Guest guest Posted May 3, 2008 Report Share Posted May 3, 2008 thank you I feel/think that I lived a very hard family life. M by proxy was surely part of it but as you say there were BPD and narcissic aspects to my mother (still difficult to use nada) I'm so worried about being crazy in talking, our unspoken bond was not to ever,ever talk about her or I'd die. So here I am breaking the trust bond, thank you all so much for the support and understanding and respect. TC ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile.yahoo.com/;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2008 Report Share Posted May 7, 2008 To get rid of the secrets and the pain that goes with them. Same as lancing a boil. Re:M by Proxy Just ditto to what bink said. And, M by proxy was part of my m's treatment of me, too. And, yeah, all the comorbidity and different sorts of intense craziness working together (or separately) make it really hard to process. I wasn't ever supposed to talk about m, either. Her problems WERE the bond between us -- esp the " voices " she heard and her visions of evil things. According to her, those were psychic experiences that made her special, and I was never to reveal them to anyone. I still feel guilty and have only managed to tell one therapist about them. Why I am telling now I have no idea... Pea ------------ --------- --------- --- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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