Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 Jen, It's you WOMEN I so ENVY!!!!!!! I always make love to my Hubby even initiate it to try to keep him happy! HOWEVER sex has NEVER done anything for me. I had NEVER had a climax until AFTER my children were born and I was rubbing my legs with a vibrator one day and it got close and I had this weird feeling. Ended up checking out this feeling since it was a nice sensation. When I reached Orgasm it SCARED ME TO DEATH I thought I was dying!!!!!! I mean that literally! After I discovered I was going to live I decided that felt pretty good LMAO! Later I married my second husband and he was very good at oral sex something I had never experienced before and I learned to love it. My 3rd. Hubby had a golden hand! But other than these alternate means to reaching orgasm I have never enjoyed sex. The actual act of penetration does absolutely NOTHING AT ALL for me. :-( My Husband now is very inexperienced so unless it's the few times we use the vibrator at the same time as making love (Which is the ULTIMATE FOR ME) I am just a blow up doll that fakes it real well. I so envy you women that get natural enjoyment out of sex. I have to work for what I do get and most of the time it is just to exhausting to even be worth it. Even with the alternate means it is still very hard for me to reach climax. Do any other women have this problem???????? I have always wondered about this and never felt comfy talking about it! But decided since the conversation was open might as well jump in with both feet LOL! Love & God Bless! Rev./Wolf~(MOM)~(SIS)~Owner, Moderator or Member As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord!! ¸//// \\\\,_ ___________\*´º oº`* /__/ _/\_ _ ____\```)¨(´´´ | | | | | | | || |l±±±±|¸,.-*°´ ¸,.-*~*~*-.,¸ `°*- :º° *~*~*-..,¸ http://wolfpoet.homestead.com/BMMFFStore.html http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/CB_FMS-CFIDS_SUPPORT_GROUP/ http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Fibromyalgia_Support_Group/ WWW.WOLFPOET.COM http://groups.msn.com/BlessingMeadowsMinistryVirtualChurch http://groups.msn.com/BlessingMeadowsMinistrysWorldWidePrayerChain/_whatsnew.msnw Rev. Piercey-GatesP.O. Box 134Elkhart Lake, Wi. 53020(920)876-4041 I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe. "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up,just as in fact you are doing." 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails: IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT. HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 I am by no means a sex expert, but here is what I have found that works well for me. If you are having problems enjoying sex, try using the vibrator first and having an orgasm, then try having sex. I know i always enjoy the sex more after an initial orgasm. It also helps to produce lubrication that will help during sex, also you can try different positions. If you find one that works the best use it. I know personally for me, being on top works well for both of us. Luna --- FibroWolf wrote: > Jen, > > It's you WOMEN I so ENVY!!!!!!! I always make > love to my Hubby even initiate it to try to keep him > happy! HOWEVER sex has NEVER done anything for me. I > had NEVER had a climax until AFTER my children were > born and I was rubbing my legs with a vibrator one > day and it got close and I had this weird feeling. > Ended up checking out this feeling since it was a > nice sensation. When I reached Orgasm it SCARED ME > TO DEATH I thought I was dying!!!!!! I mean that > literally! After I discovered I was going to live I > decided that felt pretty good LMAO! Later I married > my second husband and he was very good at oral sex > something I had never experienced before and I > learned to love it. My 3rd. Hubby had a golden hand! > But other than these alternate means to reaching > orgasm I have never enjoyed sex. The actual act of > penetration does absolutely NOTHING AT ALL for me. > :-( My Husband now is very inexperienced so unless > it's the few times we use the vibrator at the same > time as making love (Which is the ULTIMATE FOR ME) I > am just a blow up doll that fakes it real well. I so > envy you women that get natural enjoyment out of > sex. I have to work for what I do get and most of > the time it is just to exhausting to even be worth > it. Even with the alternate means it is still very > hard for me to reach climax. Do any other women have > this problem???????? I have always wondered about > this and never felt comfy talking about it! But > decided since the conversation was open might as > well jump in with both feet LOL! > > Love & God Bless! > > Rev./Wolf~(MOM)~(SIS)~Owner, Moderator or > Member > > As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord!! > > > ¸//// \\\\,_ ___________\ > *´º oº`* /__/ _/\_ _ ____\ > ```)¨(´´´ | | | | | | | || |l±±±±| > ¸,.-*°´ ¸,.-*~*~* > -.,¸ `°*- :º° *~*~*-..,¸ > > > http://wolfpoet.homestead.com/BMMFFStore.html > > http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/CB_FMS-CFIDS_SUPPORT_GROUP/ > > http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Fibromyalgia_Support_Group/ > > WWW.WOLFPOET.COM > > http://groups.msn.com/BlessingMeadowsMinistryVirtualChurch > > http://groups.msn.com/BlessingMeadowsMinistrysWorldWidePrayerChain/_whatsnew.msn\ w > > Rev. Piercey-Gates > P.O. Box 134 > Elkhart Lake, Wi. > 53020 > (920)876-4041 > > I'm diagonally parked in a parallel universe. > > " Therefore encourage one another and build each > other up, > just as in fact you are doing. " > > 1 Thessalonians 5:11 > > Now as I always say this at the end of my e-mails: > > IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT. > > HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT. > > ===== Luna DragonStar www.GroveoftheGreatDragon.com " You see I can not be forsaken, because I'm not the only one " - Draiman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 ,Jen,Everyone.. I cannot believe I am answering this. But.. I am with on this.. unless I use an alternate method, intercourse does nothing for me.. my first husband. knew nothing about sex. my second was a maniac. he sure thought me a lot.. my third husband it great with oral..(sometimes) I miss our sex life.. it was pretty good. seems like a decade ago.. When we do manage to be intimate these day's it is horrible and I don't mean just pain.. there is no romance, no passion nothing.. I am like ..I sure can fake it. hey ya gotta do what ya gotta do..So yes some of us do have the same problem.. Gentle Hug's Marie Marie A. Roomsburg pretty_n_cute2002@... marieava@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2004 Report Share Posted December 1, 2004 reaching an orgasm has always been difficult for me and there are times it's just too much work. i do however enjoy the actual penetration and the act of intercourse, but it's like i'm numb down there or something, most times. Luv & Hugz, Lindy Lou"You can never be too rich, too thin or have enough Barbies! Jen, It's you WOMEN I so ENVY!!!!!!! I always make love to my Hubby even initiate it to try to keep him happy! HOWEVER sex has NEVER done anything for me. I had NEVER had a climax until AFTER my children were born and I was rubbing my legs with a vibrator one day and it got close and I had this weird feeling. Ended up checking out this feeling since it was a nice sensation. When I reached Orgasm it SCARED ME TO DEATH I thought I was dying!!!!!! I mean that literally! After I discovered I was going to live I decided that felt pretty good LMAO! Later I married my second husband and he was very good at oral sex something I had never experienced before and I learned to love it. My 3rd. Hubby had a golden hand! But other than these alternate means to reaching orgasm I have never enjoyed sex. The actual act of penetration does absolutely NOTHING AT ALL for me. :-( My Husband now is very inexperienced so unless it's the few times we use the vibrator at the same time as making love (Which is the ULTIMATE FOR ME) I am just a blow up doll that fakes it real well. I so envy you women that get natural enjoyment out of sex. I have to work for what I do get and most of the time it is just to exhausting to even be worth it. Even with the alternate means it is still very hard for me to reach climax. Do any other women have this problem???????? I have always wondered about this and never felt comfy talking about it! But decided since the conversation was open might as well jump in with both feet LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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