Guest guest Posted June 21, 1998 Report Share Posted June 21, 1998 Hi all, I am torn as to whether to keep naming my former sponsor and his rehab on lists when he is not here to defend himself (tho Ive asked him). It doesnt seem fair - but by the same token, he *does* run a rehab and hence the significance of his views are not inconsiderable, especially here in the UK, perhaps I *ought* to name him. He himself described himself to me as " at the top of the tree " in the addiction world. frankly, i was surprised no-one on addict-l had heard of him. gives lengthy speeches (at least an hour) to the gathered patients and visitors to his rehab on Sunday evenings abt everything except addiction for all except the last 2-5 minutes. Once he showed us his holiday slides. After abt 90 mins of slides, one lady was finally moved to ask " Excuse me sir, what is the point of your talk? " . Perhaps the Disease Modellers have to do this - the concept is so trite, so " simple " it is impossible to discuss it for any length of time with any sophistication without either running out of material, getting horribly bored, or seeing its manifest lack of truth. Anyway, during the final few minutes when actually talking abt addiction, he talked abt the genetic nature of the disease and its tendency to run in families. what he said was, that when he first put it to someone that they probably had relatives who had " addictive disease " they often at first could not think of one. then, on some reflection, they remembered an Uncle or someone with some kind of problem (not necessarily the same as the patient's). claims that 10% of ppl have " addictive disease " . Some ppl say 20%. I dont know what the birthrate is right now, but the population seems pretty stable, so presumably women are having on average abt 2 children. almost everyone had 4 grandparents, and 2 parents. With an average birthrate of 2 for each woman-generation, that would on average ppl would have a brother or sister, and 2 uncles or aunts ( one from each parent). That adds up to 9 ppl, without even including cousins, great uncles and the like. in other words, if " addictive disease " really does strike 10% of ppl, there is a very good chance *almost anyone* has a close relative with the disease, even if it has *no familial pattern whatsoever*. when one adds in that many ppl have more than one sibling, and more than two uncles/aunts, and possibly several cousins as well, if addiction really does strike 10% of the popultion, for them it would be *very unusual* not to be able to think of a relative with the problem. If it strikes 20%, even more so. not only that, but when one considers that addictive habits could be transmitted thru *modelling* of older relatives, rather than thru a genetic link, 's statement has no value whatsoever except to indicate how little he has actually thought abt the problem, all the while presenting as if his views wer scientific, medical facts. The " What I think I see must be What I am getting " fallacy is fallen for completely. with regard to those with alcohol problems, the alcohol status of the relatives is less important than factors abt the client (unless the client still lives with parents) - not least how much drinking *they* are actually doing. If someone has alcohol abusing parents, than I would suggest that they might be cautioned that they might have learned inappropriate norms of behaviour regarding alcohol - it's *not* normal to pass out on the stairs so that a family member has to put you to bed, for example. Imho any increased risk of alcoholism is primarily the result of this kind of alcoholic role-model, not genetic factors. hence, controlled drinking may be perfectly feasible but the client could benefit from perhaps a period of abstinence and modelling the drinking behaviors of non-problem drinkers to learn better habits. best, Pete ---------------------- Cool Briton PERSONALITY-DISORDERS LIST: http://rdz.acor.org/athenaeum/lists.phtml?personality-disorders _____________________ " Every great scientist is part B.F. Skinner and part P.T. 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