childhood feeling comes back

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I remember when I was younger , a kid living at home with just NADA and

my sister, I always felt better when my mom had a boyfriend. She and my

father divorced when I was only 6, so while i was growing up there were

a few men to come and go. Nothing excessive or bad, but she dated, even

got engaged a couple times. But i remember whenever he was around

(whoever the " he " might be, I felt like I could RELAX. She didn't get

angry if i wanted to go to a friends house, or if i didn't do the

dishes right that day she didn't get all pissed off. And when things

would fall apart between them, I remember feeling sad for her, but also

feeling nervous again. Have any of you ever experienced this?

Well, now she has a new guy-friend, and he is coming over for

Thanksgiving. He doesn't really have any family or anything. But that

feeling is coming back, where I can relax that day because someone else

will be there. I'm going to my fiancees family later that day, and i

was worried about it because i know how she resents my relationship

with my fiancee, and has already given me a hard time about being with

him during the holiday, but for some reason, i don't thik it will be

abd anymore because someone else will be there. any thoughts?