Guest guest Posted February 26, 2008 Report Share Posted February 26, 2008 I found this group while researching BPD and found BPD Central. I'll give some info about myself and my situation. My name is Becky, I'm 26, and I believe, after doing much research, that my mother has BPD. I bought the book " Stop Walking on Eggshells " and it was like reading an autobiography. And right now, I'm sort of in a pre-mourning about our relationship, which I'm not certain I can, or want to maintain. It's too much drama, too much tension, and I have a daughter, who will be one this week, who I do NOT want exposed to the kind of drama and chaos that generally accompanies my mom. But I do have reservations about cutting my mom out completely, especially because I feel it would be unfair to my daughter (to deny her the right to know her grandmother) and I don't want to inflict the kind of pain on my mom that cutting her out of her granddaughter's life would do. But it's hard, because I feel like my mom can't be rational about this, and I know if I suggest she needs help the rage will be unbearable and the suggestion would probably fall on deaf ears, and then I'll be the bad guy (again). Whew- sorry this is so long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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