Guest guest Posted November 2, 2007 Report Share Posted November 2, 2007 I'm trying to find the balance between reading meaning into everything my mother does now that I've discovered BPD and letting her just be normal sometimes. Does anyone else have this problem? Example: My parents were supposed to visit on Saturday. I got a call Wednesday from a horse stable that they could fit my daughter in for a lesson. This is the only thing my daughter wants to do is ride a horse and it's impossible to find a good teacher or get a lesson. It might be next year before we could get another lesson and I'm trying to get her involved with this stable. So I called nada and said they could still come, but it would need to be after 1 or wait a week. Of course, nada offered that they could go to the stable and watch the lesson. Be proud of me here, I said no and stuck to it. I don't really want my 5 year old on a huge horse feeling like she has to show off for her grandmother or my mother doing something distracting. This horse thing scares me to death on a good day!! So my nada said in a very friendly tone of voice, " Well of course this is more important than us. " During the conversation, I disregarded the comment. After when I thought about it, then I started thinking it was evil but I don't want to turn every comment into a loaded BP statement. Where's the balance? Was that comment normal? Thanks!! le Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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