect which ovary is going to produce... So, does anyone think this is too risky? Should I just go ahead with the surgery or throw caution to the wind and as Sonja says " assume the horizontal " ? Thanks for listening! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted November 15, 1999 Report Share Posted November 15, 1999 I would definitely go with an RE that will monitor your ovulation...otherwise I would not risk it at all. My 2cents, for what they are worth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 1999 Report Share Posted November 16, 1999 , I would talk to your doc first. Maybe he can do what Stacey's doc is w/ the ultrasound to see what side you are O from. However, if you do throw caution to the wind, which I completely understand, start charting your temps and take an early hpt. That way you will know asap. Good luck w/ your decision. Tara Re: FW: Just thinking... All right ... twist my arm, put me on this list. I am jumping on the bandwagon! This is what I have been thinking ladies, I would appreciate your thoughts. I had my last EP in May and then was told by my regular OB/GYN to have my right tube removed electively (all three EP's that I've had have been in the right tube and the damn thing has never ruptured, so it's still there). Well, me being the chicken that I am, have been procrastinating on scheduling my surgery. Partly because I am scared, partly because of the finality of removing a " part " of me, even if it is dysfunctional, and partly because I am a really BUSY person and surgery doesn't exactly fit into my agenda right now. Well, I have recently been thinking to myself and to my DH that if we just go ahead and TTC and I get pregnant and it's in the right tube again, well, then I'll have the surgery and get rid of it, BUT, if the law of averages finally catches up and it is from the left side ... well, then I don't need surgery and I may end up with a pregnancy that is where it is supposed to be. I was especially encouraged when Stacey posted about her appt with the R.E. who is going to do U/S to detect which ovary is going to produce... So, does anyone think this is too risky? Should I just go ahead with the surgery or throw caution to the wind and as Sonja says " assume the horizontal " ? Thanks for listening! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Meet your Match! CLICK HERE to go to One & Only Internet Personals http://clickhere./click/1705 -- Easily schedule meetings and events using the group calendar! -- /cal?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 1999 Report Share Posted November 16, 1999 , AF = Aunt Flo Tara Re: FW: Just thinking... After my next AF, we are going to ttc. I guess we'll find out sometime around Christmas if all goes well. It is either going to be a very good Christmas or a very depressing one... (will someone email me privately and explain exactly what AF means? Am I really dense or what? I know what it stands for but...) ------------------------------------------------------------------------ A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. You never know what you might find at eBay! http://clickhere./click/1140 -- Check out your group's private Chat room -- /ChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 1999 Report Share Posted November 18, 1999 Oh, well done Joanne! A friend! I like that one!(hee-hee) sonja Re: FW: Just thinking... > >After my next AF, we are going to ttc. I guess we'll find out sometime >around Christmas if all goes well. It is either going to be a very good >Christmas or a very depressing one... > > > >(will someone email me privately and explain exactly what AF means? Am I >really dense or what? I know what it stands for but...) > >----------------------------------------------------------------------- - >A shopper's dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Check out your group's private Chat room >-- /ChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > >----------------------------------------------------------------------- - >A shopper’s dream come true! Find practically anything on earth at eBay! >Come and browse the more than 2 million items up for bid at any time. >You never know what you might find at eBay! >http://clickhere./click/1140 > >-- Talk to your group with your own voice! >-- /VoiceChatPage?listName=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 > > ______________________________________________________ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ -- Easily schedule meetings and events using the group calendar! -- /cal?listname=ectopicpregnancy & m=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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