now what?

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God I can't stand this! As you may remember I posted not long ago

about my nada calling me a heathen for making someone (nutcase) cry

and for saying my couin looked like an alien as a baby. So my dad

called to ask me about it, I told him what was bothering me. Then

nada called me and I told her. She just said " sorry, I'll have to

watch what I say " . Just now my dad calls about something else, not my

mom, so I said " did mom tell you that we talked? " " yes, I don't want

to get in the middle of it " I'm like " what!? " He went on to say that

my mom told him that I misunderstood her that she called me a " heal "

not a " heathen " ; so I was like ok if that's the case why didn't she

tell me that on the phone when I brought it up. My dad kept talking

about how I misunderstood her, and that she told me

that,blablabhbhhbhh. I'm like " NO SHE DIDN'T TELL ME THAT I

MISUNDERSTOOD HER " He's like I thought she did. NO. HUh......I said

if I did misunderstand, why would she tell you and not me that???

He's like I don't know. She's trying to back track, back pedal,

manipulate us both. Oh no, why would she do that.....Folks tell me is

she not trying to manipulate us, change the story all around for her

benefit??? I could have misunderstood her, I'll give her that, but

why wouldn't she say that. Can I just say I wish I'd never moved to

be near them....what someone was saying in an earlier post about once

you get married, it really brings issues out, boy were they right.

She got really weird when I got married, and just crazier w/each baby

I have. Somebody tell me how do I deal w/her, how she makes comments,

and tells me one thing and my dad another... I'm sick of having a

crazy mother!!!!!!!!