Re: Re: Feelings and responses to people on the spectrum oh--and

[Guest guest]

> about 40 years old ...

> He colors and

> draws pictures all ...He's like a seven year old bugging the pretty

> girl across the

> classroom because he doesn't know what else to do.

> > Kellie

Gee Kellie sounds like my type whats the problem?

K

[Guest guest]

Next step? Police and document document document.

Jo

Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

spectrum oh--and

Hey Ya'll,

OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And do you

know what

happened?

He did NOT leave me alone.

Back to the drawing board I guess.

Kellie

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[Guest guest]

You gotta be kidding! Call the cops just because someone's annoying?!?

That's abuse of the system. Besides, it's not like anyone's really afraid of

a retarded guy, and it's not like the police would actually do anything

about it...

>

> Next step? Police and document document document.

> Jo

>

> Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

> spectrum oh--and

>

> Hey Ya'll,

>

> OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And

> do you know what

>

> happened?

>

> He did NOT leave me alone.

>

> Back to the drawing board I guess.

>

> Kellie

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[Guest guest]

If it's sexual harassment, or harassment, here we call the police. There is a

real push to put a stop to it - especially in the workplace. The police agree.

Jo

Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

> spectrum oh--and

>

> Hey Ya'll,

>

> OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And

> do you know what

>

> happened?

>

> He did NOT leave me alone.

>

> Back to the drawing board I guess.

>

> Kellie

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[Guest guest]

Yeah. Right. There's no crime here. In order for there to be a crime,

there has to be intent. How can someone with a 40-something IQ

formulate intent?

Besides, the police would do absolutely nothing here. Well... maybe

they'd have a good laugh once they got back to the station, but that's

about it. They have better things to do than jail someone who's

basically an overgrown kindergartner.

Also, over here, we go to the employer first when dealing with sexual

harrassment. Actually, we *can* go to the employer, but probably

shouldn't. Why is everyone so litigious? Wouldn't it be better to

solve a problem objectively, quietly, and with as little disturbance

as possible, rather than trying to put the hurt on someone because we

have the option and the opportunity?

>

>

>

>

> If it's sexual harassment, or harassment, here we call the police. There is

> a real push to put a stop to it - especially in the workplace. The police

> agree.

>

> Jo

>

>

> Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

>

> > spectrum oh--and

>

> >

>

> > Hey Ya'll,

>

> >

>

> > OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And

>

> > do you know what

>

> >

>

> > happened?

>

> >

>

> > He did NOT leave me alone.

>

> >

>

> > Back to the drawing board I guess.

>

> >

>

> > Kellie

>

[Guest guest]

Someone with an IQ of 40 would respect a police discussion far more than a

rebellious 12 year old. Also I didn't know he had an IQ of 40.

Jo

Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

>

> > spectrum oh--and

>

> >

>

> > Hey Ya'll,

>

> >

>

> > OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And

>

> > do you know what

>

> >

>

> > happened?

>

> >

>

> > He did NOT leave me alone.

>

> >

>

> > Back to the drawing board I guess.

>

> >

>

> > Kellie

>

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[Guest guest]

also, didn't she already try the quiet route?

Re: Feelings and responses to people on the

>

> > spectrum oh--and

>

> >

>

> > Hey Ya'll,

>

> >

>

> > OK I did it. I actually told the man that bugs me to leave me alone. And

>

> > do you know what

>

> >

>

> > happened?

>

> >

>

> > He did NOT leave me alone.

>

> >

>

> > Back to the drawing board I guess.

>

> >

>

> > Kellie

>

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[Guest guest]

your welcome I was just trying to help.

That is one thing i like about being blind, is I don't care if someone is

pretty or not.

My first wife looked like a Mrs Universe beauty contestant, and she ended up

cheating on me with another guy.. The next girl I dated after that, was

also pretty,

but she lied to me about being pregnant. Then my 2nd wife, wasn't so

pretty

on the outside, but she had a better personality then any beauty contestant

I ever met.

She ended up cheating on me too, but at least she wasn't " bossy " , " angry all

the time " ,

" treated me like I was stupid " like most beauty contestant females do these

days.

point is, looks don't mean squat to me. If anything, I'm bitter towards

pretty girls

just because I know alot of them don't have matching personalities, so I

stay

far away from beauty contestants myself on purpose.

take Britney Spears for example, that woman makes me sick she's so stupid

with kids.

Yeah she may be pretty, but if a woman like that ever approached me I'd tell

her to get lost

in a heartbeat. There are things that are much more important in life.

I know not everyone is like that. I had several female friends I worked

with at the hospital.

I remember when that one girl lied to me about being pregnant, it was those

girls who tried

to tell me what was going on, and I didn't want to believe them. I didn't

believe them until I found out for myself, then the girls and I became the

best of friends after that.

of course, they were all happily married, but ya know I didn't care. I

mean, just because I'm single doesn't mean I have to constantly look for

someone to date, like most people do. I am proud of the person I am, even

if I'm alone the rest of my life. The girls were just friends and thats

all I cared about. They tried to set me up with girls around the hospital,

but their tastes in personalities were very bad. We lost track of eachother

after I left the hospital, but anyway my point is, I know not everyone is

like that, but I still am bitter between both sexes these days.

I was rapped at the blind school by former male roommates, so I don't feel

much better about guys, I was lied to, and cheated on, in past

relationships, but the one thing that keeps me going, is the friends I make

along the way, and how I make a difference in their lives. I think too

many people try too hard looking for the love of their lives, when love

always happens when a person least expects it, so its better not to look at

all and let fate run its course, Besides, if a person liked me, and I

didn't or couldn't love them back, I would leave that person alone, because

part of loving someone, is knowing their happiness is more important then

your own.

Tom

> Tom,

>

> Thank you. In any normal situation I would gladly go up to the guy and

> tell him to bug off but

> this is not a normal man and he isn't even as normal as you and I. He's

> about 40 years old

> and seems to have the mental capacity of a seven year old. He colors and

> draws pictures all

> day and walks around to try and find me and bug me. This is a place for

> severely mentally

> handicapped people to " work " and have something to do to give the family a

> rest. That is why

> I am having such a problem. He's like a seven year old bugging the pretty

> girl across the

> classroom because he doesn't know what else to do.

>

> I do normally tell men I am not interested in to bug off, not always in

> those words, it

> depends on what is going on.

>

> Kellie

>

>

>

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