Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 ~ Your plate sure is full. I am sorry things are so frantic for you right now. I find that music gets my natural endorphins going, and is a feel good tool. My heart and prayers are with you. You have a really positive attitude about everything and it will all go smoothly for you. Remember~ a million angels are with you ,wrapping their wings around you, and keeping you safe and warm ~ Many Blessings ~ DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Hello ~ You are such a strong woman ! ! That is so wonderful ! ! I always like my favorite pillow too....the smells of home like aroma therapy.... I even sometimes put alittle of my favorite male cologne on my pillow......for good memories.......My prayers are with you. I am here if you need to chat at any time......DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Thank you ~ You are so right, I believe experience is one of the best teachers even though sometimes we have a hard time seeing just what it is all for, it is quite an education that is for sure ! ! God has carried me alot over the last several years. It sounds like you you have had enough challenges for now, and I really think that things are on the positive track now. How is your daughter doing? You are in my thoughts and prayers ~ DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Hi Dede, Yes, it is quite full, but I won't let it discourage me. I have almost tried to find any excuse possible to get out of this because I'm scared, but when it comes down to it I actually find myself fighting to make sure it gets done even if I have to bring myself to the hospital! I too love music very much so I will be sure to play music and and take baths...maybe bring a couple candles. Thank you...it means so much. DGRAHAMA@... wrote: ~ Your plate sure is full. I am sorry things are so frantic for you right now. I find that music gets my natural endorphins going, and is a feel good tool. My heart and prayers are with you. You have a really positive attitude about everything and it will all go smoothly for you. Remember~ a million angels are with you ,wrapping their wings around you, and keeping you safe and warm ~ Many Blessings ~ Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Travel to find your fit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 You're so sweet! I've been through a bit in my life, and have found that sometimes you have to go through tough times for things to get better. Perhaps GOD is testing me...just lately we have had both of our cars break down, had to borrow money because we had to pay for them from some of the surgery money, and then complications with my daughters surgery. We had to pay to change our airline tickets twice now...once to extend our time there because Dr. Huang wanted me there longer and again for my fiance to come later! Also, Three weeks ago I fell off a curb and fractured my ankle!!! Anyway, those are good ideas....I will be fine and can't wait! Thanks Dede...I will definitely be keeping in touch. I know that being by myself in the hotel room thinking about things will be a little difficult so I'm sure I will turn to the group to get my mind off things! DGRAHAMA@... wrote: Hello ~ You are such a strong woman ! ! That is so wonderful ! ! I always like my favorite pillow too....the smells of home like aroma therapy.... I even sometimes put alittle of my favorite male cologne on my pillow......for good memories.......My prayers are with you. I am here if you need to chat at any time......Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Don't be flakey. Get for Mobile and always stay connected to friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Hello ~ I am glad to hear your daughter is doing better, that must be some relief for you. Try to sit back and breathe, and just be. Listen to the quiet and imagine you relaxing starting from the top of your head, and slowly feel the warmth move down your body relaxing everything as it moves through you...........and breathe.........a good 15 minute time out is worth alot .........and will renew you.........be sure you choose clothes that are easy to get in and out of, and easy to go potty..........Prayers and angel hugs ~ DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Oh . . . you really have had things stacking up one on top of the other . .. Maybe being at the hotel by yourself is what you need to shake off some of the stress! . .. Add some relaxing CD's and some candles to your travel kit! We'll be here if you want company! Hugs and prayer, Rogene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Dede, My daughter seems to be improving so I can stop worrying about her! I am trying not to stress, but I am so not prepared...I'm not even packed...I'm kind of frozen at the moment. Trying to make myself stop making excuses and start doing what I need to do! I feel quite a bit of axiety, but I'll get through it. ThanksDGRAHAMA@... wrote: Thank you ~ You are so right, I believe experience is one of the best teachers even though sometimes we have a hard time seeing just what it is all for, it is quite an education that is for sure ! ! God has carried me alot over the last several years. It sounds like you you have had enough challenges for now, and I really think that things are on the positive track now. How is your daughter doing? You are in my thoughts and prayers ~ Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Food fight? Enjoy some healthy debatein the Answers Food Drink Q&A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 That could be true...I suppose once I get there I will realize this! ThanksRogene S <saxony01@...> wrote: Oh . . . you really have had things stacking up one on top of the other . .. Maybe being at the hotel by yourself is what you need to shake off some of the stress! . .. Add some relaxing CD's and some candles to your travel kit! We'll be here if you want company! Hugs and prayer, Rogene We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love(and love to hate): TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2007 Report Share Posted March 10, 2007 Okay, I'll do that and I'll write when I can. Thanks so much. DGRAHAMA@... wrote: Hello ~ I am glad to hear your daughter is doing better, that must be some relief for you. Try to sit back and breathe, and just be. Listen to the quiet and imagine you relaxing starting from the top of your head, and slowly feel the warmth move down your body relaxing everything as it moves through you...........and breathe.........a good 15 minute time out is worth alot .........and will renew you.........be sure you choose clothes that are easy to get in and out of, and easy to go potty..........Prayers and angel hugs ~ Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Small Business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 ~ How are you doing today? I hope that you were able to relax and get some sleep last night. Many blessings and hugs I am sending your way. Sending Love ~ DAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 I am glad you made it there and can now digest things and relax some. Bless you and I am sending lots of love and prayers your way ! ! Angel Hugs ~ DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 , I know this is so hard, when it rains it pours... You are not alone and we will be here to support you. When you feel alone remember we all care about you. I am so glad you are not turning back, and still going to get explant. Seems like the devil does these bad things to us so we have to back out and stay sick and then die. So glad your Husband is flying in even though last minute, remember he will be there for you. My family does the same thing, I don't know are they scared or simply don't care about anything other than themselves? I will never know, not one to judge anyone's feelings and actions. I will pray they never face this kind of sickness and deal with it alone. You stay strong and we all Love you and are going to be with you in prayer... God Bless ~AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 , So glad you are in Denver..... Thank God you are getting those nasty toxic bombs out of your body. Won't be long just relax and think WOW I am finally going to regain my health back. God is good and how blessed you are to be getting explant so soon.... Don't worry you are in great hands... God Bless ~AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Hello ~ How are you doing now that you have been there awhile and getting settled in? I am sorry you didnt get more sleep than you did, but I certainly understand your angst. It is good that you are able to cry and get the emotions out you know when you go thru something like this, it is so much the same as going through the grieving process. Ya go through denial, anger, sad, scared, mad again, scared more, alittle more denial, then ya have the surgery, it goes well, and you feel so much better than you have in a very long time, and then you can smile, and know you did good ! ! Wow, sounds like you got some aggressions out on that walk, as well as ran across some people that believe chivalry is dead, but you made it, got some good exercise, and got those emotions out on the table, you have done alot today ! ! I hope that you sleep well tonight, think nice thoughts, know you are in good hands, and you have all of us and all those angels keeping you safe and warm ! Warm thoughts and many prayers and Angel Hugs Sending lots of Love ~DedeAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Hi D, Nope...only 3 hours! Then...for some strange reason I broke down on the plane...lucky for me I had all three seats! The flight attendant gave me some tissue and asked if I needed anything! No I'm at my hotel now so I can relax. I thought I could walk 5 blocks with a laptop, a huge suitcase with mine and my fiance's stuff and a carry bag. They both had wheels but it was too much for me!!! The bus driver said the Marriot was 5 blocks so I get there and apparently there are six! One of the Bell Boy gave me a ride to my hotel but I'm at a Marriot, extended stay type place so it's kind of "no frills"....pretty expensive for no frills! I had to lug my stuff up about 10 stairs because they don't help with that...but I'm good now! I have a fireplace in my room so that's nice. I'm going to order some sushi and take a bath, then probably sleep! DGRAHAMA@... wrote: ~ How are you doing today? I hope that you were able to relax and get some sleep last night. Many blessings and hugs I am sending your way. Sending Love ~ D AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check.Try the Beta. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Thanks!DGRAHAMA@... wrote: I am glad you made it there and can now digest things and relax some. Bless you and I am sending lots of love and prayers your way ! ! Angel Hugs ~ Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Looking for earth-friendly autos? Browse Top Cars by "Green Rating" at Autos' Green Center. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Thanks!DGRAHAMA@... wrote: I am glad you made it there and can now digest things and relax some. Bless you and I am sending lots of love and prayers your way ! ! Angel Hugs ~ Dede AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Finding fabulous fares is fun.Let FareChase search your favorite travel sites to find flight and hotel bargains. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Hi , Welcome to Colorado. I am sorry to hear about your breakdown, 3 hours of sleep probably didn't help matters. I wish I could come and visit today - I am buried in homework. Sounds like you could use rest - I hope they treat you well at the Marriot. Take care and keep posting if you get anxious. Lynn > ~ > How are you doing today? I hope that you were able to relax and get some sleep last night. Many blessings and hugs I am sending your way. > Sending Love ~ D > > > > > --------------------------------- > AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check. > Try the Beta. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Glad you made it to Denver. I think I would have stayed somewhere where they had some help. But you will have help when you leave, that is what is important. You will be fine. Relax and enjoy the rest of your day. Lynda At 03:20 PM 3/11/2007, you wrote: >[] > Thanks! > >DGRAHAMA@... wrote: >I am glad you made it there and can now digest things and relax >some. Bless you and I am sending lots of love and prayers your way ! ! >Angel Hugs ~ Dede > > > > >---------- >AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's >free from AOL at <http://www.aol.com/?ncid=AOLAOF00020000000339>AOL.com. > > > >Looking for earth-friendly autos? ><http://autos./green_center/;_ylc=X3oDMTE4MGw4Z2hlBF9TAzk3MTA3MDc2BHNl\ YwNtYWlsdGFncwRzbGsDZ3JlZW5jZW50ZXI->Browse >Top Cars by " Green Rating " at Autos' Green Center. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Bless your sweet soul ! If it is not one thing, it is many challenges more..........and you are still one strong woman ! ! Enjoy your bath, and know we all love you and are praying for you ~ DAOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Oh Jeez ! . . . This sounds like something I would do! . . Try to walk to the hotel with a huge load! Not the way to start this adventure . . . Please rest, think beautiful healing thoughts! You'll be feeling better soon. Hugs and prayers, Rogene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Thanks Lynn!spinkscl <spinkscl@...> wrote: Hi ,Welcome to Colorado. I am sorry to hear about your breakdown, 3 hours of sleep probably didn't help matters. I wish I could come and visit today - I am buried in homework. Sounds like you could use rest - I hope they treat you well at the Marriot.Take care and keep posting if you get anxious. Lynn> ~ > How are you doing today? I hope that you were able to relax and get some sleep last night. Many blessings and hugs I am sending your way. > Sending Love ~ D> > > > > ---------------------------------> AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. > > > > > > ---------------------------------> Expecting? Get great news right away with email Auto-Check.> Try the Beta.> Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Small Business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Yes...I didn't realize until I got here...one nice thing though is a free hot breakfast everyday!Lynda <coss@...> wrote: Glad you made it to Denver. I think I would have stayed somewhere where they had some help. But you will have help when you leave, that is what is important.You will be fine. Relax and enjoy the rest of your day.LyndaAt 03:20 PM 3/11/2007, you wrote:>[]> Thanks!>>DGRAHAMAAOL (DOT) COM wrote:>I am glad you made it there and can now digest things and relax >some. Bless you and I am sending lots of love and prayers your way ! !>Angel Hugs ~ Dede>>>>>---------->AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's >free from AOL at <http://www.aol.com/?ncid=AOLAOF00020000000339>AOL.com.>>>>Looking for earth-friendly autos?><http://autos./green_center/;_ylc=X3oDMTE4MGw4Z2hlBF9TAzk3MTA3MDc2BHNlYwNtYWlsdGFncwRzbGsDZ3JlZW5jZW50ZXI->Browse >Top Cars by "Green Rating" at Autos' Green Center.> Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2007 Report Share Posted March 11, 2007 Yes, but the difference between us and them is that we would be there for them....I think you're right...they are scared and don't know how to deal with it. Oh well....such is life! Thanks for your support...it means so much. toxicsalines@... wrote: , I know this is so hard, when it rains it pours... You are not alone and we will be here to support you. When you feel alone remember we all care about you. I am so glad you are not turning back, and still going to get explant. Seems like the devil does these bad things to us so we have to back out and stay sick and then die. So glad your Husband is flying in even though last minute, remember he will be there for you. My family does the same thing, I don't know are they scared or simply don't care about anything other than themselves? I will never know, not one to judge anyone's feelings and actions. I will pray they never face this kind of sickness and deal with it alone. You stay strong and we all Love you and are going to be with you in prayer... God Bless ~ AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com. TV dinner still cooling?Check out "Tonight's Picks" on TV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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