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---Sometimes it can happen cause the body may not be totally adjusted

to lower normal sugars. Or maybe just hungry!!!!

Madge

In diabetes@y..., " CLD " <cld60@e...> wrote:

> That's a great idea. Is Can a reading like 104 make one shakey? I

> sometimes feel shakey and thought maybe it was too high and then

when I

> took my reading it was 101 etc..

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> sussie

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> From: Madge910@a... [mailto:Madge910@a...]

> I was getting a bit shakey so I took my reading, 104 which is

> actually good for me. But decided to eat something. Took some

cream

> cheese and swirled in some Smuckers low sugar red raspberry jam and

> presto a sundae!! Yummy. This should end the shakes and not raise

> the sugar that much.

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Thanks Sheila, sleep at night? Not necessarily, but I will sleep in late

if I have had a bad night with my own health.

Love with a smile,

Imogene

Caregiver for my true Texas Gentleman Husband, who was diagnosed with AD

in '05, but correctly diagnosed with LBD in March '06.

A happy personality is contagious. Infect someone today

Yours Truly

In a message dated 2/20/2010 7:44:36 A.M. Central Standard Time,

gfam77@... writes:

Imogene,

Rejoicing with those who rejoice - you and Don. I'm not a prophet, but I

predict this nursing home experience will be very pleasant and peaceful, in

contrast to past experiences, because you are an awesome wife and

advocate. You have learned so much (and taught us so much). You have Don's

yeast

infection cleared & that's major (we do constant battle w/Mom's yeasties),

and you have found Seroquel to provide those peaceful nights (at our house

we love, Love, LOVE Seroquel too).

Next week you'll continue your fantastic caregiving for Don - except that

you'll be able to sleep at night!!!!

Wishing you many more Happy Times,

Sheila in IN

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maryann oh honey first and formeost sending you a very very big hug, and a plump

shoulder to cry on.  let it out honey ,  nad i promise you that wont be the

last tijme you blowup. you have feelings and it is very hard emotional

rollercoaster for the cg. i have been on bothsides, i cg for daddy and now i

have the cursed lbd. so my hubby is going thru the lbd ride again but this time

from the very breggining. pardon if my typing is off, my speling and typing dont

match my head and spell check cant help me most of the time, usually i have

right letters wrong ordre or sometimes have 2 wrods next to each other smoe

letters swappe.

you must forgive yourself for what happened. you are human, you have emotions

and you reacted naturally under normal situatoin

also you cannot be soul cargiver 24/7 you must and i mean MUST get help, you

didnt see how old you both are, if you are over 60 elders affairs office and the

council of aging can assign caseworkers and help you get respite relief. is

there family there that can help you to give you a decent break once week, maybe

a friend, or chruch freind. is he eligile for hospice. ask your doctor.  if you

dont take care of yourself now and you keep the pace you are going, you will

wind up like i did, 8 weeks in hosp with a double kidney infection that turned

to staph before i was able to come home, (thats another story)

some nh and other facilities can give you  *i dont know how insurance does this

tho* a week or so care where they take care of him and you are on vacation. 

as you see now your hubby cannot take change, he is 17 and you are not, i would

NOT recommend traveling, if he gets confused and you are flying it could be a

bad scene. 

sometimes in vehicles  our loved ones have been known to open door and try to

step out of a moving car.  noooo i wouldnt travel.  except you go and take

some time off, but get someone to stay with him. 

my daddy wanted only me and donnie 24/7 until i finally just got a caregiver to

stay here with him every friday nite so we could have a break.  also remember

this,  he is just as frustrated and scared/confused as youare  but as i

finally came to learn in this thick viking taurus head of mine.  he would lash

out at me, scream at me, be vulgar to me, because i was his duaghter, i was

supposed to lvoe him so he didnt have to put on a show for me with lbd, he could

'let it all hang out' the good bad and the ugly , so instead of listening to the

words, (ha not easy to do , i know) try looking at it like this,  hey he trusts

me so much he can let it out, and ignore the words, you cant stop him from

saying it, so you yelling does no good for him and certainly not for you,

because i nkow how the guilt gets afger the explosion. so just pysch yourself

into ignoring the words and anger/ frustration adn realzie it isreally i love

you in the lbd way, as he is

saying i trust you won t leave me as i act like this.  hard to do but if you

can it does work,  so hug yourself from me, and the hug yoursefl and say it is

ok, i am human it is ok and then forgive yoursefl and forget it.  hugs and more

hugs. sharon

Daughter of Leonard whom was diagnosed in May 2004 and died of complicatons

*blood pressure started dropping and wouldn't recover* on Sept 25, 2005. He had

bad case of Dr Jekyl/Mr Hyde scenarios. He was showing hallucinations and

falling issues since prior to 1994. We moved in to take care of him Jan 19, 2003

and still live in his house. And in feb 2009, i have been diagonosed with 99%

probability of lbd.

Subject: (unknown)

To: LBDcaregivers

Date: Friday, March 12, 2010, 5:17 PM

 

i feel like my problems  are  so  small compared  to  some of  you   i

pray for  all  each night  knowing  that  im just a begginer  in all

this  and  i ask for  your  prayers     i really need to ask you all 

and  say first  i feel guilty  about  my actions   but  have any of  you

ever  gotten mad and  lashed  out  at  loved  ones    im afraid  i

have     he keeps  me up  all night  asking   who  the  other 

people  that live  her   ;where  are  they;    he doesnt  know 

me    well i guess  he  knows  maryann  is his  wife   but  its 

not  me   his  wife   is   17  and  slim      i try to tell him 

thats  me  but  he  just  laughts   and says   my wife  doesnt  look

like  you      but  at  same time   i have to be  within his

reach   24-7      yesterday   for the first time  in over  a 

year   i went to town by  myself   

of course  i left him in good  hand    but  now  hes  gonna  report 

me  to  a  judicial court  for  breaking  rules---leaving  him---i cant

believe  this   its  like  a  dream   i woke  up  other  night  

and  he was  standing  by  my side of  bed  with the  awfullest  look on

his  face --  scared  me  --   and  all night  he  wants  to know 

why  im in bed   with  him    only  his  wife  sleeps  with 

him     and   on  and  on    i blew  it  other  day  and 

started  screaming  at  him--and  honestly  thats  not  in my nature---i

copied  remarks  from this site  and  dr  put him on  aricept  

zoflst    but  not  seraquil     its  been  one week  now   

when  does  it start  taking  effect      he s   been a preacher 

--in his past  life-that s what it seems  like--   and  now  he  cursed 

me  when i came back from town 

yesterday    should  i not  leave  at  all    sometimes  i feel

like  im going  crazy  just  listening  to  him  and  i just  want 

to  run   anywhere   just  to get  away    i try to keep up  a 

good  faace  and  laugh    but  i feel like  crying  all the 

time     im sorry this is  so  long   but  i could  write  forever 

it seems   so much is going  on     ONE  more  thing  and  i ll

quit     our  son wants  to take us to memphis--where i came from-- and 

se  our  relatives  etc.   and  i dont  know  wheather  we  should 

or  not    i really value  all of your  opions       maryann  

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Ann,

I don't think any caregiver has a " small problem. " The problems do get bigger

and bigger or we get more and more tired.

Yes, I too did the yelling and feeling guilty about it. I got to the end of my

patience on several days. We are all human. I just had to keep reminding

myself, Mom just couldn't do what I expected her to do. And she was as scared

as I was about if I could do what needed to be done. I know she did do better if

I wasn't so scared.

That is what is nice about the group. When I made a mistake I could come here

and realize I was only human and others had similar problems.

That you are taking care of him at all he is so lucky. Some people don't! And

don't expect him to realize who you are now. Mom didn't even recognize herself

in the mirror. (I only had one in the bathroom, the rest of the mirrors and

glass was covered, and she was always surprised to see " that woman. " )

Hugs,

Donna R

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maryann,

 

no he doesnt realize he is repeating things, he has no concentp of time so he

could have asked that same question months ago as far as he knows.  have you

called organizeatoins for help, alz assoc, ccouncil of agting or elders affairs

office., they all have repsite programs available for you. wihter a one time or

ongoing repsite care but you need help before you have an overload breakdown, 

how ahout family friends can they give yoou breaks from cg. i m praying for you

hugs. sharon

Daughter of Leonard whom was diagnosed in May 2004 and died of complicatons

*blood pressure started dropping and wouldn't recover* on Sept 25, 2005. He had

bad case of Dr Jekyl/Mr Hyde scenarios. He was showing hallucinations and

falling issues since prior to 1994. We moved in to take care of him Jan 19, 2003

and still live in his house. And in feb 2009, i have been diagonosed with 99%

probability of lbd.

Subject: (unknown)

To: LBDcaregivers

Date: Saturday, March 13, 2010, 1:25 PM

 

i am so thankful  i foound  this  group    i ve already got  so  many

answers  from u all   --- as  did  his  doctor  i thought  she d be 

mad  abut  she  wasnt ----i feel a load  has come off  the  guilty 

thing   thank u all for  that  -----im 71  and always been healthy as a

horse   in fact  i was  working with horses  till last  10 years  only

reason i quit  was  hubby  made  me  after  a  concussion  ----i cant

get  another  bed   he  would have a fit   even tho  he doesnt  know 

me---every night  we  go through the same thing    wheres  that  young 

girl that sleeps with me    for  hours    that is what is really

getting  to  me  the constant repeating   of  same  thing    over 

and  over    hes threaatening  to take   car and  leave   and  he

hasnt drove  for  5  years   he  hid  both sets of  keys  other 

day   and  we  all searched  for 

hours  till we  found  them----he got into  my stash  and  took several

hundred dollars   and  lost  that     found  it  after   4 day of 

looking   we live in country  so  he  can  roam around   when weather 

gets  better   he keeps  going  in house  all time  looking  for  

-who knows what--     he  got ulp  in middle  of night  again   and

standing  on my side  just  looking  at  me----he goes back to bed   when

i tell him   but  its  scary  to wake up  with someone staring  at 

you---when does  this  medicine  take  effect    been a week  now   

and  what  can  i expect      the family  all think  he s ok  

just  confused   and   think  im  reacting  too much    but  

nighttime  in bed   is  horrible   with all the  same  questions    

dont they realize   that  they re  repeating??? ?     he s ok to

family  because  he  knnows 

all of  them    just  me  he doesnt  know    im  rambling  again  

sorry     hes sitting  now  watching  news   been watching  it  for 

3 hours      but  it  keeps  him  still for  awhile       here

he comes    marysnns

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Don't answer this message as it's from a bad source THERESA.. I don't know who

she is but she's trying to dupe us. Just block her!!!

(unknown)

This is her message source just below this. She just wants you to 'invite

friends' nothing to do with fibromyalgia. Delete her ..I've been doing this for

a while now.

http://www.zattarin.com/images/invitefriends.htm

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