Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 Hi , I can understand and certainly sympathize with your situation. I have unrelenting fatigue which doesn't go away no matter when or how much I sleep. Some days are better than others but I'm never entirely fatigue free. I'm not sure how old your children are or even how old you are. I am 55 with 3 sons. My youngest is 12. I work only 4 hours a week for pay. I schedule rest times for when the boys are at school. If they need to go somewhere, I encourage them to wait if they can or to go with a friend and have their friend's parent take them. It's not easy, but I try to avoid stress if at all possible. Stress and fatigue make whatever other symptoms that much more pronounced. There is a medication called Provigil that is supposed to help a person stay awake and be more alert. The sleep doctor prescribed it for my son. It's not covered by medicaid and when the doctor signed the form to request authorization he had used a different diagnosis than the one he should have used. We're having the manufacturer help with getting it approved. Since my son has not used this medication, I can't verify that it will work. But maybe this is something you can ask your doctor about. It's only approved by the FDA for three different diagnoses: Obstructive sleep apnea/hypopnea syndrome Shift work sleep disorder (SWSD) Narcolepsy You can read more at the provigil web site: http://www.provigil.com/patient/disorders/disorders.aspx Try to maintain good nutrition. Rest when you can. If your children are young, hire a babysitter to entertain them while you take care of yourself. Donna It does not require many words to speak the truth. --Chief ph __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2006 Report Share Posted June 7, 2006 I have been very lucky no to have any fatigue trouble with my MS just no balance and bladder trouble. I think sometimes I would trade having fatigue for being able to walk around my city block again. I probably should be careful what I wish for. Bill pebbles1175 wrote: Hello, all. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for dealing with extreme fatigue. I know the whole deal about using your energy like a bank account, spacing and pacing yourself, taking naps and breaks when needed, etc. But I have two very active children, and I'm wondering if there is a vitamin or something I could take to help. I've researched vitamin b-12 but it seems that only works if you have a deficiency of that particular vitamin. I've tried the so call "energy drinks" and they taste so horrible I can't stand it. I don't know if my meds have affected my taste or what, but it seems like I am much more sensitive to tastes and smells. I especially have a difficult time the two days after my Avonex injection. I inject on Sunday nights, Monday's I'm completely out of commission until late in the afternoon or early in the evening, meaning I'm in bed. Then I gradulally force myself to get up for a few hours before going back to bed. Tuesdays are usually alot better, and it increases gradually until it's time to take another injection. Isn't that a hoot?! I've began eating healthier, I'm still overweight, though but I have lost 20 pounds since my dx in December, not necessarily trying to do that, so I don't know if that's good or not, being overweight to begin with, i'm not complaining.. I have bought exercise equipment (haven't we all?) and do plan on starting to use my treadmill once we get moved in our new home, which hopefully will be in the coming month. I could just really use some extra energy and I don't know where to find it~~This is a symptom that I am having alot of trouble coping with. I used to be able to do so much and I look back now and wonder if I could do it all again if I had to; I don't think I could. It's so frustrating, any suggestions are appreciated. I feel like my time in bed, resting and napping, is time wasted. Maybe I just need to quit looking for a magic pill and learn to accept my limitations better? What do you experienced MSers suggest? BTW, I have my first counseling appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. I'm hoping it will help me cope with all of this. Has anyone had positive experiences with counseling this soon after dx? Sometimes it seems like just yesterday and other days it seems like i've been dealing with this for my whole life! Sorry didnt' mean to ramble on so much. It's just so nice to be able to have this sounding board and hear from other people who I know understand. I haven't had that until now, and hopefully for everyone in the group, once the newness of this group wears off I will quit posting and aggravating you all so much!! Thanks ahead, ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2006 Report Share Posted June 7, 2006 Hey Bill and others, I think we should all be careful what we wish for: I once asked God to please not take my hearing or my vision senses away. When I was first diagnosed with MS, I had very little sense of touch. I almost burned myself a few times. It's amazing how important that sense of touch and speech ( I really sounded like I was drunk when I was 1st diagnosed) can be/are. I guess God really knew what he was doing when He gave me them. BarbMS-Bill wrote: I have been very lucky no to have any fatigue trouble with my MS just no balance and bladder trouble. I think sometimes I would trade having fatigue for being able to walk around my city block again. I probably should be careful what I wish for.Billpebbles1175 wrote:> Hello, all. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for dealing> with extreme fatigue. I know the whole deal about using your energy> like a bank account, spacing and pacing yourself, taking naps and> breaks when needed, etc. But I have two very active children, and> I'm wondering if there is a vitamin or something I could take to> help. I've researched vitamin b-12 but it seems that only works if> you have a deficiency of that particular vitamin. I've tried the so> call "energy drinks" and they taste so horrible I can't stand it. I> don't know if my meds have affected my taste or what, but it seems> like I am much more sensitive to tastes and smells. I especially> have a difficult time the two days after my Avonex injection. I> inject on Sunday nights, Monday's I'm completely out of commission> until late in the afternoon or early in the evening, meaning I'm in> bed. Then I gradulally force myself to get up for a few hours before> going back to bed. Tuesdays are usually alot better, and it> increases gradually until it's time to take another injection. Isn't> that a hoot?! I've began eating healthier, I'm still overweight,> though but I have lost 20 pounds since my dx in December, not> necessarily trying to do that, so I don't know if that's good or> not, being overweight to begin with, i'm not complaining.. I have> bought exercise equipment (haven't we all?) and do plan on starting> to use my treadmill once we get moved in our new home, which> hopefully will be in the coming month. I could just really use some> extra energy and I don't know where to find it~~This is a symptom> that I am having alot of trouble coping with. I used to be able to> do so much and I look back now and wonder if I could do it all again> if I had to; I don't think I could. It's so frustrating, any> suggestions are appreciated. I feel like my time in bed, resting and> napping, is time wasted. Maybe I just need to quit looking for a> magic pill and learn to accept my limitations better? What do you> experienced MSers suggest? BTW, I have my first counseling> appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. I'm> hoping it will help me cope with all of this. Has anyone had> positive experiences with counseling this soon after dx? Sometimes> it seems like just yesterday and other days it seems like i've been> dealing with this for my whole life! Sorry didnt' mean to ramble on> so much. It's just so nice to be able to have this sounding board> and hear from other people who I know understand. I haven't had that> until now, and hopefully for everyone in the group, once the newness> of this group wears off I will quit posting and aggravating you all> so much!! Thanks ahead,> ~>> __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2006 Report Share Posted June 7, 2006 - You are not aggravating anyone with your posts. And I totally know what you are talking about being fatigued all the time. I myself, have spent the last 5 days sleeping. I'm up now, but I know in just a little while, I'm going back to my bed to get some more sleep. The fatigue is the worst part of the MS for me. I literally have to force myself to get up every day. What I hate the most is...I don't really sleep a lot while I'm in bed. Most of the time, I don't get enough sleep. I just lay in bed looking up to the ceiling counting the bumps in the stucco. In my mind, I'm cleaning house like a mad woman! Scrubbing floors, dusting, washing dishes, doing laundry, etc...etc... I sure wish that's all we had to do. My house would be spotless. As it is right now, I clean one room a day. Thank goodness there are just two of us living here, that's enough. I know I'm not much help here. Basically, I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. What works for one, may not work for another. We all have to find a way that we can deal with this. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm still trying to find something. God bless...Val -- fatigue Hello, all. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for dealing with extreme fatigue. I know the whole deal about using your energy like a bank account, spacing and pacing yourself, taking naps and breaks when needed, etc. But I have two very active children, and I'm wondering if there is a vitamin or something I could take to help. I've researched vitamin b-12 but it seems that only works if you have a deficiency of that particular vitamin. I've tried the so call "energy drinks" and they taste so horrible I can't stand it. I don't know if my meds have affected my taste or what, but it seems like I am much more sensitive to tastes and smells. I especially have a difficult time the two days after my Avonex injection. I inject on Sunday nights, Monday's I'm completely out of commission until late in the afternoon or early in the evening, meaning I'm in bed. Then I gradulally force myself to get up for a few hours before going back to bed. Tuesdays are usually alot better, and it increases gradually until it's time to take another injection. Isn't that a hoot?! I've began eating healthier, I'm still overweight, though but I have lost 20 pounds since my dx in December, not necessarily trying to do that, so I don't know if that's good or not, being overweight to begin with, i'm not complaining.. I have bought exercise equipment (haven't we all?) and do plan on starting to use my treadmill once we get moved in our new home, which hopefully will be in the coming month. I could just really use some extra energy and I don't know where to find it~~This is a symptom that I am having alot of trouble coping with. I used to be able to do so much and I look back now and wonder if I could do it all again if I had to; I don't think I could. It's so frustrating, any suggestions are appreciated. I feel like my time in bed, resting and napping, is time wasted. Maybe I just need to quit looking for a magic pill and learn to accept my limitations better? What do you experienced MSers suggest? BTW, I have my first counseling appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. I'm hoping it will help me cope with all of this. Has anyone had positive experiences with counseling this soon after dx? Sometimes it seems like just yesterday and other days it seems like i've been dealing with this for my whole life! Sorry didnt' mean to ramble on so much. It's just so nice to be able to have this sounding board and hear from other people who I know understand. I haven't had that until now, and hopefully for everyone in the group, once the newness of this group wears off I will quit posting and aggravating you all so much!! Thanks ahead,~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2006 Report Share Posted June 7, 2006 Thanks Barb for the most part I am very happy even with my MS but I still wonder if sometimes and I do know you are correct. My wifes father Herb has Alzhiemers and has been in a nursing home now for several year's. He doesn't even know he has new grandkids. My MS is mild compared to what he is going through. Bill batman robin wrote: > Hey Bill and others, I think we should all be careful what we wish > for: I once asked God to please not take my hearing or my vision > senses away. When I was first diagnosed with MS, I had very little > sense of touch. I almost burned myself a few times. It's amazing how > important that sense of touch and speech ( I really sounded like I was > drunk when I was 1st diagnosed) can be/are. > > I guess God really knew what he was doing when He gave me them. > > Barb > */MS-Bill /* wrote: > > > > I have been very lucky no to have any fatigue trouble with my MS > just no > balance and bladder trouble. I think sometimes I would trade having > fatigue for being able to walk around my city block again. I probably > should be careful what I wish for. > Bill > > pebbles1175 wrote: > > > Hello, all. I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for dealing > > with extreme fatigue. I know the whole deal about using your energy > > like a bank account, spacing and pacing yourself, taking naps and > > breaks when needed, etc. But I have two very active children, and > > I'm wondering if there is a vitamin or something I could take to > > help. I've researched vitamin b-12 but it seems that only works if > > you have a deficiency of that particular vitamin. I've tried the so > > call " energy drinks " and they taste so horrible I can't stand it. I > > don't know if my meds have affected my taste or what, but it seems > > like I am much more sensitive to tastes and smells. I especially > > have a difficult time the two days after my Avonex injection. I > > inject on Sunday nights, Monday's I'm completely out of commission > > until late in the afternoon or early in the evening, meaning I'm in > > bed. Then I gradulally force myself to get up for a few hours before > > going back to bed. Tuesdays are usually alot better, and it > > increases gradually until it's time to take another injection. Isn't > > that a hoot?! I've began eating healthier, I'm still overweight, > > though but I have lost 20 pounds since my dx in December, not > > necessarily trying to do that, so I don't know if that's good or > > not, being overweight to begin with, i'm not complaining.. I have > > bought exercise equipment (haven't we all?) and do plan on starting > > to use my treadmill once we get moved in our new home, which > > hopefully will be in the coming month. I could just really use some > > extra energy and I don't know where to find it~~This is a symptom > > that I am having alot of trouble coping with. I used to be able to > > do so much and I look back now and wonder if I could do it all again > > if I had to; I don't think I could. It's so frustrating, any > > suggestions are appreciated. I feel like my time in bed, resting and > > napping, is time wasted. Maybe I just need to quit looking for a > > magic pill and learn to accept my limitations better? What do you > > experienced MSers suggest? BTW, I have my first counseling > > appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. I'm > > hoping it will help me cope with all of this. Has anyone had > > positive experiences with counseling this soon after dx? Sometimes > > it seems like just yesterday and other days it seems like i've been > > dealing with this for my whole life! Sorry didnt' mean to ramble on > > so much. It's just so nice to be able to have this sounding board > > and hear from other people who I know understand. I haven't had that > > until now, and hopefully for everyone in the group, once the newness > > of this group wears off I will quit posting and aggravating you all > > so much!! Thanks ahead, > > ~ > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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