Does everyone get presents.

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You have to become a 'threat to HER perfect motherhood' to get presents,

lol. You are apparently not working hard enough to be 'the bad child', haha.

Hugs, Carol

In a message dated 12/18/2007 9:43:51 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

lgarter518@... writes:

Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away presents and I

haven't gotten a

present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years ago. Hanukah

just passed,

nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my grandfather

took out for

me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in, and she gave

me her

computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida which eneded up

being 8 months

later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of crap)

What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I guess then I

wouldn't want them)

L

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[Guest guest]

Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away presents and I

haven't gotten a

present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years ago. Hanukah

just passed,

nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my grandfather

took out for

me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in, and she gave me

her

computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida which eneded up

being 8 months

later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of crap)

What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I guess then I

wouldn't want them)

L

[Guest guest]

Sorry L. so sad for you.......

These " presents " that I am sending back are only for show, and to

make me feel horrible for NC. She is hoping that I will open them

in front of my children, husband, my sister, brother, and her ex (my

father). In hopes that everyone will think I am a selfish brat, and

a bad, little girl.

My nada is normally not a giver, she only gives for Birtday's and

Christmas's. Not just because, or because she thought it would be

nice for me to have, nooooo, its just for show, or used as a tool,

or a weapon, or to keep me in the " FOG " .

Although she likes to buy me things......and then makes me pay for

them, NO KIDDING!!! " I saw this and thought you might like it, oh

and, I paid 22.95 for it " ......Ok nada, will you take check, cash or

a credit card?????

What a hag!!!

drlingirl

>

> Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away

presents and I haven't gotten a

> present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years

ago. Hanukah just passed,

> nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

>

> Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my

grandfather took out for

> me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in, and

she gave me her

> computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida which

eneded up being 8 months

> later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of

crap)

>

> What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I

guess then I wouldn't want them)

>

> L

>

[Guest guest]

drlingirl,

When your mother says she found this and thought you might like it, and it's

$22.95 -- why can't you just say, 'No, thanks, I'll pass' and then let her

figure out what to do with it?

AZClown

Re: Does everyone get presents.

Sorry L. so sad for you.......

These " presents " that I am sending back are only for show, and to

make me feel horrible for NC. She is hoping that I will open them

in front of my children, husband, my sister, brother, and her ex (my

father). In hopes that everyone will think I am a selfish brat, and

a bad, little girl.

My nada is normally not a giver, she only gives for Birtday's and

Christmas's. Not just because, or because she thought it would be

nice for me to have, nooooo, its just for show, or used as a tool,

or a weapon, or to keep me in the " FOG " .

Although she likes to buy me things...... and then makes me pay for

them, NO KIDDING!!! " I saw this and thought you might like it, oh

and, I paid 22.95 for it " .......Ok nada, will you take check, cash or

a credit card?????

What a hag!!!

drlingirl

>

> Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away

presents and I haven't gotten a

> present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years

ago. Hanukah just passed,

> nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

>

> Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my

grandfather took out for

> me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in, and

she gave me her

> computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida which

eneded up being 8 months

> later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of

crap)

>

> What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I

guess then I wouldn't want them)

>

> L

>

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[Guest guest]

Oh I know I have been wrong to enable this behavior with her.

She second hand shops everyday, and from time to time, finds some

neat stuff.......she found a side table that had great potential,

with some sanding and paint. If I wanted it....I had to pay for it,

otherwise she would re-sell it. She shops, and hoards, everyday,

and I should never have encouraged this by paying for these things.

It only gives her more money to go and shop some more. One time I

bought a recliner from her and paid 75 dollars for it.....then I

found out she only paid 50 for it......I called her out on it, and

she said, " well how do you expect me to make any money to buy other

stuff " ???

She is a truly sick person, and it only takes one look at her over

stuff/cluttered house to see that. Money is a true issue with her as

well.....she offered my husband and I a loan once.....but wanted to

write up a contract and she also wanted interest paid. She is a

miser to the fullest!!! I expect to be taken out of the WILL the

longer I go NC.

What really hurts is that she gives, gives, gives, to my

sister......and yet expects me to pay, pay, pay!!!

Story of my life!!!

drlingirl

> >

> > Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away

> presents and I haven't gotten a

> > present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years

> ago. Hanukah just passed,

> > nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

> >

> > Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my

> grandfather took out for

> > me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in,

and

> she gave me her

> > computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida

which

> eneded up being 8 months

> > later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of

> crap)

> >

> > What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I

> guess then I wouldn't want them)

> >

> > L

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Thanks for the chuckle, I have been really bad so maybe I'll get a belated

Hanukkah gift???

Tonight was great, she lives in FL, and keeps asking me to come visit. It took

me 2

months to recover from the last visit.

I keep telling her no, tonight she said, you are coming to visit, you are coming

in January.

I said no I am not

She said yes you are

I said are you freakin kidding me, last I checked I decide were I go

She said, you aren't working right now ( I am out on disability for a thyroid

issue) so you

should come visit.

I told her unless she plans on coming up to PA and dragging me by the hair down

to FL I

wasn't coming down.

She is worse than a 2 year old.

AHHHH

>

>

> You have to become a 'threat to HER perfect motherhood' to get presents,

> lol. You are apparently not working hard enough to be 'the bad child', haha.

> Hugs, Carol

>

[Guest guest]

I am sure this is painful for you. I can see why it would be, when

your mother doesn't even bother with the pleasantries of trying to

" look " like she's being nice to you.

However, I tend to think that those here whose nadas don't call them

much, or give them much, or see them much, are in a better position

than those of us whose nadas wish to consume them.

Hope this is some consolation for you...

-Deanna

>

> Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone needs to turn away

presents and I haven't gotten a

> present for anything since my 25th birthday, which was 7 years ago.

Hanukah just passed,

> nothing from Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)

>

> Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave me a $500 Isreali bond that my

grandfather took out for

> me when I was born. It was in my name, she let me turn it in, and

she gave me her

> computer, but I couldn't have it until she moved to Florida which

eneded up being 8 months

> later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of crap)

>

> What is up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I guess

then I wouldn't want them)

>

> L

>

[Guest guest]

I like what you said Deanna. I believe it would be much easier if my Nada would

just leave me alone. Instead she is either pouting to my father about how she's

committed the unpardonable sin with me or she's trying to consume me she doesn't

have a healthy middle ground.

Kelley

To: WTOAdultChildren1@...: vegdeanna@...: Wed, 19 Dec

2007 05:32:29 +0000Subject: Re: Does everyone get presents.

I am sure this is painful for you. I can see why it would be, whenyour mother

doesn't even bother with the pleasantries of trying to " look " like she's being

nice to you.However, I tend to think that those here whose nadas don't call

themmuch, or give them much, or see them much, are in a better positionthan

those of us whose nadas wish to consume them.Hope this is some consolation for

you...-Deanna>> Hi everyone, I keep seeing that everyone

needs to turn awaypresents and I haven't gotten a > present for anything since

my 25th birthday, which was 7 years ago.Hanukah just passed, > nothing from

Nada, or grandma (because Nada is in charge)> > Oh and this is a hoot, Nada gave

me a $500 Isreali bond that mygrandfather took out for > me when I was born. It

was in my name, she let me turn it in, andshe gave me her > computer, but I

couldn't have it until she moved to Florida whicheneded up being 8 months >

later (I had to throw the computer away it was such a piece of crap)> > What is

up with that, do I have to go NC to get presents. (I guessthen I wouldn't want

them)> > L>

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I’ve always been a treat to her getting the (anti)mother-of-the-century

award. No wonder I’m NC. Life’s actually never been better.

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