Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 I know. Crazy, huh? LOLSharon [sPAM] Re: I'm back/headachesTo: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> I hope to be able to afford to go on another ABC drug, and I've > researched and it looks like I will try Copaxone if I'm ever > able to > go back on one.> > ~> ***> FWIW, I have had no side effects with Copaxone. I got a grant > via > NORD - if you call the manufacturer, they can get you the > paperwork. I > pay $50 every 3 months for the cold shipping.> Amy> > begin:vcardn:Rothschild; katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:914. 618.0061tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/org:http://www.allinone business. net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/adr:;;6 Spaulding Place;Ossining; NY;10562; USAemail;internet: katelloydkidz@ optonline. netemail;home;internet :katelloydkidz@ optonline. nettitle:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard Finding fabulous fares is fun.Let Yahoo! FareChase search your favorite travel sites to find flight and hotel bargains. Never miss an email again!Yahoo! Toolbar alerts you the instant new Mail arrives. Check it out. Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 You know I think y'all probably learned more about me today then in all the years we've been "together" Thanks Cassie, and Sharon, and n, and....and..and.... There are too many names...I love you all and you ARE my family now, the past is just that...past. Let's look to the future now. Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: Re: I'm back/headaches Im sorry Akiba.well,I know how happy you are with Rob and Robbin,I am so grateful you have a happy loving life.You deserve it! SO Sorry bout your mom.geezzz.im sayn sorry alot.sorry..lol..I jus didnt know all this and it is somewhat disturbing to know what you went through.But at least now you have a loving beautiful family that you love very much and who loves you back the same.including all us here.much luv to you akiba[akybacomcast (DOT) net] wrote:Mother was my best friend, and worst enemy, for 40 years. Until I met rob,and she lost "control" of me. I found out about the brain tumor from aletter she wrote me. It was the last time I heard from her.I don't think anyone else had/had MS.Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist!http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/http://www.solay-twinflames.com-------Original Message-------From: cassandra workmnDate: 3/9/2007 7:25:56 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Re: I'm back/headachesoh yea.Karma will get ya rite in the a**.You and your mom didnt getalong?she had a brain tumor?Does anyone in your family have ms?[akybacomcast (DOT) net] wrote:We think.....think.....that he might have also had a brain tumor. Funnything is, after my mother went "bad" on me, SHE had a brain tumor...there'sthat Karma thing again...Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist!http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/http://www.solay-twinflames.com-------Original Message-------From: cassandra workmnDate: 3/9/2007 6:40:14 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: Re: Re: I'm back/headachesIm sorry Akiba.I know what alcohol does to people,it can turn them intomonsters.Im sorry you had to go threw that.He tried to kill you? When I wasreading about this The movie Radio Flyer came to mind.I dont mean it in anaffensive way.Just that movie really impacted my life do u know this movie?Ihave seen it so many ti mes and everytime I cry.The dad was very abusive andthey had a dog.I remember thinking how sad people really have to go threwthis.broke my heart.Im so sorry you had to go threw that.You are a verystrong person.Thats awful what he did.He was sick? Alcoholism is a sicknessand a monster thankyou for sharing.[akybacomcast (DOT) net] wrote:He basically took his life by accident. He was a raging alcoholic. The boozechanged him, I guess, I say I guess since I never knew him not to drink,never knew him before, never knew the man my mother fell for and married. Ihad a restraining order out on him, he had tried to kill me. He wasdesperate to make me go to him, so he slit his wrist, one wrist, crossways.HE wanted to endd up in the hospital, to make me go to him. But he had abouta gallon of vodka in him, and it thinned his blood. He bled out. They founda lot of blood on the bed, but he was 1/2way to the door when they found himSo he did end up in the hospital, wrong room, though. But he had threatenedsuicide for years, used it to control us, and finally I think God said "Ok,I'm tired of this, come on, time's up." He used to take my shotgun and mydog and disappear for hours. When I asked him why he always took MY gun (itwas my Christmas gift, when I was 11, a reward for making marksman) he saidit was because it was the only one he could reach his mouth with. He took mydog just because he knew how much I loved that dog, a.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Very well said!! I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. I am glad you are stronger then your dad could ever be!!!! Akiba wrote: As the daughter of a suicide I will say...I thought my dad was a very strong man, he was, after all, a full Navy Commander. But he was also weak, and in the end, thought nothing of the guilt he would leave as his legacy, but only of taking the coward's way out. For years I went through the "if only's"... You know, if only I had been a better daughter. If only I had been a son. Well, now I realize...if only he had been a better dad I might have been a better daughter. It wasn't my fault, but I took that guilt within for years and it damaged me. It took over 20 years for me to realize that. It has been almost 30 years now. I'm better, insofar as I never think about it anymore, and when I *do* think about him it is to think he would have loved his grandson...my son...so even though I was not the son he always wanted, if he had hung around a few more years, he would have had a grandson to spoil (like he never spoiled me, ever) Example, my sisters both got cars for their 18th birthday. I got a lighted beauty mirror. And Now of the three girls I'm the ONLY one to have a child, and it was a son! Makes one believe in Karma. Ok, I'm rambling now...just remember, suicide ain't all it's cracked up to be. It doesn't make it all go away. It is ugly and painful. And I believe you take your problems with you and will have to deal with them all over again next time. And Yes, I do believe there is a next time. So I try to resolve issues this time, so I don't have to deal with them next time, and I try to learn the lessons this time, so I don't have to deal with them next time. Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: Re: I'm back/headaches thats so sad..How could anyone do that to themselves,and their family? Very sad.I know people get depressed or sad but its even sadder when they do kill themselves before asking for help..I will fight for my life till the day I die.I feel so bad for any family that has to grieve a loss any way,let alone by suicide.Sorry to all the families here that have had to grieve a loss of someone they loved that have died by suicide.My deepest sympathy's....hugzzz,cassy[wobbletowalk] wrote:And one of my nephews killed himself when he was in his 20s. It's left his brothers, sisters, parents and other family members grieving forever. love..Sharon Re: I'm back/headaches>> I feel like what is the point of going on? Kathi>****The point of going on is that fundamentally life is good. Some parts of life, at various times, stink. My child has a disorder which went undiagnosed for many years. She lived in severe pain until age 9. Her life now is great. If she had given up then, she wouldn't have now.The point of going on is that other people in your life want you and need you. If that's not true, then you need to find people to be in your life who do.Sorry today is so hard. Hugs, AmyNeed Mail bonding?Go to the Yahoo! Mail Q & A for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users..... Always, Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eyes. -H. Brown, Jr. Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 your an angel Akiba.much love to you! Hugz,cassy [akyba@...] wrote: You know I think y'all probably learned more about me today then in all the years we've been " together " Thanks Cassie, and Sharon, and n, and....and..and.... There are too many names...I love you all and you ARE my family now, the past is just that ...past. Let's look to the future now. Peace and Blessings ~*~ Akiba ~*~ Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: Re: I'm back/headaches Im sorry Akiba.I know what alcohol does to people,it can turn them into monsters.Im sorry you had to go threw that.He tried to kill you? When I was reading about this The movie Radio Flyer came to mind.I dont mean it in an affensive way.Just that movie really impacted my life do u know this movie?I have seen it so many ti mes and everytime I cry.The dad was very abusive and they had a dog.I remember thinking how sad people really have to go threw this.broke my heart.Im so sorry you had to go threw that.You are a very strong person.Thats awful what he did.He was sick? Alcoholism is a sickness and a monster thankyou for sharing. [akyba@...] wrote: He basically took his life by accident. He was a raging.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Yes, there are better things to dwell on here. Like our spasms, vertigo, etc. (just joking I hope you have a great weekend Akiba. love..Sharon Re: Re: I'm back/headachesIm sorry Akiba.I know what alcohol does to people,it can turn them intomonsters.Im sorry you had to go threw that.He tried to kill you? When I wasreading about this The movie Radio Flyer came to mind.I dont mean it in anaffensive way.Just that movie really impacted my life do u know this movie?Ihave seen it so many ti mes and everytime I cry.The dad was very abusive andthey had a dog.I remember thinking how sad people really have to go threwthis.broke my heart.Im so sorry you had to go threw that.You are a verystrong person.Thats awful what he did.He was sick? Alcoholism is a sicknessand a monster thankyou for sharing.[akybacomcast (DOT) net] wrote:He basically took his life by accident. He was a raging alcoholic. The boozechanged him, I guess, I say I guess since I never knew him not to drink,never knew him before, never knew the man my mother fell for and married. Ihad a restraining order out on him, he had tried to kill me. He wasdesperate to make me go to him, so he slit his wrist, one wrist, crossways.HE wanted to endd up in the hospital, to make me go to him. But he had abouta gallon of vodka in him, and it thinned his blood. He bled out. They founda lot of blood on the bed, but he was 1/2way to the door when they found himSo he did end up in the hospital, wrong room, though. But he had threatenedsuicide for years, used it to control us, and finally I think God said "Ok,I'm tired of this, come on, time's up." He used to take my shotgun and mydog and disappear for hours. When I asked him why he always took MY gun (itwas my Christmas gift, when I was 11, a reward for making marksman) he saidit was because it was the only one he could reach his mouth with. He took mydog just because he knew how much I loved that dog, a.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 I have a son in Albany, NY and his two sons live in RI with their mother and I have a daughter in North Carolina with her husband and three beautiful daughters (my 3 granddaughters are so special to me...probably because my daughter has helped me stay in touch with them). So, none of my kids and grandkids are nearby....I'm in MI. Kathi Re: I'm back/headaches>> I feel like what is the point of going on? Kathi>****The point of going on is that fundamentally life is good. Some parts of life, at various times, stink. My child has a disorder which went undiagnosed for many years. She lived in severe pain until age 9. Her life now is great. If she had given up then, she wouldn't have now.The point of going on is that other people in your life want you and need you. If that's not true, then you need to find people to be in your life who do.Sorry today is so hard. Hugs, AmyNeed Mail bonding?Go to the Yahoo! Mail Q & A for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users..... Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Free Edition.Version: 7.5.441 / Virus Database: 268.18.2/692 - Release Date: 2/18/2007 4:35 PM Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Free Edition.Version: 7.5.441 / Virus Database: 268.18.2/692 - Release Date: 2/18/2007 4:35 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2007 Report Share Posted March 14, 2007 Cassy, WOW your sister had a baby at 15, I have a 14 year old and think of her as a kid, its hard to think they think and have sex at these ages now. Baby's born to babies have a lot of chances to have health problems. My only G-child is just now 19 months old and when I found out my 18 year old was pregnant I was happy but a little sad cause she was letting her education go down the drain. Not only cause of that but because she had no inspirationto want more from life, I can't imagine how guilty I would feel if she had been 15. I heard but don't know if it is true.... pregnancy puts MS in a regression state? Maybe having another baby would be good for you. LOL But then you have the 18 years of MS but 9 months of regression. Just a thought, . cassandra workmn wrote: Hey .thanks for sharing.I laughed when you said your dad sayd all he had to do was put his shoes under your moms side of the bed.lol..There is 5 of us and we have alot of love from a big fam.Must be kinda cool to have 10 of you..Your mom has been threw alot.what a fighter,must run in the family. My mom was 18 when she had me.I was 16! Ya 16! Lol.when I had my oldest,my youngest is 3.wish I could have more kids but am to sick rite now but if I can get better enough to have another I will.I want a little boy My youngest sibling is 15,and she jus had a baby.She was 3 mons premature.Was a long scary road with this one but shes good now and will be going home soon. Im terrified about what I may end up havn.each doc thinks its worse than the last.But I hide alot of that from my fam,im so grateful to have all of you,so I dont have to bottle it all inside..take care.big hugzz,cassy[lastinline10] wrote:Yeah, the youngest of 10, my oldest sister is 19 years older then me. I am only 18 years older then my oldest daughter. My mom was 16 when she had the first and 36 when she had me. Dad use to say all he had to do was put his shoes under moms side of the bed and she got pregnant...LOL. I worrie more about my family too, ever since I came back from my visit, in July. I just hate for them to think the worse. I think it is much easier on me to know how the day is then for them to "think" how my day is. Love them all............. we lost dad 11 years ago, and mom is in her late 70's. When anyone calls they always say "have you called mom today? you should she worries about you alot". No matter how much I tell her I am okay she knows MS and worries when I am just tired from doing something. She worries me, she has had to have a colostumy from colon cancer and she has had 2 heart by-passes. She doesn't need to worried about me. I tell her all the time, "you raised me to be a fighter and MS has a battle when it comes at me" she always laughs. Hope they find yours soon, (whatever it is) it is just "peaceful" when you have a name for it. Thought I'd share. cassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:wow katie.there is 10 siblings? Thats alot of love! I KNOW it is sad When my family hears of these diseases the docs think I have it just kills them.They are so worried.I am more worried about how it is effecting them not to know then it is me.I have accepted the fact that I am very sick,but for them to see me this sick really scares them and I dont want them to be scared. My 9 yr.old is very confused,I dont know what is wrong with me,so I cant tell her,my youngest is 3 and I have been sick about 2 mons after I had her so its all she really knows but my 9 yr.old just wants me to get better so we can go back to "normal". all I can do is explain the best I can but it is hard without knowing.It is awesome though to be surrounded by love.hugzz,cassy[lastinline10] wrote:I agree, my family, mom, sisters and brothers call me more (alot more) then they ever did in the past. When I went to a nephews wedding last July I was greeted with tear filed eyes by most of my family. I live in Oklahoma and they live in Illinoise. Most of them haven't seen me since the DX in Dec of 04. One brother offered to carry my up his steps to his house. I can still walk, (sometimes with a cane). I cryed cause it has affected them this way. By the way I am the youngest of 10 and the only only DXed with anything like this. Most of my family is in the medical field in one way or another so they were thinking the worst even though I tell them I am fine. It really hurts to know they are hurt by my MS.But it is nice to know how much I am loved!!!! cassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote: That is so sad..I am glad you went to see her anyway Sharon.Im sure that this is more of a benefit for our new members..It is not likely we will.... Always, Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eyes. -H. Brown, Jr. Finding fabulous fares is fun.Let Yahoo! FareChase search your favorite travel sites to find flight and hotel bargains. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2007 Report Share Posted March 14, 2007 If only.lol..they say ms is ruled out so no babys.lol..I had my first daughter at 16,my dad was furious he wanted me to let my daughter live with them wile I went to school.ya right I went back to college it was a little hard cuz I had to do so much studying and had a little one,but I was with her dad so I had help.Yea.I dont know what my sis was thinkn.She got bacterial vaginosis when she was pregnant.She went into premature labor cuz this,and im sure being so young contributed.Shes a good mommy,she had a baby and now she dosnt have time to be a kid.but thats what happens.shes with the dad,but hes a teenager to.so will see what happens.I think ill lock my girls up when they hit teenage hood.lol..lol... [lastinline10@...] wrote: Cassy, WOW your sister had a baby at 15, I have a 14 year old and think of her as a kid, its hard to think they think and have sex at these ages now. Baby's born to babies have a lot of chances to have health problems. My only G-child is just now 19 months old and when I found out my 18 year old was pregnant I was happy but a little sad cause she was letting her education go down the drain. Not only cause of that but because she had no inspiration to want more from life, I can't imagine how guilty I would feel if she had been 15. I heard but don't know if it is true.... pregnancy puts MS in a regression state? Maybe having another baby would be good for you. LOL But then you have the 18 years of MS but 9 months of regression. Just a thought, . cassandra workmn wrote: Hey .thanks for sharing.I laughed when you said your dad sayd all he had to do was put his shoes under your moms side of the bed.lol..There is 5 of us and we have alot of love from a big fam.Must be kinda cool to have 10 of you..Your mom has been threw alot.what a fighter,must run in the family. My mom was 18 when she had me.I was 16! Ya 16! Lol.when I had my oldest,my youngest is 3.wish I could have more kids but am to sick rite now but if I can get better enough to have another I will.I want a little boy My youngest sibling is 15,and she jus had a baby.She was 3 mons premature.Was a long scary road with this one but shes good now and will be going home soon. Im terrified about what I may end up havn.each doc thinks its worse than the last.But I hide alot of that from my fam,im so grateful to have all of you,so I dont have to bottle it all inside..take care.big hugzz,cassy [lastinline10@...] wrote: Yeah, the youngest of 10, my oldest sister is 19 years older then me. I am only 18 years older then my oldest daughter. My mom was 16 when she had the first and 36 when she had me. Dad use to say all he had to do was put his shoes under moms side of the bed and she got pregnant...LOL. I worrie more about my family too, ever since I came back from my visit, in July. I just hate for them to think the worse. I think it is much easier on me to know how the day is then for them to " think " how my day is. Love them all............. we lost dad 11 years ago, and mom is in her late 70's. When anyone calls they always say " have you called mom today? you should she worries about you alot " . No matter how much I tell her I am okay she knows MS and worries when I am just tired from doing something. She worries me, she has had to have a colostumy from colon cancer and she has had 2 heart by-passes. She doesn't need to worried about me. I tell her all the time, " you raised me to be a fighter and MS has a battle when it comes at me " she always laughs. Hope they find yours soon, (whatever it is) it is just " peaceful " when you have a name for it. Thought I'd share. cassandra workmn wrote: wow katie.there is 10.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Thanks so much, she is only 19 months now. I can't help but think her mom is missing out on so much with her. It really makes me sad, she is such a great baby. I will post some more pics on here of her soon. Thanks again, Trista wrote: , your grand daughter is blessed to have you. My gma made the difference in my life, in how I turned out. Take care, Trista Re: Re: I'm back/headaches Cassy, yeah I am thinking of locking my 14 year old up too (now) It is so hard to think that she thinks of sex. But we are pretty open about the subject and she has 2 older sisters that she can talk to about anything too. I am glad your sis is a good mom. I am almost raising our 19 month grand daughter, we have her most nights and all days. Her mom is almost 21 and still acts like she is 13 sometimes. The dad is with my daughter he is 29 and has 2 other kids by 2 other girls...... never married any of them. My daughter e is with him for a few months then they are "broken up" but still living in the same house. They have been evicted from every apartment and house they have had in the past 3 years. I evicted them from our rent house cause they had a dog and 2 cats and would let them poop on the floor where ever they where. I gave them ever chance in the world to clean up the house and clean up their own messes but they didnt so I told them to find them some place else to distroy. Sorry I get to thinking and just type... sorry this is so long. LOL, <payngabby72> wrote: If only.lol..they say ms is ruled out so no babys.lol..I had my first daughter at 16,my dad was furious he wanted me to let my daughter live with them wile I went to school.ya right I went back to college it was a little hard cuz I had to do so much studying and had a little one,but I was with her dad so I had help.Yea.I dont know what my sis was thinkn.She got bacterial vaginosis when she was pregnant.She went into premature labor cuz this,and im sure being so young contributed.Shes a good mommy,she had a baby and now she dosnt have time to be a kid.but thats what happens.shes with the dad,but hes a teenager to.so will see what happens.I think ill lock my girls up when they hit teenage hood.lol..lol...[lastinline10] wrote:Cassy, WOW your sister had a baby at 15, I have a 14 year old and think of her as a kid, its hard to think they think and have sex at these ages now. Baby's born to babies have a lot of chances to have health problems. My only G-child is just now 19 months old and when I found out my 18 year old was pregnant I was happy but a little sad cause she was letting her education go down the drain. Not only cause of that but because she had no inspirationto want more from life, I can't imagine how guilty I would feel if she had been 15. I heard but don't know if it is true.... pregnancy puts MS in a regression state? Maybe having another baby would be good for you. LOL But then you have the 18 years of MS but 9 months of regression. Just a thought, .cassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:Hey .thanks for sharing.I laughed when you said your dad sayd all he had to do was put his shoes under your moms side of the bed.lol..There is 5 of us and we have alot of love from a big fam.Must be kinda cool to have 10 of you..Your mom has been threw alot.what a fighter,must run in the family. My mom was 18 when she had me.I was 16! Ya 16! Lol.when I had my oldest,my youngest is 3.wish I could have more kids but am to sick rite now but if I can get better enough to have another I will.I want a little boy My youngest sibling is 15,and she jus had a baby.She was 3 mons premature.Was a long scary road with this one but shes good now and will be going home soon. Im terrified about what I may end up havn.each doc thinks its worse than the last.But I hide alot of that from my fam,im so grateful to have all of you,so I dont have to bottle it all inside..take care.big hugzz,cassy[lastinline10] wrote:Yeah, the youngest of 10, my oldest sister is 19 years older then me. I am only 18 years older then my oldest daughter. My mom was 16 when she had the first and 36 when she had me. Dad use to say all he had to do was put his shoes under moms side of the bed and she got pregnant...LOL. I worrie more about my family too, ever since I came back from my visit, in July. I just hate for them to think the worse. I think it is much easier on me to know how the day is then for them to "think" how my day is. Love them all............. we lost dad 11 years ago, and mom is in her late 70's. When anyone calls they always say "have you called mom today? you should she worries about you alot". No matter how much I tell her I am okay she knows MS and worries when I am just tired from doing something. She worries me, she has had to have a colostumy from colon cancer and she has had 2 heart by-passes. She doesn't need to worried about me. I tell her all the time, "you raised me to be a fighter and MS has a battle when it comes at me" she always laughs. Hope they find yours soon, (whatever it is) it is just "peaceful" when you have a name for it. Thought I'd share. cassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:wow katie.there is 10.... Always, Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eyes. -H. Brown, Jr. Get your own web address.Have a HUGE year through Yahoo! Small Business. Always, Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eyes. -H. Brown, Jr. Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2007 Report Share Posted March 19, 2007 Hey .wow.I hope your daughter appreciates all you do for her.My ma was lucky with us girls cuz even though we were so young when we had are babies we knew it was time to grow up.Even threw all our trials you know breakn up with our boyfriends are kids always stayed with us.So how do you guys do with havn your grand baby all the time? IS it like your the mom and she visits with her?or does she have her alot to? MY old boss's daughter use to be this way,we were good friends,not any more though.She never had her daughter,it was like her mom was her daughters mom.She always took her to school and stayed with her,and her mom would only have her once in a great wile.It broke mh heart cuz the little girl would always wanna be with her grandma and not her mom,cuz thats what she was use to,and probably alsi cuz her g ma was more like a mom to her.took better care of her and stuff.My sis is mature but not as mature as me and my other sis were when we had are babies.were all hopn she can do this.hugz,cassy [lastinline10@...] wrote: Cassy, yeah I am thinking of locking my 14 year old up too (now) It is so hard to think that she thinks of sex. But we are pretty open about the subject and she has 2 older sisters that she can talk to about anything too. I am glad your sis is a good mom. I am almost raising our 19 month grand daughter, we have her most nights and all days. Her mom is almost 21 and still acts like she is 13 sometimes. The dad is with my daughter he is 29 and has 2 other kids by 2 other girls...... never married any of them. My daughter e is with him for a few months then they are " broken up " but still living in the same house. They have been evicted from every apartment and house they have had in the past 3 years. I evicted them from our rent house cause they had a dog and 2 cats and would let them poop on the floor where ever they where. I gave them ever chance in the world to clean up the house and clean up their own messes but they didnt so I told them to find them some place else to distroy. Sorry I get to thinking and just type... sorry this is so long. LOL, wrote: If only.lol..they say ms is ruled out so no babys.lol..I had my first daughter at 16,my dad was furious he wanted me to let my daughter live with them wile I went to school.ya right I went back to college it was a little hard cuz I had to do so much studying and had a little one,but I was with her dad so I had help.Yea.I dont know what my sis was thinkn.She got bacterial vaginosis when she was pregnant.She went into premature labor cuz this,and im sure being so young contributed.Shes a good mommy,she had a baby and now she dosnt have time to be a kid.but thats what happens.shes with the dad,but hes a teenager to.so will see what happens.I think ill lock my girls up when they hit teenage hood.lol..lol... [lastinline10@...] wrote: Cassy, WOW your sister had a baby at 15, I have a 14 year old and think of her as a kid, its hard to think they think and have sex at these ages now. Baby's born to babies have a lot of chances to have health problems. My only G-child is just now 19 months old and when I found out my 18 year old was pregnant I was happy but a little sad cause she was letting her education go down the drain. Not only cause of that but because she had no inspiration to want more from life, I can't imagine how guilty I would feel if she had been 15. I heard but don't know if it is true.... pregnancy puts MS in a regression state? Maybe having another baby would be good for you. LOL But then you have the 18 years of MS but 9 months of regression. Just a thought, . cassandra workmn wrote: Hey .thanks for sharing.I laughed when you said your dad sayd all he had to do was put his shoes under your moms side of the bed.lol..There is 5 of us and we have alot of love from a big fam.Must be kinda cool to have 10 of you..Your mom has been threw alot.what a fighter,must run in the family. My mom was 18 when she.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.