Guest guest Posted February 18, 2000 Report Share Posted February 18, 2000 Does anyone out there have a husband that doesn't understand and constantly makes you feel like you are a burden and how unfair it is to him that he is stuck dealing with this? My husband just don't get it, he constantly tells me about jobs I should get and to quit feeling sorry for myself and why should everyone else suffer, and stay home, not enjoy life because of me. He says I bring most of my pain on myself because I don't work out and excersise and I smoke. I weigh 104 pounds. If I cry and tell him I need him and want him to want to take care of me on my bad days he tells me it's not right that he should feel guilty for wanting to have a life and go out to the ymca, mall, ect. I shouldn't try to keep him stuck in this house, ect. Yesterday and today I have had one of those excrutiating chiari headaches that really needs the ER, but once again, I am left alone to deal with it. I'm sorry too be going on and on, I am just tired of dealing with all of this and I don't know what to do. I have a 19 yr old son with cerebal palsy and a 13 yr old very active daughter and a big messy house,ect...... I just can't handle it anymore. Suicide sounds nice but I can't hurt my kids like that, any suggestions??? thanks Sandy, VA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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