Guest guest Posted January 7, 2009 Report Share Posted January 7, 2009 In one of my earlier post I talked about my husband being upset that I have been speaking with nada again and letting her back into our life. I also talked about my father being diagnosed with cancer and my mother using that as a reason to tell me what a horrible daughter I am for not calling him enough. Anytime that I do call him on his cellphone she answers and gets mad if I ask to speak to him without talking to her. Anyway, since she told me before Christmas that my father has cancer and is starting chemo I have been worried sick and been calling both of them more than usual. Yesterday I found out that my father does not have cancer and is not going to undergo chemo, he just had a biopsy done on a growth that came back benign. My husband is upset because he says this was all just a lie/exaggeration by my mother to ruin our holidays and get her back into our lives. He says that he and our son do not deserve to go through the nada drama again. He is threatening to block their calls to our cell phones if I don't go NC or at least LC with maybe 2-3 phone calls a year on specail occasions to her. I really love my husband and know that he does not deserve this but I don't know what I really need to do. I have a hard time putting myself in his shoes because I have dealt with nada for 32 years, but he says that the 5 years he has spent with her is enough and he and our son are done with her. Any opinions or words of support would be appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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