Nadas and gifts

[Guest guest]

said: What is hers is hers and

if she gives you anything, it is still hers.

Yup. I had stressed wanting my father's mother's silver many years ago. I have

asked them for nothing. I said I would never refer to it again. When I was

diagnosed with cancer my Nada, in a grand display said she was giving me that

silver. It was never delivered. She brought me back a " keepsake " from my

grandmother's funeral 15 yrs ago. I have yet to see it.

When I bought this home we are in, I ended up with an extra washer. I knew she

had her eyes on it for " some day " . Sure enough, when my father was ill, her

washer broke. My attitude was, hey, sis has lived at home all these years scott

free (I left home when I was 19) you have bought her nearly a dozen automobiles,

it's time for her to show some responsibility and get you a washer. Well, I

predicted nada would make my ill father call me and sure enough, he called and

said " your mother tells me you have a washer you want to get rid of " after I

told her I didn't want to get rid of it. FOG! Say it again. FOG. So, I

relenquished the washer, while sis was taking an out of state guest out to a

lavish dinner.

This twistedness is more of the enmeshment and the " place " they pick for you

(us). Sis was the baby, I was the " fixerer savior " . I was the little whore. I

was the nut I was the drunk I was the unstable, unappreciative one, the one that

made her sick, you know all of it...... Cindatrompalina - rehashing oz