Re: the games they play

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

Take a step back and breathe honey!

I can say with clarity, you're sucked in at the moment. She pushed your bottons

by yelling at you and you bought it!

It really doesn't matter if Nada has your email, block it so you're not tempted

to read it. Your sister is behaving like she should... the active " Good Child. "

You don't want that role, it makes you sick. Your Fada is doing his role. It

seems like everyone is playing the part that they were assigned - step out of

the production. You don't have to act/react how they have scripted you. Non

action is the most life-saving thing there is.

Go write your own role and act it to its fullest!

You deserve to star in your own life's production, not some second string pawn.

Lynnette

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> well, it continues. Last I heard from BPD nada and fada, they had called me

> to yell at me ( the 3rd time in 6 months to yell at me) because I did not

> drop everything and go up to care for them ( I live 400+ miles away) when

> nada had her heartattack..and because I didn't go there for Christmas and

> they were lonly...she did NOT do this to any of my other siblings ( there

> were 5, one has passed) now nada has a new computer and server...she used to

> use Presto, and decided she didn't like that,. She sent info to one of my

> sisters about her new e mail address, but not to me...that sister plays into

> her games, and sent her my e mail address and cc'd it to me..so that now

> nada knows I have her e mail address...and will be furious with me for not

> writting to her...another reason for her to " go off " on me, huh ?? of

> course she chose NOT to send me her new e mal address to begin with ( she

> already had mine since she's had a computer since the 1990's and just got

> the presto less than a year ago, and my address hasn't changed)

>

> Jackie

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