Your Relative is Dying

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Greetings: Here is some information that one might consider.

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This web site talks about before and after, plans may already have been

made but it wouldn't hurt to read what is written here.

*As Someone Dies: A Handbook for the Living (Paperback) *

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*A Journey through Grief by *Cornils, Stanley P.

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Retired minister Cornils presents a considerate guidebook for managing

grief that recalls his previous book, The Mourning After: How To Manage

Grief Wisely. In clear writing reflective of his Christian standpoint,

he covers handling the holidays, remarriage, money matters, etc., and

outlines four steps to aid healing: acceptance, experiencing the grief

fully, adjusting to a different life, and reinvesting one's emotions in

something else. Grieving, he says, " is not a disease which needs to be

cured but an experience which needs to be worked through. " As Cornils

concludes, " You will never get over it, but you CAN get through it. "

Though at times repetitive, Cornils consistently and comfortingly

acknowledges the difficulties that mourners face. Solid, helpful, and

featuring a directory of support groups and a bibliography, this is

recommended for public libraries. Copyright © Business Information,

a division of Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

These might be helpful or you can search your public library to see if

there is something better

Be Blessed

Darwent, Moderator

Chronic Pain

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These are my three treasures,

Compassion, Frugality, & Humility.

Being Compassionate one has Courage,

Being Frugal one has Abundance.

Being Humble one becomes the chief of all vessels.

~~Lao Tzu~~

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