Guest guest Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 Hi everyone! i havent posted on here much but i do read almost all the posts. My Nada has become quite dangerous to me since her last pretend suicide attempt. She has been involved with her married therapist for 15 years. He bought a dream house for them she sold her house and moved in but he never did. she was suicidal then and i had her come live with me for 2 months- she went to the hospital and then outpatient by me. But then of course, everything was great again, she ended up paying him and his wife rent until this fall. Afer her hospitalization my entire family rallied around me (finally) they made a deal with her that they would buy her a home near her gallery and she would have to go to therapy twice a week and of course, stay far away from him. I became her power of attorney. When she was in the hospital (in a coma due to taking a pack of benadryl) Tony, the therapist, called her cell at least 6 times a day saying weird things " honey you are in a coma i am standing over you, i must leave soon as your daughters are on the way down, i love you i will get to you again soon " this went on for at least a week, then he changed the locks on me so i couldnt feed her pets. it was awful. She agreed to let me get a restraining order against him and i did. It was very cool actually. he had 2 attorneys, i had none and the judge was very disgusted with the situation. Well of course after a few weeks or so, she wanted to see him again. forgiving him of all his indescretions (he asked my sister to get naked in therapy, he cheated on my mom with another client oh and of course all the nonsense he put me through when she was in the hospital) all forgiven! She met with him or talked to him through a 3rd party and wrote an affidavit to the court saying she never gave me permission to do this and now i have to go back to court on friday to face perjury charges as well as Tony is requesting to reverse the restraining order. At this point, i am nc. I will be probably forever. My aunt and uncle are evicting her. Its a mess. Anyway thats the shortest back story i can give. It was my b-day yesterday and my mom sent me this dumb card saying despite what i think she is doing this to protect me and she loves me very much and sent the book " adult children- secrets of dysfunctional families " My question is, has anyone read this book? I have no idea why she sent it. Does she think i am the one that needs help? Does she think that her and i are both products of dysfunction and we would both benefit from it?? I would like to know what its about and if any of you have read it. Because it was a gift from her, i would like to burn it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 I'm with you: FLAME IT! She wouldn't give it to you unless it supports her motives; it was probably suggested by her sicko therapist as a way to intimidate & cower you. Any chance of reporting him to the state ethics and/or licensing board? I did look up the book on Amazon. It appears to be focused more on adult children of alcoholics/addicts, and a guide to fixing YOUR OWN issues despite those of your parents. Hmmm. In one case I read randomly on the Amazonreader, the theme was to look to yourself when you can't put your finger on the problem since " it takes two to tango " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2007 Report Share Posted November 27, 2007 , you're the greatest! I never thought to check amazon comments... He has been reported to the state- by several people. He also has several malpractice suits against him. But don't talk to my Nada about it, she swears he is being railroaded and she even gave depositions for him and lied about all that she knew of these other clients. Re: adult children... I'm with you: FLAME IT! She wouldn't give it to you unless it supports her motives; it was probably suggested by her sicko therapist as a way to intimidate & cower you. Any chance of reporting him to the state ethics and/or licensing board? I did look up the book on Amazon. It appears to be focused more on adult children of alcoholics/addicts, and a guide to fixing YOUR OWN issues despite those of your parents. Hmmm. In one case I read randomly on the Amazonreader, the theme was to look to yourself when you can't put your finger on the problem since " it takes two to tango " . ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your home page. http://www.yahoo.com/r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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