Guest guest Posted June 18, 1998 Report Share Posted June 18, 1998 I think the straw that broke the camel's back was that " HAVE A DRINK AND CHILL, KENNY " garbage. The little piece of human waste that started that deserves a really bad suprise. Sometimes I actually need to hear the voice of reason because I can run with some anger. I can't imagine why some of the people who actually feel OK with 12-step programs don't tell those idiots to shut up. I really don't know of anyone in a 12-step program who would tell someone that. Pee-Wee is one sick bastard. DAMN GOOD IDEA - MODERATE THE NEWSGROUP >At 04:20 18/06/98 -0700, you wrote: >> >>Lazy, yes but damnit: I have to use the web...I don't have access to a >>newsreader at work :-) >>I haven't spoken to but there might be a set of automated procedures >>that lessen the total " hands-on " moderation work. Jesus, I'd like to get >>those fools out of there. > >It would be great- all the freedom to discuss our experiences and opinion >on 12 step programs, on a newsgroup that is accessible anywhere in the >world, and none of the trolls. That would be a valuable thing to have. > >I'm not physically well and I don't have a lot of energy, but I would be >prepared to do some of the moderating- I don't know if it would be feasable >with a 486 computer, living in the UK, and only able to spend maybe an hour >a day on it- but if it was, it would be a lot better for me and my immune >system than the alternative that we currently have; looking every day at >the list of articles most of which are there to deliberately clog the >newsgroup up, skipping all the trolls and trying not to peek, knowing that >probably a lot of people are reading them and then feeling like that >newsgroup isn't worth bothering with- I find the present situation really >draining because I can't really DO anything to fix it. > >I also think that the recovery needs of people who have had bad experiences >with 12 step programs will be comparable to the need people have to find >recovery programs in the first place. I'ts an unknown quantity but I think >it is a massive number. But it will be largely unrecorded due to the nature >of the problem. I mean, how many people go to their family doctor and say > " I need help to recover from AA " ? It's like rape, domestic violence and >racial attacks-- it's largely unreported. Except it is even more unreported >than those things- at least there are laws and criminal prosecutions >applicable in those cases. Someone who doesn't like AA is told very often >that it is simply because they are in denial and it is their fault. > >>Joe: your right. Anger does breed anger. > >Yup. On the net its a virus- it is self-replicating, doesn't think, and >only needs a suitable environment in which to propagate itself- an angry >human host. Not that it isn't useful as well sometimes (I put that bit in >for Ken ;-)). > > >---- >Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ >To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... >To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... >-- >Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! > ---- Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... -- Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 1998 Report Share Posted June 18, 1998 He is a sick puppy. But Ken handles him well. I don't think Ken is all up in arms because Reese continues to offer him a bottle of old granddad. I got Ken's book and the chapter about early childhood experiences reveals a great deal of where Ken is going with his piercing questions put to Reese succinctly. DAMN GOOD IDEA - MODERATE THE NEWSGROUP >At 04:20 18/06/98 -0700, you wrote: >> >>Lazy, yes but damnit: I have to use the web...I don't have access to a >>newsreader at work :-) >>I haven't spoken to but there might be a set of automated procedures >>that lessen the total " hands-on " moderation work. Jesus, I'd like to get >>those fools out of there. > >It would be great- all the freedom to discuss our experiences and opinion >on 12 step programs, on a newsgroup that is accessible anywhere in the >world, and none of the trolls. That would be a valuable thing to have. > >I'm not physically well and I don't have a lot of energy, but I would be >prepared to do some of the moderating- I don't know if it would be feasable >with a 486 computer, living in the UK, and only able to spend maybe an hour >a day on it- but if it was, it would be a lot better for me and my immune >system than the alternative that we currently have; looking every day at >the list of articles most of which are there to deliberately clog the >newsgroup up, skipping all the trolls and trying not to peek, knowing that >probably a lot of people are reading them and then feeling like that >newsgroup isn't worth bothering with- I find the present situation really >draining because I can't really DO anything to fix it. > >I also think that the recovery needs of people who have had bad experiences >with 12 step programs will be comparable to the need people have to find >recovery programs in the first place. I'ts an unknown quantity but I think >it is a massive number. But it will be largely unrecorded due to the nature >of the problem. I mean, how many people go to their family doctor and say > " I need help to recover from AA " ? It's like rape, domestic violence and >racial attacks-- it's largely unreported. Except it is even more unreported >than those things- at least there are laws and criminal prosecutions >applicable in those cases. Someone who doesn't like AA is told very often >that it is simply because they are in denial and it is their fault. > >>Joe: your right. Anger does breed anger. > >Yup. On the net its a virus- it is self-replicating, doesn't think, and >only needs a suitable environment in which to propagate itself- an angry >human host. Not that it isn't useful as well sometimes (I put that bit in >for Ken ;-)). > > >---- >Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ >To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... >To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... >-- >Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! > ---- Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... -- Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! ---- Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... -- Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 1998 Report Share Posted June 18, 1998 I also think that the recovery needs of people who have had bad experiences with 12 step programs will be comparable to the need people have to find recovery programs in the first place. I'ts an unknown quantity but I think it is a massive number. But it will be largely unrecorded due to the nature of the problem. I mean, how many people go to their family doctor and say " I need help to recover from AA " ? It's like rape, domestic violence and racial attacks-- it's largely unreported. Except it is even more unreported than those things- at least there are laws and criminal prosecutions applicable in those cases. Someone who doesn't like AA is told very often that it is simply because they are in denial and it is their fault. here This is true. Folks who need to recovery from 12-step assaults on the psyche sometimes don't even know why they are so miserable. I did not know how much the AA program was to blame for my own problems until I found the information. I knew my whole life was the steps and the groupers, and that I was angry and severly depressed, but I still blamed myself, because that's what you're taught in AA. I had to be actually suicidal, and drink rather than kill myself, in order to leave AA. >Joe: your right. Anger does breed anger. Yup. On the net its a virus- it is self-replicating, doesn't think, and only needs a suitable environment in which to propagate itself- an angry human host. Not that it isn't useful as well sometimes (I put that bit in for Ken ;-)). ---- Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... -- Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! ---- Read this list on the Web at http://www.FindMail.com/list/12-step-free/ To unsubscribe, email to 12-step-free-unsubscribe@... To subscribe, email to 12-step-free-subscribe@... -- Start a FREE E-Mail List at http://makelist.com ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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