Re: Close to suicide

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--- Snowstars wrote:

>

> Tonight my world ended.

> He informed me that he does not love me anymore, & had in fact

fallen in

> love with my daughter who is soon to be 21.

Alison -

I'm terribly sorry this has happened to you. But this guy is not

worth taking your life over. Please tell your doctor immediately

what is going on. You need help and counseling to get through this.

If you can't talk to your doctor, call a suicide hotline.

The National Suicide Hotline is 1-800-SUICIDE. Please call them

immediately and find someone to talk to who can help you right at

this moment.

Let us know you're still out there. We all care and want you to get

through this.

Cheryl in AZ

Moderator

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This guy is slime and doesn't deserve to breathe air.

Don't kill yourself over someone so unworthy of your love and attention.

Talk to your daughter and hopefully she will see that he needs to leave NOW

and she should stay away from him.

But don't hurt yourself and add to your pain when it's him that is causing

you pain. We are here for you.

" Sweet Goat Mama "

Carolyn Eddy

www.goattracksmagazine.com

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I beg and implore you DON'T GIVE UP. I know what it is like to have your world

ripped apart and feel as if there's nothing left anywhere for you. But there is.

I have been where you are now and by taking one day at a time, just trying to

keep going, and having faith that a better day would come I got through it.

I have been married for five years now to a wonderful man, after being put at

the gates of HELL by my first husband. Don't let this evil and wicked monster

you thought was a decent man have victory over you. You are worth more than he

is.

Ask for help from everyone you can think of and get support. Your friends out

here on the net will always support you. I am praying for you and will light a

candle for you.

Love Janie x

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--- Snowstars wrote:

> I feel like I am living in the twilight zone. I am

out of pain meds & get the scripts filled tomorrow

when I see my Dr. If I had them right now I know I

would be taking the lost. I feel like my heart has

been ripped out & shredded.

Hi Alison

I'm very sorry that your heart is broken. It's okay to

cry, throw all of his things out the door, whatever it

takes to get these feelings of rage out. I'm very glad

you reached out to the group with your feelings.

Please try to channel your anger towards your partner

that left, instead of hurting yourself. You didn't do

anything wrong, he did.

Call someone who loves you to be with you for the next

24 hours, or longer. Don't be alone for more than it

takes to use the loo.

If that isn't possible I hope you will call your local

suicide prevention hot line. We have them here in the

states, I hope they have them in Australia too. I hope

I read your email address correctly, and that Au

stands for Australia. Please forgive me, if I am

incorrect.

If you have a definite plan to kill yourself, call an

ambulance, or have someone, drive yourself to your

hospital.

Don't do this to yourself, your daughter, or any other

loved ones. Their hearts will be forever ripped apart,

if you let this man drive you to suicide.

Pain from a shattered heart, feels like it will last

forever, but I promise you it will get better.

Please keep channeling your rage out, not in. Remember

how devastates your daughter, and loved ones will be

if you kill yourself.

I know you don't want to cause pain to them, just

because your partner has broken your heart. He isn't

worth it.

Like I said, throw his clothes, and things out of the

house. Whatever it takes to get the rage out.

Please let us know what happens, we care about you.

Kaylene

Moderator

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--- Snowstars wrote:

> I feel like I am living in the twilight zone. I am

out of pain meds & get the scripts filled tomorrow

when I see my Dr. If I had them right now I know I

would be taking the lost. I feel like my heart has

been ripped out & shredded.

Hi Alison

I'm very sorry that your heart is broken. It's okay to

cry, throw all of his things out the door, whatever it

takes to get these feelings of rage out. I'm very glad

you reached out to the group with your feelings.

Please try to channel your anger towards your partner

that left, instead of hurting yourself. You didn't do

anything wrong, he did.

Call someone who loves you to be with you for the next

24 hours, or longer. Don't be alone for more than it

takes to use the loo.

If that isn't possible I hope you will call your local

suicide prevention hot line. We have them here in the

states, I hope they have them in Australia too. I hope

I read your email address correctly, and that Au

stands for Australia. Please forgive me, if I am

incorrect.

If you have a definite plan to kill yourself, call an

ambulance, or have someone, drive yourself to your

hospital.

Don't do this to yourself, your daughter, or any other

loved ones. Their hearts will be forever ripped apart,

if you let this man drive you to suicide.

Pain from a shattered heart, feels like it will last

forever, but I promise you it will get better.

Please keep channeling your rage out, not in. Remember

how devastates your daughter, and loved ones will be

if you kill yourself.

I know you don't want to cause pain to them, just

because your partner has broken your heart. He isn't

worth it.

Like I said, throw his clothes, and things out of the

house. Whatever it takes to get the rage out.

Please let us know what happens, we care about you.

Kaylene

Moderator

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Alison,

I know you would not do that to your poor daughter. Its not her fault your

married to a worthless man. Don't take his actions out on her by harming

yourself. I'm sorry you are in pain emotionally and physically but that is not

the answer. You would be giving your daughter the same life you want to get away

from, lots of pain and misery. She would always blame herself and I know thats

not what you want for her.

Caitlin

Moderator

Snowstars wrote:

He informed me that he does not love me anymore, & had in fact fallen in

love with my daughter who is soon to be 21. She of course knows nothing

about this & I think would be absolutely staggered when she is told.

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Snowstars wrote: Tonight my world

ended.

I feel like I am living in the twilight zone. I am out of pain meds &

get the scripts filled tomorrow when I see my Dr. If I had them right

now I know I would be taking the lost. I feel like my heart has been

ripped out & shredded.

My Dearest ,

I am so sorry that this has happened to you. I know that I would honestly

feel the same way, but , taking your own life would totally destroy your

daughter. She will be distraught enough when she finds out why you have kicked

the low life out of your home. If you left her too don't you think that it

could possibly drive her to do the same thing.

Please honey, reconsider your thoughts. Talk to your doctor and let him know

that you need immediate help and I mean right now.

You will be okay but it's gonna take a lot of time. The good thing is that

you have your daughter who I know will help you through all of this and you also

have all of us. We are here for you through the whole ride. You can talk to us

during the day and night. Someone is always here.

I know you will do the right thing . Be strong for yourself and your

daughter and show that jerk of a man that life will go on just fine without him

in either of your lives.

Please talk with me anytime you feel like it. You can e-mail me privately if

you wish to cry and talk to me.

Your in my prayers and my thoughts,

Carol (OK)

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He is not worth your life. Please don't even think of doing anything.

Seek professional help as soon as possible to guide you through the

pain, but please, please do not bring harm to yourself over this.

I hope you will listen to everyone in the forum and stay strong. YOU

are worth living for.

Carol - CDS

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Alison,

I am so sorry. I didn't even read all of the replies yet but hope you can tell

that we all care

about you and are here to support you.

I don't know if someone said this already, but especially since your daughter

had NO active

part in this WHATSOEVER, you need to realize that she will need you more than

ever right

now too. That guy is obviously scum and not in his right mind, as no person in a

mentally

normal state of mind would do something like this.

but like I said, your daughter needs you right now as much as you need her. If

you were to

die or disappear, when she finds out this horrible disturbing news, she will

have nobody to

go to, her mom would not be there. Please Alison, you must be strong and stick

it through

these tough times.

I don't know you very well or your daughter obviously, but I do know that when

horrible

things like this happen in my own life and in the people close to me, that they

NEED you

to be there for support. I would think that your daughter will need you just as

much as

you need her right now. Lean on each other for support, that's what family is

about and

what nobody else can take the place of.

I hope you got at least some sleep last night and when you get your pain

medicine refill

today that it helps with the physical pain. But please, please think about how

much your

life means to everyone around you and to US on this list. This mailing list is a

very close-

knit group that truly care for each other. Look at all of the replies you got,

if we all didn't

dearly care about you and your situation, you wouldn't see so many replies.

Let us all know how you're doing and if there's anything we can do to help.

While it's

unimaginable at this moment I'm sure to realize what an unstable, disturbed, and

selfish

person this man truly is, I promise you that in time, you WILL get over this and

move on;

we always do!

KT