Nada just won't stop

[Guest guest]

Here is the situation:

I have been nc since 12/29/08 (long story).

My best friend at work has a little girl (we'll call her " RW " ) who was in my

nada's preschool class(yes I know that is scary!)last year. Nada would baby-it

her until the afternoon since preschool let out at 12:30PM each day.She would

spoil her by going to Mc's each day and buying her toys, what ever she

wanted, she also had her call her " Grandma " .

Now RW is in Kindergarden, she has NO REASON for contact. She only knew my

friend and RW through me. But still keeps in contact. This has, per BPD status

quo, escalated since my nc with her.

When I first went nc with nada she called my friend balling and saying she would

never get to see RW again!!!!(they live 15minutes from each other).

My friend stated " no this has nothing to do with RW, if she asks to see you we

will arrange something. "

Well nada took that as " oh you love ME!!! "

The latest:

Nada has been mailing packages to RW for holidays. By holidays I mean Vlentine's

Day and now St.'s Day(not really holidays but an excuse for contact!)

RW called and thanked her for the St's package and nada asked to speak to

my friend.As usual my friend tried to keep the conversation neutral towards RW

only. But status quo for nada she started asking about me.My friend avoided

amswering and politely said " is my friend and this has nothing to do with

you and RW " . Get this.....

Nada says:

" Oh Honey you are in the middle aren't you. It's not YOUR fault. "

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

My friend (who is a licensed social worker and her mother a psychiatric nurse)

said you could hear the crazy in her voice!

Just had to vent!

Keeping the faith & staying strong!

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