Re: One last message... Vent ~ And then I am done.

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Ah hun, ,

I know how you feel and there are no encouraging words to say, just hang in there. Things will get better and we are only given what we can handle... just means you are very strong and capable. I know you and deserve so much more and one day may get it but be glad in having each other. I do hope your car is fixed for little money and that you dont need a new one. (Mine is in the shop as well with no hopes of getting it out soon, so we are all walking again) So we know how you feel. There are others in you shoes as well, and are just alone, with no church family, or family or friends around to help. Hugs you and you are always in my prayers

Huggles you lots

Sophia

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From: Falzarano

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(((((()))))) I'm so sorry to hear about the car. I understand your frustrations and pain. The circumstances are a bit different, but I'm pretty much in the same boat.

hugs and blessings your way,

Sundra

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aw - I don't think you are selfish! We live in a country

where most people have all these things! And our country is not

really set up for the poor! We have to go through heck to GET help,

WHEN we can get help.

It IS frustrating I know. It's not fun to be " different " either.

Having the basics like a roof is great, but yes we need more than

that in our country, to make it. I pray your car will be fixed and

somehow your finances can be straightened out.

I know it stinks to live this way, and you have every right to feel

bad about it. Please don't feel bad, for feeling bad! Yes we have it

in our heads that we have so much and should not feel sorry for

ourselves, but until someone has gone through that, they just don't

know.

You know, in the countries that are a lot poorer; where the average

person is rather poor... they all help each other out; they take

care of each other. The sick and the elderly aren't shuffled into a

places they don't want to be. ;-) They have parents, aunts, uncles,

brothers, sisters, cousins etc. helping them out! That isn't the

norm here! They don't usually have to worry where their food will

come from. They aren't left to fend for themselves really, like we

do here. You know, not going through something all alone, makes all

the difference sometime's. So you see it IS different - they

are " together " in their troubles - not left alone to fend for

themselves like we do here in the USA.

They don't have our systems no - they don't get food stamps etc..

and I am not saying they have it " good " , but I am saying we live

differently here, and those of us who are struggling, are struggling

a lot, compared to those who don't have to really worry about

finances in the USA [they think they do but...]. Ah I probably am

not making sense - just woke up. lol!

It is good to be grateful for what you have yes, but please don't

feel guilty for not having something or struggling to have, what

MOST people in our society does have. Just my thoughts anyway.

xo li

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Falzarano " <tenderheartbear32@y...> wrote:

>

> Hey all... just wanted to ask for prayers. Our car is going down

> now and we really need it for to get back and forth to work.

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,

You are not alone. I feel this way all the time. I also have worked hard all my life and now that I have FMS it seems that we just get in deeper and deeper.

I will be thinking of you and hoping that things get better. Just know that you aren't the only one with these kind of problems.

Hugs,

Carolyn

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: you are not being selfish by wanting for once thing's to go good.. I know thing's are hard for you.. and it seem's like a never ending saga.. I know all to well been there still am.. I just keep reminding myself I am better off than most. at least I do have a roof over my head even if it does leak and I have food in my cupboard's even if it is just remen noodels. God only give's us what he know's we can handle I know you are proble saying enough is enough.. Thing's will get better when you least expect it.. mom alway's used to tell us the dark always comes before the dawn.. Gentle Caring Hug's Marie Marie A. Roomsburg P.O. Box 346 Ava, IL. 62907 E-mail marieava@... or marieava62907@... Messanger. aol. marieava. yahoo. marieava62907