Re: Deb R. TO Mods

[Guest guest]

You can tell that the email isn't read before it goes through because I get it immediately when I send a post. So, no one has time to read it and send it on to the list that fast.

And, amen.

Margaret,mom to the monsters

TO Mods

I just wanted to say good bye and before I go I would like to say something. I have wrote many times about many things , some yes I was complaining and others I felt I was trying to help someone feel better or answer someones questions but I noticed that some of my post , weather it was help for myself or someone else. I throught earlier that someone must decied what goes on and what is deleted. I know you said sometimes there is so many post people don't read all post but I have went on line when the group has been busy and other times there are only five or six on line and still the same thing happenes. Some of my post just doesn't come on and they aren't sent back to me so I know it goes thru. Iam rather disapointed in you guys as I really throught you were here to help people not judge which ones to help but anyone who needed it. Not to sound like am feeling sorry for myself but I needed you guys more then you will ever know. I may not come across the way I've wanted to at times as its hard to tell people my true feelings but Iam a good person and all my life I have tried to treat people good and be there for them no matter who they were. No matter the subject I write about I hardly ever get a answer or a question from you guys. I have probly spent 18 hours out of 24 on this group as I needed a life line and I came to you guys. I really came to care about so many here and I wish them all the best. now I will leave you guys and you won't have to delete my post or ignore it as it won't ever be there. I am going home to my maker soon as I have never fit in anywhere. I don't know how to get off your group but am sure one of you mods would be happy to take me off1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to certain health conditions or just dangerous in general.2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation better.Have a nice day everyone.

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Deb R,

Well I am not sure what your whiney ass problem is but your not

going to blame my mods for it. The messages go threw right away, we

arent screening or anything like that. Norah has a point and none of

us need ur version of a guilt trip. As for the comment of not getting

off this list, you signed up, you can get yourself off. The mods

arent going to do it for you. Dont come here whining that someone

isnt answering your emails. Wahhh, to bad. Believe me not all emails

are answered and you would really understand that had you noticed

that we all have the same damned condition and are in the same damned

boat. Get out of your pitty party and get on with life.

Love and Hugs

Vicki/ Lady Vader

CO OWNER

> What the hell are you talking about Deb? I mean really. No one

filters

> e-mail here. If it doesn't go through, it's either Yahoo's fault or

> something on your end. We do not read every e-mail and decide on

which to

> delete and which to put through. No one here has time or energy

for that

> kind of job. Stop laying the guilt trips and getting so damned

paranoid.

> This is life on the internet... take it or leave it. No one has

got some

> secret agenda on you. If this is what you put your family through,

then

> it's no surprise that they treat you the way they do.

>

> Personally... I'm pretty damned tired of it and pretty pissed off

at the

> same time from your accusations. It's almost as if you're looking

for

> trouble or a pity party and I don't have that kind of strength or

health to

> deal with it. People that know me know that I don't get pissed off

very

> easily... but you pressed the right buttons for me on the right

day... I'm

> PMS'ing, feel like total shit... and don't need this.

> --

> Norah Bleazard - Burlington, Ontario Canada

> www.bleazard.net ~ www.janorlites.com

>

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> norah.fibroyahoo@b...

>

> CHAT=

> MSN = black_dak_98@h...

> Yahoo = drazaelbn

> AIM = black98dak

> ICQ = 105346330

>

> Site Moderator for: fibromyalgia_support_group

>

> Site Owner for:

> Fibromites_Fighting_Weight:

> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Fibromites_Fighting_Weight

> http://fibromites.ath.cx

>

> TO Mods

>

>

>

> I just wanted to say good bye and before I go I would like to say

> something. I have wrote many times about many things , some yes I

was

> complaining and others I felt I was trying to help someone feel

better or

> answer someones questions but I noticed that some of my post ,

weather it

> was help for myself or someone else. I throught earlier that

someone must

> decied what goes on and what is deleted. I know you said sometimes

there is

> so many post people don't read all post but I have went on line

when the

> group has been busy and other times there are only five or six on

line and

> still the same thing happenes. Some of my post just doesn't come on

and they

> aren't sent back to me so I know it goes thru. Iam rather

disapointed in you

> guys as I really throught you were here to help people not judge

which ones

> to help but anyone who needed it. Not to sound like am feeling

sorry for

> myself but I needed you guys more then you will ever know. I may

not come

> across the way I've wanted to at times as its hard to tell people

my true

> feelings but Iam a good person and all my life I have tried to

treat people

> good and be there for them no matter who they were. No matter the

subject I

> write about I hardly ever get a answer or a question from you guys.

I have

> probly spent 18 hours out of 24 on this group as I needed a life

line and I

> came to you guys. I really came to care about so many here and I

wish them

> all the best. now I will leave you guys and you won't have to

delete my post

> or ignore it as it won't ever be there. I am going home to my maker

soon as

> I have never fit in anywhere. I don't know how to get off your

group but am

> sure one of you mods would be happy to take me off

[Guest guest]

Wow. I don't know what to say about all of this going on for the past

couple of hours. But I do know, none of us has the time nor the

energy to read and sort through the hundreds of messages we get, plus

keep up with other things going on in our lives.

There are 15 moderators on this group. I'm one of them, and I have to

say that we ALL WORK HARD at doing what we can to answer most of the

questions on this list. Deb, I know I've written you a few times OFF

list and you've replied to me ON list, which honestly, I didn't

appreciate. I offered to lend an ear today and immediately you

rebuked the statement. I'm sorry I was trying to be nice by putting

us in the same awful category of losing a parent to suicide. But I

must say, your message back made me feel slighted, and i even thought

for a second: is this worth my time?

I've seen you come and go on this list, and try to guilt us into

writing to you and talking with you. Those of us who TRY never get a

reply from you. I don't know what to say. As for the messages coming

through to the e-mail, it all depends on how Yahoo behaves and even

how your own ISP behaves. I send messages and I won't see them for a

day or so because of my network server. I can't blame the PERSON for

that. I have a time and date stamp on each email that tells me when

it was sent.

If you go, I'm sorry to see you leave. If you stay, please. You have

to be patient with us, and not put the guilt trip out there for us.

It's not worth the energy, is it? And it sure doesn't gain any

friends.

Dawn

==

site mod

[Guest guest]

i have somethign to say: the other night, can't remember which night, maybe saturday, deb R. kept writing to the list asking someone to talk to her and i sent a couple messages saying i was here, but she wouldn't respond to me. it's not the first time she had ignored a direct message to her i had written her. i didn't get mad, and say i'm leaving the list and make accusations -- i only thought i had done something to upset deb R., but couldn't figure out what. i guess that's all i want to say -- that i had tried to talk to deb but she wouldn't respond. i also wrote her privately with no response.

Luv & Hugz, Lindy Lou"You can never be too rich, too thin or have enough Barbies!

Wow. I don't know what to say about all of this going on for the past couple of hours. But I do know, none of us has the time nor the energy to read and sort through the hundreds of messages we get, plus keep up with other things going on in our lives.There are 15 moderators on this group. I'm one of them, and I have to say that we ALL WORK HARD at doing what we can to answer most of the questions on this list. Deb, I know I've written you a few times OFF list and you've replied to me ON list, which honestly, I didn't appreciate. I offered to lend an ear today and immediately you rebuked the statement. I'm sorry I was trying to be nice by putting us in the same awful category of losing a parent to suicide. But I must say, your message back made me feel slighted, and i even thought for a second: is this worth my time?I've seen you come and go on this list, and try to guilt us into writing to you and talking with you. Those of us who TRY never get a reply from you. I don't know what to say. As for the messages coming through to the e-mail, it all depends on how Yahoo behaves and even how your own ISP behaves. I send messages and I won't see them for a day or so because of my network server. I can't blame the PERSON for that. I have a time and date stamp on each email that tells me when it was sent.If you go, I'm sorry to see you leave. If you stay, please. You have to be patient with us, and not put the guilt trip out there for us. It's not worth the energy, is it? And it sure doesn't gain any friends.Dawn==site mod