Re: at last, forgiveness-tiki-rhythm

[Guest guest]

Nor am I there yet either rhythm... I'm still tip-toeing through the

muck - which is a step ahead of dancing around it and a step behind

splashing right on through. But, yes... I do believe we can

forgive...eventually. But most important - I don't think the

forgiveness is really for THEM ... it is actually for US... to be

able to let go of the baggage and walk unencumbered.

And maybe we all do that in different ways. Some people might let go

of the baggage when it just gets too darn heavy to lug around that it

wears them down. Others might whittle away at the baggage until it

can fit into a carry-on - and then just leave that at the airport.

Maybe we all keep a little fanny-pack, just in case.

I don't know either. I'm still in the muck.. but I do enjoy sounding

philosophical..lol

Free

> free spirit & tiki -- are you saying eventually you learn to forgive

> the abuser/abusers? I'm glad you could do that -- sounds like a

> healthy thing to do. I am no where near that right now. I still feel

> like confronting everyone involved -- not that it would change

> anything. I'm not going to act, but I think about it a lot. Damn,

this

> is hard.

>

> ~the beat goes on

[Guest guest]

oh goodness, I just looked around me and realized that I too am stuck in the

muck! And the little things jumping around look like fleas!! I really am in a

funk, trying to fight it and unsure what has brought it on. I'm functional, but

that's about it. bummer, i'm heading for the st. johns wort.

free_spirit_etc wrote:Nor am I there yet either

rhythm... I'm still tip-toeing through the

muck - which is a step ahead of dancing around it and a step behind

splashing right on through. But, yes... I do believe we can

forgive...eventually. But most important - I don't think the

forgiveness is really for THEM ... it is actually for US... to be

able to let go of the baggage and walk unencumbered.

And maybe we all do that in different ways. Some people might let go

of the baggage when it just gets too darn heavy to lug around that it

wears them down. Others might whittle away at the baggage until it

can fit into a carry-on - and then just leave that at the airport.

Maybe we all keep a little fanny-pack, just in case.

I don't know either. I'm still in the muck.. but I do enjoy sounding

philosophical..lol

Free

> free spirit & tiki -- are you saying eventually you learn to forgive

> the abuser/abusers? I'm glad you could do that -- sounds like a

> healthy thing to do. I am no where near that right now. I still feel

> like confronting everyone involved -- not that it would change

> anything. I'm not going to act, but I think about it a lot. Damn,

this

> is hard.

>

> ~the beat goes on

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