Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 Hi Wanda, I have had really painful heavy periods and I have cyst on my ovaries that come regular and burst (talk about pain) all started 1st cycle after TL... NEVER had problems with this before... Mechelle in SC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 In a message dated 8/31/2002 12:52:22 AM Eastern Daylight Time, wanda9003@... writes: > Mechelle > I dont know about you and everyone else but sometimes I feel really > cheated out of a normal life cause of TL. Sometimes i wonder if Drs knew > when doing this that this would affect women the way it has physically, > and emotionally! Had I known the medical side of it I definitly would not > have ever done it! > > Wanda Hi Wanda, I feel the same way, and yet my insurance tells me it is elective surgery to have tr. I told the lady no its not is it crucial I have tr... for my health and wellbeing... They said IF you can get a doctor to say that you are having problems b/c of TL we will pay for TR.. What dr. would do that???I don't know of any, most think its fine to strip us of what GOD gave us, a right to be a whole woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am hoping my TR will help my symptoms also, I pray it does..... Hugs, Mechelle in SC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 Hi , MOST doctors will NOT tell you these they give you much smaller % rate of women that have problems or regrets after TL... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 Thank you Rose....! ALSO...........THIS IS FOR ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAD TR FOR MEDICAL REASONS... WHAT HEALTH PROBLEMS WERE YOU HAVING BEFORE TR AND AFTER TR DID IT TAKE CARE OF THE PROBLEM???? WHAT HEALTH PROBLEMS ARE THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE NOT HAD THE TR YET EXPERIENCING! My problems are mostly with thyroids and monthly periods! I would really appreciate everyones input on this! Wanda Ps I have a son named stephen! On Sat, 31 Aug 2002 04:12:52 -0000 " s_Mom " writes: > just to play advocate here girls, some people have the TR not to > have a baby but to repair what they feel they did wrong or to try > and fix medical problems. When we first decided to do the TR it was > to try and reverse some of the medical problems I was having and > since we had the TR we are going to try for more children but our #1 > > reason was medical. Though even for that I was not excited to have > the scar but any scar was worth it to be rid of my problems. > > Though I am not trying to annoy anyone here with this statement. > Just a thought! > Rose > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 Mechelle I have really bad ones still. I am hoping TR clears that up! Wanda On Sat, 31 Aug 2002 00:41:25 EDT Mechelle29627@... writes: > Hi Wanda, > I have had really painful heavy periods and I have cyst on > my ovaries > that come regular and burst (talk about pain) all started 1st cycle > after > TL... NEVER had problems with this before... Mechelle in SC > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 Mechelle I dont know about you and everyone else but sometimes I feel really cheated out of a normal life cause of TL. Sometimes i wonder if Drs knew when doing this that this would affect women the way it has physically, and emotionally! Had I known the medical side of it I definitly would not have ever done it! Wanda On Fri, 30 Aug 2002 23:45:19 -0500 wanda l arnold writes: > Mechelle > I have really bad ones still. I am hoping TR clears that up! > > > Wanda > > On Sat, 31 Aug 2002 00:41:25 EDT Mechelle29627@... writes: > > Hi Wanda, > > I have had really painful heavy periods and I have cyst on > > > my ovaries > > that come regular and burst (talk about pain) all started 1st > cycle > > after > > TL... NEVER had problems with this before... Mechelle in SC > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 I just wanted to share this with all of you. I have a friend that is a OB/GYN Dr. he told me that 80% of the women that have tl regret doing it. about 60% of them will look into doing a tr and about 50% of those will accually do it. He said that he doesn't try to talk women into it but tries to talk them out of the tl. I think any woman that is thinking of doing a TL should know the percentage of the women that regret doing it. Just thought I would share that with all of you. Lot's of Love, C in Wa. --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 I know my dr that did the tl didn't say anything about the problems or the % of women that regret it. Mechelle29627@... wrote:Hi , MOST doctors will NOT tell you these they give you much smaller % rate of women that have problems or regrets after TL... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2002 Report Share Posted August 31, 2002 I am just very happy that I found all of you and to know that I am not the only one that feels the way I do. Just knowing that there are 100's of us all feeling the same and that we can do something about it is such a wonderful thing. I thank God for directing me to Dr L's web-site and to all of you. I know that all of our prayers are being answered, even if it seems like a long time to get our answers. Miracles happen every day. C in Wa --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2002 Report Share Posted September 4, 2002 I hope and pray daily I can talk my daughters and Dils out of it when it comes to that.... I talk to my girls now about TLs but they are only 9 and 10 so they really dont understand............ -30 DH- Rick Sr.- 30 DS- Ricky- 11 DD- Brittany-10 DD- Clarissa-9 FD- le - 5 Re: ATTENTION ALL > C. Wow! those statistics are huge! But I think that even if I had been told that at the time, I still would have went ahead with the TL. My marriage had been such a bad one and I had three awesome kids at age 32. I didn't ever want another relationship--let alone more kids! I had the three I wanted and that was that. Then, (mushy gushy)...I met Dave! And I think he's the only man I could have met that would have changed my mind on this! B. > I just wanted to share this with all of you. I have a friend that is a OB/GYN Dr. he told me that 80% of the women that have tl regret doing it. about 60% of them will look into doing a tr and about 50% of those will accually do it. He said that he doesn't try to talk women into it but tries to talk them out of the tl. I think any woman that is thinking of doing a TL should know the percentage of the women that regret doing it. Just thought I would share that with all of you. > Lot's of Love, > C in Wa. > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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