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Hi Jody,

I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. ABOVE ALL DO NOT

PANIC AND RUSH INTO TREATMENT. Your cancer has

probably been growing in your body for several years. It will not kill

you any time soon. It is your responsibility to make the treatment

decision, but it should be a well informed decisions. Before you

make a treatment decision that you will have to live with for the

rest of your life, get a second opinion from a doctor who does not

specialize entirely doing surgery. Take the time to learn all your

options. Have several PSA tests and make a chart. The PSA

will correlate fairly closely to the cancer activity.

I had my prostate removed in 1992- but we did not have as many

options at that time. I would not choose surgery today. I believe

that there are better options. If I had it to do over, I would choose

brachytherapy, (seed implants or HDR). Of course there are

other options such as External Beam Radiation or IMRT, Proton

Beam radiation (it is one of the better therapies, but expensive, some

insurance may not cover it), Cryo Surgery and soon we will have High

Intensity Focused Ultrasound (HIFU). HIFU may be the least invasive

of all, but still not FDA approved in U.S. Many are now choosing

Laparoscopic or Da Vinci robotic assisted surgery to remove

the prostate. But it has the same unpleasant side effects of

the Retropubic Radical Prostatectomy (RRP). For advanced

PCa, there is hormone ablation and several regimens of chemo.

For moderate or rather insignificant cancers. you may be better

off just doing Watch and Wait. Pay close attention to several

PSA tests.

No matter what therapy one chooses, there are always some side

effects, No matter who does it or how it is done, removal of the

prostate has side effects, some more pronounced and unpleasant

than others.

You are wise to do a lot of research. One reason not to have surgery

is because, for me, sex was never the same after my prostate was

removed. The prostate and the seminal vesicles manufacture almost

all of the ejaculate. During orgasm, the prostate squeezes down and

forces the semen out. This is a part of the pleasure of an orgasm.

One may still be able to have an orgasm after a RP, but it may take

a lot more stimulation.

Many men who have surgery are impotent afterwards. There are

nerves on each side of the prostate that control erectile function.

These nerves are difficult to see and quite often they are severed

or severely damaged.

Another side effect of RP is that many men lose some length and

girth afterwards. Several studies have been done on this subject.

Go to www.google.com and search for Loss of Penile Length and

Radical Prostatectomy.

Many men are also incontinent for some time after surgery because

the primary bladder valve is intimately connected to the prostate. It

is often damaged. Most men do recover urinary continence by

doing Kegel exercises which strengthens the secondary valve below

the prostate. Unfortunately, a few men never regain continence. A few

of these men have to have an Artificial Urinary Sphincter implanted

in order to control their urinary output.

But even if they do learn to control normal urinary functions by doing

Kegel exercises for this valve, when they try to have an erection or

become sexually aroused, this valve will open and they may have

leakage. This valve has always opened during sexual activities

and no amount of Kegel exercises will cause it do otherwise.

The primary valve is not involved in brachytherapy, or seed

implants so there is little or no incontinence.

The impotence rate is also very low. Some men will still have an

ejaculate, though it may be much less in volume. Some men are

even able to father children after brachytherapy. After a RP, one may

be able to have sperm aspirated from the testes and used to

impregnate a woman. But it is a difficult procedure, is expensive and

may not always be successful. If a man thinks he may want to father

children after a RP, he should consider banking some of his sperm.

For more information, you can read my book below my signature. Over

20 MDs and several survivors contributed to it. I wish you all the bestAubrey Pilgrim, DC (Ret.) Author ofA Revolutionary Approach to Prostate Cancer-Read the original book for FREE at: http://www.prostatepointers.org/prostate/lay/apilgrim/Read new edition for FREE at http://www.cancer.prostate-help.org/capilgr.htmDr. E. Crawford is co-author of the revision

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> Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@... who has joined the

> ProstateCancerSupport group and says:

>

>

>

> Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I found

out on July

> 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

>

> Thanks Jody

>

>

>

> Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but welcome to the club you never

wanted to

> join. No doubt you're in a bit of a state of shock, and perhaps

feeling

> isolated. You'll find plenty of friendly folk on this List who will

do what

> they can to help you through.

>

>

>

> You might find it useful to visit YANA - You Are Not Alone Now

> www.yananow.net <http://www.yananow.net/> a site set up for newly

diagnosed

> people. The first section gives some basic information in plain

language

> with links to more complex and technical sites. The second section

of the

> site is where men are invited to tell their prostate cancer stories

and how

> they arrived at their decisions regarding treatment. Many people

have mailed

> to say how useful they have found this, especially because most of

the men

> are happy to respond to specific questions. The section of the site

can be

> found by clicking the link labelled Experiences or going to

> http://www.yananow.net/Experiences.html

>

>

>

> But in any event, please post some details of your diagnosis -

your Age,

> your PSAs leading up to the diagnosis, your Gleason Score and

Staging (these

> terms are all explained on the YANA site) and any questions you

might have.

> Just remember - there are no dumb questions. We all started off

where you

> are now, but we've collectively learned a lot over the years.

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> All the best

>

>

>

> Terry Herbert

>

> in Melbourne Australia

>

> Diagnosed '96: Age 54: Stage T2b: PSA 7.2: Gleason 3+3=6: No

treatment. Jun

> '07 PSA 42.0 - Bony Metastasis: starting ADT

>

> My site is at www.prostatecancerwatchfulwaiting.co.za

>

> It is a tragedy of the world that no one knows what he doesn't

know, and the

> less a man knows, the more sure he is that he knows everything.

Joyce

> Carey

>

Thanks Terry

My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had a

number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to think

about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was high

enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up by an

Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The Doctor

was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was going

to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right side

of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed with a

TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor explained

what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two) it was

not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the waiting

room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I wish I

had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was not

what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a long

time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the tests

meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my uninformed

questions.

Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a good

stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was the

beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl 7.

No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives me

the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test to

determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is better

to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

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Jody:

Here are some things that you may want to consider, as you start your

search for the treatment that is right for you:

Sorry about the PCa, but do your homework. Here are my " Rules for

Newbies: "

Recommendations for the " Newly Diagnosed " Prostate Cancer Patient

1. Do Not Panic! Many of us have been down this road before, and

there is much to learn before you choose the solution " best for you. "

You have had this thing longer than you think, and taking the time to

do the proper investigation into your options will not hurt. Since

you have posted on the Internet, you obviously have the means to do

most of the research that you need to do. There is a wealth of

knowledge and experience for you to draw on.

2. Do Not Accept the First Recommendation From the Urologist!

(Or any other " first " recommendation) Get second, (or more) opinions

from experts in other specialties. Depending on your Gleason score,

you have time to figure this thing out! Gleason of 6 or less, take

your time and be thorough; Gleason 7 and up, you need to do something

sooner than later, but remember that it " is not going to kill you

tomorrow, " so you still have time to do a good job of fact gathering.

Your PSA value enters into this equation also. This is the time to

learn and thoroughly examine ALL your options, because whatever you

choose, you will live with the consequences the rest of your days.

3. I recommend that you also join " YANA " (You Are Not Alone " )

http://www.yananow.net/ Explore it. (My story is on YANA, under

Proton Beam).

4. Get Bob Marckini's book, " You Can Beat Prostate Cancer … " and

read it cover to cover BEFORE you visit your doctor again if

possible. Order from Amazon or from Bob at www.protonbob.com.

READING THIS BOOK IS PROBABLY THE MOST IMPORTANT RECOMMENDATION IN

THIS LIST!

5. Go here: and read Aubrey Pilgrims work:

http://www.cancer.prostate-help.org/capilgr.htm

6. A Summary of Options: (These are the primary options,

approved by the medical profession, Medicare, and most insurance

companies in the U. S.)

A. If there is no " velocity " in the PSA value (it is not increasing

rapidly) and the tumor is judged to be very slow growing, " Active

Surveillance " ( " Careful Monitoring " ) may be a viable option, if the

PSA and other symptoms are checked every three to six months.

Lifestyle changes and diet with supplements sometimes go with this

option.

B. Depending on the aggressiveness of the tumor; and if the prostate

is enlarged, some specialists may recommend hormone treatment or ADT

(Androgen Deprivation Therapy, sometimes called AST or Androgen

Suppression Therapy). This is chemical castration to reduce or

eliminate the body's production of testosterone, upon which the

cancerous cells " feed. " This will also " shrink " the prostate gland

(sometimes necessary for the indicated final treatment). If it is

used, it will " stall " the cancer growth and/or perhaps decrease the

tumor volume, thus delaying the need for immediate treatment by some

other method. There are serious side effects to hormone therapy that

you should be aware of. For PCa that has already metastasized this

may be a primary treatment.

C. Surgeons will usually recommend surgery, either RP (radical

prostatectomy) or Da Vinci Robotic Prostatectomy. The skill of the

surgeon is paramount! Too much, in my opinion, depends on the surgeon.

D. Some urologists will recommend brachytherapy, either with or

without supplemental radiation. Again skill and experience count, but

this is a very viable option with a proven track record, with a short

recovery time but with potential for urinary problems.

E. Some urologists, who consider themselves " Cryosurgeons, " will

recommend cryotherapy (freezing the complete gland to " kill " the

cancer). This again is a very viable option, but the skill of

the " artist " physician is again of utmost importance to the eventual

outcome. If " Focal " freezing is not done, then sexual function is

impacted.

F. Radiologists or Radiation Oncologists may recommend EBRT (External

Beam Radiation Therapy) using normal photon based X-rays, and

possibly with the latest in conformal intensity modulated radiation

therapy (IMRT), Or the same thing with a special technology

called " Image Guided; " this them becomes " IG-IMRT, which of all

photon based radiation is probably the best choice with the least

side effects compared to other " normal " X-ray treatment.

G. Finally, there is Proton Beam Radiation Therapy (PBRT), which is

only available at five " Centers of Excellence " in the U. S. This is

the ONLY treatment (other than " Watchful Waiting " which of course has

no side effects) that has the least amount of side effects, with at

least as good or better long-term results (documented) as all other

options above. Usually you will not hear of this option from other

doctors or specialists!

Do NOT allow the fact that the doctor did not mention it prevent you

from considering this option along with the others! At the very

least, study the records about PBRT and if possible, visit one of the

centers for a consultation. Go to www.protonbob.com , and READ THE

TESTIMONIALS! You will find that many are " independent thinkers, "

that make up their own mind about things, irrespective of the crowd.

There are a preponderance of professionals, including engineers and

medical professionals, that have chosen this treatment. (I am an

engineer.)

FULL DISCLOSURE: I HAVE " EMBRACED " THIS TREATMENT AND CONSIDER MYSELF

A " PROTON BEAM ADVOCATE! " I completed my PBRT in March of 2007.

Whatever method you choose for your treatment, you should be

comfortable with it. Be happy that you made the choice, based on

your personal situation. This is many times better than accepting the

recommendation of the diagnosing specialist, then later wondering why

you did not do your " due diligence " and make your own decision!

Whatever method you choose, rest assured that the outcome, with

experienced surgeons or other specialists, is approximately the same

for most modalities. The major differences in the outcomes may be

in " quality of life " issues, which may or may not happen in every

case. For me, these were the main drivers in my decision.

E-mail me directly with any questions about Proton Therapy or other

general questions. I will be quick to answer to the best of my

ability. cnsjones@....

Best regards,

Fuller

> >

> > Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@ who has joined the

> > ProstateCancerSupport group and says:

> >

> >

> >

> > Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I found

> out on July

> > 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

> >

> > Thanks Jody

> >

> >

> Thanks Terry

>

> My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had a

> number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to think

> about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was

high

> enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up by

an

> Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The Doctor

> was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was going

> to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right

side

> of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed with

a

> TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor explained

> what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two) it

was

> not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

> another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the waiting

> room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I wish

I

> had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

> Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

> enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

> positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was

not

> what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a long

> time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the

tests

> meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

> 80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

> He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my

uninformed

> questions.

> Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a good

> stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was the

> beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl

7.

> No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives

me

> the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test to

> determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

>

> Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is better

> to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

>

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Jody,

It sounds like you have made your decision to proceed with surgery.

At your relatively young age, it makes a lot of sense to put that

option at the top of the list. Assuming the cancer is still confined

to the prostate, the surgery offers the highest probability of

eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body. And you retain

radiation as a possible backup treatment in the event of a local

recurrence. Clearly you are not a candidate for watchful waiting

given the extent of your cancer and the fact that there is some

Gleason 7.

These days, those men who choose surgery have the choice between

the " old fashioned " RRP and robotic surgery. As you will see on

this site, it seems that a lot of men are choosing robotic these

days, so I would examine their experiences carefully. I had an RRP

five years ago (when there was very little experience with robotic)

at age 59 and have been very pleased with the outcome. I bounced

back quickly with no incontinence issues and am cancer-free five

years later.

The most important thing to know with respect to the surgical

alternative is the importance of choosing a highly experienced

surgeon -- one who has done hundreds of the operations. Certainly

don't limit yourself to your current urologist in your search for

the best surgeon for you. If I had done that, I would have been

operated on by a man who averaged less than one surgery each month,

instead of the surgeon I chose (at s Hopkins) who does 150-200

each year. There is too much at stake for you to settle for less

than the best.

I highly recommend that you read " Dr. Walsh's Guide to

Surviving Prostate Cancer " (2nd Edition is just out in paperback)

and " Dr. Scardino's Prostate Book. " Dr. Walsh is the

legendary surgeon at s Hopkins who perfected the nerve-sparing

surgery, and Dr. Scardino is Chairman of the Dept. of Urology at

Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in NYC (and a top surgeon as

well).

By the way, you can choose to bank sperm prior to the surgery should

you wish to retain the option of fathering additional children.

Bill, NYC

> >

> > Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@ who has joined the

> > ProstateCancerSupport group and says:

> >

> >

> >

> > Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I found

> out on July

> > 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

> >

> > Thanks Jody

> >

> >

> >

> > Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but welcome to the club you

never

> wanted to

> > join. No doubt you're in a bit of a state of shock, and perhaps

> feeling

> > isolated. You'll find plenty of friendly folk on this List who

will

> do what

> > they can to help you through.

> >

> >

> >

> > You might find it useful to visit YANA - You Are Not Alone Now

> > www.yananow.net <http://www.yananow.net/> a site set up for

newly

> diagnosed

> > people. The first section gives some basic information in plain

> language

> > with links to more complex and technical sites. The second

section

> of the

> > site is where men are invited to tell their prostate cancer

stories

> and how

> > they arrived at their decisions regarding treatment. Many people

> have mailed

> > to say how useful they have found this, especially because most

of

> the men

> > are happy to respond to specific questions. The section of the

site

> can be

> > found by clicking the link labelled Experiences or going to

> > http://www.yananow.net/Experiences.html

> >

> >

> >

> > But in any event, please post some details of your diagnosis -

> your Age,

> > your PSAs leading up to the diagnosis, your Gleason Score and

> Staging (these

> > terms are all explained on the YANA site) and any questions you

> might have.

> > Just remember - there are no dumb questions. We all started off

> where you

> > are now, but we've collectively learned a lot over the years.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > All the best

> >

> >

> >

> > Terry Herbert

> >

> > in Melbourne Australia

> >

> > Diagnosed '96: Age 54: Stage T2b: PSA 7.2: Gleason 3+3=6: No

> treatment. Jun

> > '07 PSA 42.0 - Bony Metastasis: starting ADT

> >

> > My site is at www.prostatecancerwatchfulwaiting.co.za

> >

> > It is a tragedy of the world that no one knows what he doesn't

> know, and the

> > less a man knows, the more sure he is that he knows

everything.

> Joyce

> > Carey

> >

>

> Thanks Terry

>

> My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had

a

> number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to

think

> about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was

high

> enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up by

an

> Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The

Doctor

> was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was

going

> to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right

side

> of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed with

a

> TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor

explained

> what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two) it

was

> not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

> another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the

waiting

> room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I

wish I

> had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

> Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

> enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

> positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was

not

> what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a long

> time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the

tests

> meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

> 80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

> He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my

uninformed

> questions.

> Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a good

> stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was

the

> beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl

7.

> No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives

me

> the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test

to

> determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

>

> Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is

better

> to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

>

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Bill, I am happy for you that you are cancer free and continent 5

years out from your sugery. I respectfully disagree that surgery

provides the best chance for getting all of the cancer. Simply not

true. I have read study after study and countless articles which

support the statement that all of the treaments have a similar cure

rate. In your post to new member Jody you do not comment on your post

sugery sexual function. Why the ommision? This is one of the biggest

issues with regard to prostate cancer and quality of life following

diagnosis and treatment. I would imagine that this would be a very

important issue for a 49 year old man. Don't mean to be in your face

but if you are going to give advice on treament I feel that you

should get your facts straight and fully disclose your own post

surgery situation.

Laurel

>

>

> Jody,

>

> It sounds like you have made your decision to proceed with

surgery.

> At your relatively young age, it makes a lot of sense to put that

> option at the top of the list. Assuming the cancer is still

confined

> to the prostate, the surgery offers the highest probability of

> eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body. And you retain

> radiation as a possible backup treatment in the event of a local

> recurrence. Clearly you are not a candidate for watchful waiting

> given the extent of your cancer and the fact that there is some

> Gleason 7.

>

> These days, those men who choose surgery have the choice between

> the " old fashioned " RRP and robotic surgery. As you will see on

> this site, it seems that a lot of men are choosing robotic these

> days, so I would examine their experiences carefully. I had an RRP

> five years ago (when there was very little experience with robotic)

> at age 59 and have been very pleased with the outcome. I bounced

> back quickly with no incontinence issues and am cancer-free five

> years later.

>

> The most important thing to know with respect to the surgical

> alternative is the importance of choosing a highly experienced

> surgeon -- one who has done hundreds of the operations. Certainly

> don't limit yourself to your current urologist in your search for

> the best surgeon for you. If I had done that, I would have been

> operated on by a man who averaged less than one surgery each month,

> instead of the surgeon I chose (at s Hopkins) who does 150-200

> each year. There is too much at stake for you to settle for less

> than the best.

>

> I highly recommend that you read " Dr. Walsh's Guide to

> Surviving Prostate Cancer " (2nd Edition is just out in paperback)

> and " Dr. Scardino's Prostate Book. " Dr. Walsh is the

> legendary surgeon at s Hopkins who perfected the nerve-sparing

> surgery, and Dr. Scardino is Chairman of the Dept. of Urology at

> Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in NYC (and a top surgeon as

> well).

>

> By the way, you can choose to bank sperm prior to the surgery

should

> you wish to retain the option of fathering additional children.

>

> Bill, NYC

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Hi Jody,

I am sure you will be okay. I know how scary the word cancer can be. Your

life will be forever changed, but it does not necessarily mean that it will be

all bad. I have had over 15 good years since my RRP. I would not choose

that therapy today, but I did not have too many options at that time.

By all means talk to your kids, don't try to hide it. I am sure they will

understand.

I wish you all the bestAubrey Pilgrim, DC (Ret.) Author ofA Revolutionary Approach to Prostate Cancer-Read the original book for FREE at: http://www.prostatepointers.org/prostate/lay/apilgrim/Read new edition for FREE at http://www.cancer.prostate-help.org/capilgr.htmDr. E. Crawford is co-author of the revision

Thanks Aubrey

I have a lot to think about. The side affects of RP are one thing that I need to think about. I have two great kids (a Boy 15 and a Girl 7) and at 49 really don’t think that I need any more. I have plenty of things to ask my Doctor the next time we get together. Your reply has made me think about a lot of things. Thanks Jody

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Jody, at the risk of being repetitive, I want to attempt to set the

record straight regarding the statements that a younger prostate

cancer patient is automatically a better candidate for surgery.

Granted there may be longer to recover from potential problems

resulting from surgery (incontinence, impotence, etc.) but the same

thing is true about other modalities (treatment methods) as well.

It has been stated over and over that the cure rates for all the

different treatments appear to be approximately the same. Therefore,

I urge you to carefully consider all the factors and potentialities

before making your final decision. I urge you again to get Bob

marckini's book, it is an excellent reference for ALL the different

treatments, although he does, as I do, prefer proton beam radiation

therapy because of the lack of side effects, and the quality of life

issues such as incontinence that it avoids.

I hope that you will consider this message as a sincere effort to

help you through a trying time; we have all been through the same

stress, and understand. Whatever treatment you choose, it should be

the one that you are most comfortable with, and you will do well.

Best regards,

Fuller

> > >

> > > Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@ who has joined the

> > > ProstateCancerSupport group and says:

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I

found

> > out on July

> > > 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

> > >

> > > Thanks Jody

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but welcome to the club you

> never

> > wanted to

> > > join. No doubt you're in a bit of a state of shock, and perhaps

> > feeling

> > > isolated. You'll find plenty of friendly folk on this List who

> will

> > do what

> > > they can to help you through.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > You might find it useful to visit YANA - You Are Not Alone Now

> > > www.yananow.net <http://www.yananow.net/> a site set up for

> newly

> > diagnosed

> > > people. The first section gives some basic information in plain

> > language

> > > with links to more complex and technical sites. The second

> section

> > of the

> > > site is where men are invited to tell their prostate cancer

> stories

> > and how

> > > they arrived at their decisions regarding treatment. Many

people

> > have mailed

> > > to say how useful they have found this, especially because most

> of

> > the men

> > > are happy to respond to specific questions. The section of the

> site

> > can be

> > > found by clicking the link labelled Experiences or going to

> > > http://www.yananow.net/Experiences.html

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > But in any event, please post some details of your diagnosis -

> > your Age,

> > > your PSAs leading up to the diagnosis, your Gleason Score and

> > Staging (these

> > > terms are all explained on the YANA site) and any questions you

> > might have.

> > > Just remember - there are no dumb questions. We all started off

> > where you

> > > are now, but we've collectively learned a lot over the years.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > All the best

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Terry Herbert

> > >

> > > in Melbourne Australia

> > >

> > > Diagnosed '96: Age 54: Stage T2b: PSA 7.2: Gleason 3+3=6: No

> > treatment. Jun

> > > '07 PSA 42.0 - Bony Metastasis: starting ADT

> > >

> > > My site is at www.prostatecancerwatchfulwaiting.co.za

> > >

> > > It is a tragedy of the world that no one knows what he doesn't

> > know, and the

> > > less a man knows, the more sure he is that he knows

> everything.

> > Joyce

> > > Carey

> > >

> >

> > Thanks Terry

> >

> > My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had

> a

> > number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to

> think

> > about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was

> high

> > enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up

by

> an

> > Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The

> Doctor

> > was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was

> going

> > to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right

> side

> > of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed

with

> a

> > TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor

> explained

> > what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two) it

> was

> > not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

> > another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the

> waiting

> > room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I

> wish I

> > had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

> > Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

> > enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

> > positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was

> not

> > what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a

long

> > time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the

> tests

> > meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

> > 80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

> > He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my

> uninformed

> > questions.

> > Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a good

> > stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was

> the

> > beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl

> 7.

> > No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives

> me

> > the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test

> to

> > determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

> >

> > Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is

> better

> > to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

> >

>

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Thanks Aubrey I have a lot to think about. The side affects of RP are one thing that I need to think about. I have two great kids (a Boy 15 and a Girl 7) and at 49 really don’t think that I need any more. I have plenty of things to ask my Doctor the next time we get together. Your reply has made me think about a lot of things. Thanks Jody APilgrm@... wrote: Hi Jody, I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. ABOVE ALL DO NOT PANIC AND RUSH INTO TREATMENT. Your cancer has probably been growing in your body for several years. It will not kill you any time soon. It is your responsibility to make the treatment decision, but it should be a well informed decisions. Before you make a treatment decision that you will have to live with for the rest of your life, get a second opinion from a doctor who does not specialize entirely doing surgery. Take the time to learn all your options. Have several PSA tests and make a chart. The PSA will correlate fairly closely to the cancer activity. I had my prostate removed in 1992- but we did not have as many options at that time. I would not choose surgery today. I believe that there are better options. If I had it to do over, I would

choose brachytherapy, (seed implants or HDR). Of course there are other options such as External Beam Radiation or IMRT, Proton Beam radiation (it is one of the better therapies, but expensive, some insurance may not cover it), Cryo Surgery and soon we will have High Intensity Focused Ultrasound (HIFU). HIFU may be the least invasive of all, but still not FDA approved in U.S. Many are now choosing Laparoscopic or Da Vinci robotic assisted surgery to remove the prostate. But it has the same unpleasant side effects of the Retropubic Radical Prostatectomy (RRP). For advanced PCa, there is hormone ablation and several regimens of chemo. For moderate or rather insignificant cancers. you may be better off just doing Watch and Wait. Pay close attention to several PSA tests. No matter what therapy one chooses, there are always some side effects, No matter who does it or how it is done, removal of the prostate has side effects, some more pronounced and unpleasant than others. You are wise to do a lot of research. One reason not to have surgery is because, for me, sex was never the same after my prostate was removed. The prostate and the seminal vesicles manufacture almost all of the ejaculate. During orgasm, the prostate squeezes down and forces the semen out. This is a part of the pleasure of an orgasm. One may still be able to have an orgasm after a RP, but it may take a lot more stimulation. Many men who have surgery are impotent afterwards. There are nerves on each side of the prostate

that control erectile function. These nerves are difficult to see and quite often they are severed or severely damaged. Another side effect of RP is that many men lose some length and girth afterwards. Several studies have been done on this subject. Go to www.google.com and search for Loss of Penile Length and Radical Prostatectomy. Many men are also incontinent for some time after surgery because the primary bladder valve is intimately connected to the prostate. It is often damaged. Most men do recover urinary continence by doing Kegel exercises which strengthens the secondary valve below the prostate. Unfortunately, a few men never regain continence. A few of these men have to have an

Artificial Urinary Sphincter implanted in order to control their urinary output. But even if they do learn to control normal urinary functions by doing Kegel exercises for this valve, when they try to have an erection or become sexually aroused, this valve will open and they may have leakage. This valve has always opened during sexual activities and no amount of Kegel exercises will cause it do otherwise. The primary valve is not involved in brachytherapy, or seed implants so there is little or no incontinence. The impotence rate is also very low. Some men will still have an ejaculate, though it may be much less in volume. Some men are even able to father children after brachytherapy. After a RP, one may be able to have sperm aspirated from

the testes and used to impregnate a woman. But it is a difficult procedure, is expensive and may not always be successful. If a man thinks he may want to father children after a RP, he should consider banking some of his sperm. For more information, you can read my book below my signature. Over 20 MDs and several survivors contributed to it. I wish you all the bestAubrey Pilgrim, DC (Ret.) Author ofA Revolutionary Approach to Prostate Cancer-Read the original book for FREE at: http://www.prostatepointers.org/prostate/lay/apilgrim/Read new edition for FREE at http://www.cancer.prostate-help.org/capilgr.htmDr. E. Crawford is co-author of the revision In a message dated 7/29/2007 1:34:42 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, ghenesh_49optusnet.au writes: Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker who has joined the ProstateCancerSupport group and says: Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I found out on July 18, 2007. I’m just looking for some Info and support. Thanks Jody Get a sneak peek of the all-new AOL.com. Need a vacation? Get great deals to amazing places on Yahoo! Travel.

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Laurel,

I have said before and will say again that the effect on erectile

function is a wild card with any of the treatment modalities. It's

impossible to extrapolate from my experience to anyone else's. I

had issues after the surgery, but then I also had issues before the

surgery (which is one of the variables that can indicate the

likelihood of recovery of function). Age is another variable, and I

was 10 years older than Jody is now at the time of my surgery. Many

men have excellent return of erectile function after the nerve-

sparing surgery, but I always tell people to expect some negative

impact on erectile function and treat it as a pleasant surprise if

it does not occur.

That said, I know you are one of the " proton people " who claim no

side effects from that treatment modality and equivalent cure

rates. I know that is a view that is not widely accepted in the

medical community and I am highly skeptical as well. Often the side

effects of radiation therapy are delayed compared with surgery, but

they manifest themselves over time. But I now know better than to

get into an extended argument with a fervent proton adherent in this

group -- it is the equivalent of getting into a debate with

Graham on the existence of God.

While I have counseled men to avoid surgery in different situations

in the past (for example, when they are over 70 and the chances of

side effects are substantially higher), Jody's case struck me as one

where the choice of surgery makes the most sense due to his age and,

assuming the cancer has not spread beyond the capsule, the chances

of eliminating all of the cancer are the highest.

Bill, NYC

> >

> >

> > Jody,

> >

> > It sounds like you have made your decision to proceed with

> surgery.

> > At your relatively young age, it makes a lot of sense to put

that

> > option at the top of the list. Assuming the cancer is still

> confined

> > to the prostate, the surgery offers the highest probability of

> > eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body. And you

retain

> > radiation as a possible backup treatment in the event of a local

> > recurrence. Clearly you are not a candidate for watchful

waiting

> > given the extent of your cancer and the fact that there is some

> > Gleason 7.

> >

> > These days, those men who choose surgery have the choice between

> > the " old fashioned " RRP and robotic surgery. As you will see on

> > this site, it seems that a lot of men are choosing robotic these

> > days, so I would examine their experiences carefully. I had an

RRP

> > five years ago (when there was very little experience with

robotic)

> > at age 59 and have been very pleased with the outcome. I

bounced

> > back quickly with no incontinence issues and am cancer-free five

> > years later.

> >

> > The most important thing to know with respect to the surgical

> > alternative is the importance of choosing a highly experienced

> > surgeon -- one who has done hundreds of the operations.

Certainly

> > don't limit yourself to your current urologist in your search

for

> > the best surgeon for you. If I had done that, I would have been

> > operated on by a man who averaged less than one surgery each

month,

> > instead of the surgeon I chose (at s Hopkins) who does 150-

200

> > each year. There is too much at stake for you to settle for

less

> > than the best.

> >

> > I highly recommend that you read " Dr. Walsh's Guide to

> > Surviving Prostate Cancer " (2nd Edition is just out in

paperback)

> > and " Dr. Scardino's Prostate Book. " Dr. Walsh is the

> > legendary surgeon at s Hopkins who perfected the nerve-

sparing

> > surgery, and Dr. Scardino is Chairman of the Dept. of Urology at

> > Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in NYC (and a top surgeon

as

> > well).

> >

> > By the way, you can choose to bank sperm prior to the surgery

> should

> > you wish to retain the option of fathering additional children.

> >

> > Bill, NYC

>

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Re the bone scan and ct scan, these tests as Louis says are

standard " screening " tests and in my book pretty much useless except

in extreme and advanced cases.

Better methods exist, such as MRI spectroscopy, that will help to

rule out escape from the prostate to the pelvic regiion and I offer

the following: (see

http://radiographics.rsnajnls.org/cgi/content/full/24/suppl_1/S167

-----------------------------------------

" LOWER GENITOURINARY TRACT IMAGING

Pretreatment Evaluation of Prostate Cancer: Role of MR Imaging and 1H

MR Spectroscopy1

Filip G. Claus, MD, PhD, Hedvig Hricak, MD, PhD and R.

Hattery, MD

1 From the Department of Radiology, Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer

Center, 1275 York Ave, C278, New York, NY 10021 (F.G.C., H.H.); and

Department of Diagnostic Radiology, University of Arizona, Tucson

(R.R.H.). Received March 30, 2004; revision requested April 19;

revision received May 5 and accepted May 11. All authors have no

financial relationships to disclose. Supported by National Institutes

of Health grant R01 CA76423. Address correspondence to F.G.C. (e-

mail: clausf@...).

Prostate cancer is the most common cancer and the second leading

cause of cancer death in American men. The American Cancer Society

estimates that in 2004, 230,110 new cases of prostate cancer will be

diagnosed in the United States and 29,900 people will die of the

disease, increases of 4.5% and 3.5%, respectively, compared with 2003

data (1). Because of the advent of prostate-specific antigen (PSA)

screening, most prostate cancers are now diagnosed at an earlier

stage. At present, 86% of newly diagnosed prostate cancers are

localized within the gland and patients have a 5-year relative (ie,

adjusted for life expectancy) survival rate of 100%. The 5-year

relative survival rate for all stages of prostate cancer is 98%,

which indicates that prostate tumors have a slow growth rate and

allow for prolonged survival, even in patients with metastases at

diagnosis (2,3).

Controversy exists with regard to the appropriate management of

prostate cancer. The choice of treatment depends on the patient's age

at diagnosis, the stage and aggressiveness of the tumor, the

potential side effects of the treatment, and patient comorbidity (4–

6). The most common treatment side effects are erectile dysfunction

and urinary incontinence. Efforts to reduce treatment morbidity while

maximizing treatment effects have led to the demand for patient-

specific and disease-targeted therapies. Although there are a number

of clinical parameters and clinical nomograms to help with the choice

of treatment, there is a growing demand for further individualization

of treatment plans (3,7). For all clinical nomograms, the highest

priority is the differentiation between indolent and aggressive

disease. The major indicator of tumor aggressiveness is the Gleason

grade. A biopsy-determined Gleason grade, although valuable, is

subject to sampling error. It has been reported that after radical

prostatectomy the biopsy-determined Gleason grade is increased in as

many as 54% of patients (8). Furthermore, prostate cancer is

histologically heterogeneous and multifocal in as many as 85% of

patients. Thus, a technique that noninvasively demonstrates the

presence, extent, and aggressiveness of prostate cancer could make a

substantial contribution to the decision-making process for

individualized treatment. Magnetic resonance (MR) imaging and proton

MR spectroscopy (hydrogen 1 MR spectroscopy) enable the noninvasive

evaluation of anatomic and biologic tumor features and, thus, may

play an important role in the detection, localization, and staging of

prostate cancer and help guide treatment selection and planning (9).

This article addresses the advantages, limitations, and need for

critical evaluation of endorectal MR imaging and proton MR

spectroscopy in the diagnostic evaluation of prostate cancer. Key

findings of zonal anatomy and spectroscopic features of the normal

prostate gland are discussed. Our objective is to illustrate the

potential incremental value of MR imaging and MR spectroscopy in the

diagnostic work-up of prostate cancer, with emphasis on tumor

localization, metabolic interrogation, and staging. We include

examples to illustrate the key MR imaging features used to detect

prostate cancer and determine local extent, and we discuss the role

of MR imaging and MR spectroscopy in treatment planning.... "

---------------------------------------------

This is a very instructive article, and is worth navigating to and

studying.

Fuller

> > >

> > > Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@ who has joined the

> > > ProstateCancerSuppo rt group and says:

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I

found

> > out on July

> > > 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

> > >

> > > Thanks Jody

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but welcome to the club you

> never

> > wanted to

> > > join. No doubt you're in a bit of a state of shock, and perhaps

> > feeling

> > > isolated. You'll find plenty of friendly folk on this List who

> will

> > do what

> > > they can to help you through.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > You might find it useful to visit YANA - You Are Not Alone Now

> > > www.yananow. net <http://www.yananow. net/> a site set up for

> newly

> > diagnosed

> > > people. The first section gives some basic information in plain

> > language

> > > with links to more complex and technical sites. The second

> section

> > of the

> > > site is where men are invited to tell their prostate cancer

> stories

> > and how

> > > they arrived at their decisions regarding treatment. Many

people

> > have mailed

> > > to say how useful they have found this, especially because most

> of

> > the men

> > > are happy to respond to specific questions. The section of the

> site

> > can be

> > > found by clicking the link labelled Experiences or going to

> > > http://www.yananow. net/Experiences. html

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > But in any event, please post some details of your diagnosis -

> > your Age,

> > > your PSAs leading up to the diagnosis, your Gleason Score and

> > Staging (these

> > > terms are all explained on the YANA site) and any questions you

> > might have.

> > > Just remember - there are no dumb questions. We all started off

> > where you

> > > are now, but we've collectively learned a lot over the years.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > All the best

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Terry Herbert

> > >

> > > in Melbourne Australia

> > >

> > > Diagnosed '96: Age 54: Stage T2b: PSA 7.2: Gleason 3+3=6: No

> > treatment. Jun

> > > '07 PSA 42.0 - Bony Metastasis: starting ADT

> > >

> > > My site is at www.prostatecancerw atchfulwaiting. co.za

> > >

> > > It is a tragedy of the world that no one knows what he doesn't

> > know, and the

> > > less a man knows, the more sure he is that he knows

> everything.

> > Joyce

> > > Carey

> > >

> >

> > Thanks Terry

> >

> > My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had

> a

> > number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to

> think

> > about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was

> high

> > enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up

by

> an

> > Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The

> Doctor

> > was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was

> going

> > to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right

> side

> > of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed

with

> a

> > TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor

> explained

> > what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two) it

> was

> > not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

> > another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the

> waiting

> > room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I

> wish I

> > had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

> > Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

> > enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

> > positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was

> not

> > what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a long

> > time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the

> tests

> > meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

> > 80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

> > He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my

> uninformed

> > questions.

> > Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a good

> > stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was

> the

> > beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl

> 7.

> > No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives

> me

> > the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test

> to

> > determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

> >

> > Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is

> better

> > to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

> >

>

>

>

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Mick: In my opinion, the following is not entirely good advice for

every patient: " At your relatively young age, it makes a lot of

sense to put that option at the top of the list. Assuming the cancer

is still confined to the prostate, the surgery offers the highest

probability of eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body.

And you retain radiation as a possible backup treatment in the event

of a local recurrence. "

This may make sense to Bill, but may not be the best for Jody.

I also take exception to the statement " surgery offers the highest

probobility of eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body... "

All data thus far indicates approximately equal " cure rates " for the

different modalities. So there remain other considerations in making

this very important decision.

One last point, which has been mentined by others here, is

that " retaining radiation as a possible backup treatment... " is not

entirely logical in view of the fact that if it is good enough to be

a backup, it must and should therefore be just as viable as a primary

treatment.

And incidentally, the fact that the cure rates are similar is the

crux of the problem we all faced and newly diagnosed prostate cancer

patients face. It AIN'T easy!

Fuller

>

> Laurel - What advice did Bill give to Jody, and what was incorrect

about it? Was it that he should choose carefully between robotic

and open surgery, or was it his suggestion to read Walsh's

book called A Guide To Surviving Prostate Cancer? That was the only

advice I read. And since when are group members required to discuss

their post surgery sexual function? I prefer that we let members

discuss these things when they are comfortable doing so as opposed to

putting them on the spot in open forum.

>

> Mick

>

>

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In the event that the cancer has not spread beyond the prostate,

there can be no question that surgery offers the highest probability

of eliminating all of the cancer cells from your body. With

radiation, there is always the possibility that some cancer cells in

the prostate will remain. If the prostate is completely removed by

an experienced surgeon, that possibility is eliminated. It's really

pretty elementary.

Bill, NYC

> >

> > Laurel - What advice did Bill give to Jody, and what was

incorrect

> about it? Was it that he should choose carefully between robotic

> and open surgery, or was it his suggestion to read Walsh's

> book called A Guide To Surviving Prostate Cancer? That was the

only

> advice I read. And since when are group members required to

discuss

> their post surgery sexual function? I prefer that we let members

> discuss these things when they are comfortable doing so as opposed

to

> putting them on the spot in open forum.

> >

> > Mick

> >

> >

>

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Dr. Scardino says that the value of a bone scan in most cases

is highly questionable. He states, " While it is common for advanced

prostate cancer to spread to bones, it's very uncommon for cancer to

register on a bone scan if the PSA is less than 20 and extremely

rare with a PSA under 8. Having a bone scan makes little sense

unless you have a high risk of serious disease. Otherwise, you'd

run a serious risk of false positives. "

With respect to CT scans, Scardino says they have little use in the

evaluation of prostate cancer except for patients with aggressive

disease and a high suspicion of lymph node involvement. He states

further that lymph nodes can only be seen on the scan if they are

enlarged, and microscopic deposits of cancer cells won't show up at

all. The CT scan is also not very good at detecting the presence of

cancer in bone.

Bill, NYC

> > >

> > > Welcome to jodycoker jodycoker@ who has joined the

> > > ProstateCancerSupport group and says:

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi, my name is Jody. I am 49 and I have Prostate Cancer. I

found

> > out on July

> > > 18, 2007. I'm just looking for some Info and support.

> > >

> > > Thanks Jody

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but welcome to the club you

> never

> > wanted to

> > > join. No doubt you're in a bit of a state of shock, and

perhaps

> > feeling

> > > isolated. You'll find plenty of friendly folk on this List who

> will

> > do what

> > > they can to help you through.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > You might find it useful to visit YANA - You Are Not Alone Now

> > > www.yananow.net <http://www.yananow.net/> a site set up for

> newly

> > diagnosed

> > > people. The first section gives some basic information in

plain

> > language

> > > with links to more complex and technical sites. The second

> section

> > of the

> > > site is where men are invited to tell their prostate cancer

> stories

> > and how

> > > they arrived at their decisions regarding treatment. Many

people

> > have mailed

> > > to say how useful they have found this, especially because

most

> of

> > the men

> > > are happy to respond to specific questions. The section of the

> site

> > can be

> > > found by clicking the link labelled Experiences or going to

> > > http://www.yananow.net/Experiences.html

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > But in any event, please post some details of your diagnosis -

> > your Age,

> > > your PSAs leading up to the diagnosis, your Gleason Score and

> > Staging (these

> > > terms are all explained on the YANA site) and any questions

you

> > might have.

> > > Just remember - there are no dumb questions. We all started

off

> > where you

> > > are now, but we've collectively learned a lot over the years.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > All the best

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Terry Herbert

> > >

> > > in Melbourne Australia

> > >

> > > Diagnosed '96: Age 54: Stage T2b: PSA 7.2: Gleason 3+3=6: No

> > treatment. Jun

> > > '07 PSA 42.0 - Bony Metastasis: starting ADT

> > >

> > > My site is at www.prostatecancerwatchfulwaiting.co.za

> > >

> > > It is a tragedy of the world that no one knows what he doesn't

> > know, and the

> > > less a man knows, the more sure he is that he knows

> everything.

> > Joyce

> > > Carey

> > >

> >

> > Thanks Terry

> >

> > My PSA was 4.2 when I was tested by my family Doctor. I have had

> a

> > number of PSA tests done in the past. When ever I happened to

> think

> > about it. Maybe 4 over the past 8 or 10 years well this one was

> high

> > enough for my Doctor to think that I needed to have a follow up

by

> an

> > Urologist. The DRE was set up for about 3 weeks later. The

> Doctor

> > was very nice and answered all of my questions about what was

> going

> > to happen. When he finished the exam he told me that the right

> side

> > of my Prostate was " Firm " and he felt that we need to proceed

with

> a

> > TRUS biopsy. That was another week of waiting. My Doctor

> explained

> > what was going to happen, a voice of experience (he's had two)

it

> was

> > not fun but in hind sight I would do it again if needed. Wait

> > another week. July 18 4:00 PM, I am the last person in the

> waiting

> > room. The nurse takes me back to the exam room and I wait! I

> wish I

> > had my PDA so I could at least play a game or read the news. The

> > Doctor finally comes in. I can tell that right now he is not

> > enjoying his job. Mr. Coker the results of you're the came back

> > positive for all the samples from the right side. Well that was

> not

> > what I wanted to hear. OK what now? We sat and talked for a long

> > time going over the options that were ahead of me and what the

> tests

> > meant. What percent of cells where cancerous. Two samples where

> > 80%. What was the Gleason Score, 6 and 7?

> > He was in no hurry to leave and answered any and all of my

> uninformed

> > questions.

> > Being only 49 and in fairly go health for a man that likes a

good

> > stake and a s we decided that taking the prostate out was

> the

> > beast course for me. I have two great kids, a boy 15 and a girl

> 7.

> > No need to have more. Right now I want to do anything that gives

> me

> > the best chance of seeing them grow up. We are still doing test

> to

> > determine the extent of my cancer. I will keep up posted.

> >

> > Oh by the way. The way I have come to look at this is it is

> better

> > to know that not to. You can not fight what you don't see.

> >

>

>

>

>

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<Snip> In the event that the cancer has not spread beyond the

prostate...<snip>

This is the problem. One cannot really be 100% positive that the

microscopic cancer cells have not escaped. This point is emphasized

in the recent postings regarding the usefullness of bone scans, CT

scans, etc. Prostate cancer is an insiduous and stealthy adversary!

The biopsy itself may even contribute to this possible escape.

To further emphasize this point, I knew three men undergoing

photon/proton " salvage " treatment at LLUMC following recurrence of

prostate cancer AFTER prostatectomy. One friend, when diagnosed was

what we call " early stage " with Gleason 3+3=6, and negative bone

scan/CT scan results before the surgery to remove the prostate. So

surgery is not always the " cure " just because the prostate gland has

been removed.

In the battle against prostate cancer nothing is 100% sure. We do the

best we can with whatever information and inteligence we have.

Fuller

> >

> > Mick: In my opinion, the following is not entirely good advice

for

> > every patient: " At your relatively young age, it makes a lot of

> > sense to put that option at the top of the list. Assuming the

> cancer

> > is still confined to the prostate, the surgery offers the highest

> > probability of eliminating all of the cancer cells from your

body.

> > And you retain radiation as a possible backup treatment in the

> event

> > of a local recurrence. "

> >

> > This may make sense to Bill, but may not be the best for Jody.

> >

> > I also take exception to the statement " surgery offers the

highest

> > probobility of eliminating all of the cancer cells from your

> body... "

> >

> > All data thus far indicates approximately equal " cure rates " for

> the

> > different modalities. So there remain other considerations in

> making

> > this very important decision.

> >

> > One last point, which has been mentined by others here, is

> > that " retaining radiation as a possible backup treatment... " is

> not

> > entirely logical in view of the fact that if it is good enough to

> be

> > a backup, it must and should therefore be just as viable as a

> primary

> > treatment.

> >

> > And incidentally, the fact that the cure rates are similar is the

> > crux of the problem we all faced and newly diagnosed prostate

> cancer

> > patients face. It AIN'T easy!

> >

> > Fuller

> >

> >

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