Anyone who cares, Penny for sure

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Hi n,

I'm so sorry you are feeling so dejected today or lately I suppose.

For what it's worth, the sleep disorder could actually cause those problems

with/for your husband With some luck, maybe the therapy will change his

outlook and reactions and all....and you will have some space to allow growth

the happen more slowly.

this time is very hard. I am sorry.

((((n))))

kandie

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I guess it is my turn to be in the deep black hole

now. I wish i could turn the hands of time (was that

an R. song or what?). My life stinks. I feel

like an old woman. After 18 years of being with my man

I think is time for some changes. I am going to wait

out the changes in his sleeping with a mask on

starting the end of this month (he got an sleeping

disorder and stops breathing many times a night).

Therefore he is not rested, sleeps whenever, is

depressed and unfair. I will wait it out to see if it

will change anything (which I doubt). Then, I guess it

is time to make a decision. We met when I was 16; that

was 19 years ago. He talks to me like I am still a

teenager (I dont look it, that is for sure). When I

see recent pictures, I look shitty. I will get my hair

done in the morning. I will still look shitty but

different. He wont notice.

Then, Tim. He does not give a d. what I say. He does

what he wants. I tell him to go to bed, he decides to

play another Nintendo game. Great, he is 7. Wow. Does

everyone just look at me like I am just the house

slave? I dont know. My life needs to change quick or

you can admit me. Seriously.

And then, my dh got fired on tuesday, to the

4.February. Wow, what a notice. The contract, his firm

got with GM, did not get renewed. It is up to me now

to write his applications and do some calling around.

He cant do it, got to work. Do I get a thank you for

it; no way. I guess I am supposed to do it. Does not

matter. Prost, I am having some Champagne. Who is

going to have a drink with me? I wish I was there, I

could visit somebody, I anyone would let me in of

course. Well, enough wining (whining)? I will never

learn how to spell this one.

See you guys.

n

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[Guest guest]

Oh, n. I can hear the futility you're feeling. (((hugs))) I've felt that

way too. But man, you sure do have a lot of good reasons. :-(

Have you tried to talk to your husband about how he's treating you, or will he

just react badly to that too?

Thinking of you,

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

If you ever come to Alberta, I'll let you in, n.

Take care hon. Hope things get better soon.

Tuna

--- n Fehlinger- wrote:

Prost, I am having some Champagne. Who is going to

have a drink with me? I wish I was there, I could

visit somebody, I anyone who would let me in of course.

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[Guest guest]

n - First of all, Hugs to YOU!

>>>>We met when I was 16; that

was 19 years ago. He talks to me like I am still a

teenager<<<<

-----What happens when you tell him you are not a child? You are his

wife...his equal...

>>> (I dont look it, that is for sure). When I

see recent pictures, I look shitty. I will get my hair

done in the morning. I will still look shitty but

different.<<<<<

-----I don't think you look shitty!! Send a pic when you get your hair

done!!!

>>>Then, Tim. He does not give a d. what I say. He does

what he wants. I tell him to go to bed, he decides to

play another Nintendo game. Great, he is 7.<<<<<

-----Ahhh... That's where I am. I give Jacqui to the count of 3, then I

turn the thing off myself, come what may.

I'll have some of that champagne, n....Your dh is an adult! and so are

you! You deserve to be treated the way you would like to be treated and he

needs to know that.

Keep us updated on what and how you are doing, OK???? - and whine away

whenever you feel the need...

Penny :-)

[Guest guest]

Oh n. I am sorry things are so bad for you. You

have been on my mind. How is your ear? Have you had

your hearing test yet? I hope you got a passing mark

on it.

You are not an old woman! I have seen a pic of you and

you look great. I hope things get better soon.

Hugs from Arkansas!

Ginger

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Ginger, wife to Jeff

14 ADD

9 Autistic

7 NT

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[Guest guest]

>> I will wait it out to see if it

> will change anything (which I doubt). Then, I guess it

> is time to make a decision.>>

Oh, n, you sound so discouraged.

What a tough situation to be dealing with...I really hope that things

look better today. Do go out and take care of yourself today...you

deserve a splurge on the hairdresser. But don't do it so anyone else

will notice...do it for you.

Take care...I'm thinking of you. Sorry things are sooooo hard.

Raena

[Guest guest]

n, I am so sorry that you are going through such a hard time. I don't

have anything to say to help the situation, but just know that I am thinking

good thoughts for you and I hope things work out...one way or the other.

Good luck!!!

Tamara

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To: parenting_autism

Subject: Anyone who cares, Penny for sure

Date: Mon, 14 Jan 2002 20:24:54 +0100 (CET)

I guess it is my turn to be in the deep black hole

now. I wish i could turn the hands of time (was that

an R. song or what?). My life stinks. I feel

like an old woman. After 18 years of being with my man

I think is time for some changes. I am going to wait

out the changes in his sleeping with a mask on

starting the end of this month (he got an sleeping

disorder and stops breathing many times a night).

Therefore he is not rested, sleeps whenever, is

depressed and unfair. I will wait it out to see if it

will change anything (which I doubt). Then, I guess it

is time to make a decision. We met when I was 16; that

was 19 years ago. He talks to me like I am still a

teenager (I dont look it, that is for sure). When I

see recent pictures, I look shitty. I will get my hair

done in the morning. I will still look shitty but

different. He wont notice.

Then, Tim. He does not give a d. what I say. He does

what he wants. I tell him to go to bed, he decides to

play another Nintendo game. Great, he is 7. Wow. Does

everyone just look at me like I am just the house

slave? I dont know. My life needs to change quick or

you can admit me. Seriously.

And then, my dh got fired on tuesday, to the

4.February. Wow, what a notice. The contract, his firm

got with GM, did not get renewed. It is up to me now

to write his applications and do some calling around.

He cant do it, got to work. Do I get a thank you for

it; no way. I guess I am supposed to do it. Does not

matter. Prost, I am having some Champagne. Who is

going to have a drink with me? I wish I was there, I

could visit somebody, I anyone would let me in of

course. Well, enough wining (whining)? I will never

learn how to spell this one.

See you guys.

n

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[Guest guest]

n,

I'm so sorry things are going so badly for you right now. I know you said

before that Tim was a handful, but I didn't know how bad things were with

your dh. I hope the mask helps him. It could decrease a lot of his angry

attitude if that's what he has.

Of course you would be allowed inside if you were to visit any of us!

As to the GM contract not being renewed, that is soon coming for us....I'm

not sure what we'll do if it's not renewed for my dh, too.

Hang in there.

Big Hugs!!

Sue

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