Re: Sibling issues (CathyM)

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Yes, that is so right. I get extremely mad at myself for not standing up to

them and for letting them control my actions or if not control my actions,

dominate my thoughts...

Kath

Sibling issues

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> >I was grateful to read the messages today about sibling issues with

great

> >interest and understanding. Unless you are there,everyone has advice but

no

> >one seems to understand. I am currently caring for my LBD mom 24/7,

dealing

> >with docs, meds, trying to find resources ect. in addition to carrying

the

> >financial burdens of her and her dying husband (not my father). I have a

> >sister and brother who think they are doing it all and have a great way

of

> >making me feel guitly when I complain or get depressed.

> >

> >Well, after identifying with so many of your posts, I realized that ,

> >the thing that upsets me most about the sibling issue is that I am so

> >deeply

> >disappointed in them as people and as siblings.

> >

> >

> >

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I understand. I think a big part of it is that we are not confrontational

people. We want to avoid the confrontation and just keep things running

smooth.

M

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>Yes, that is so right. I get extremely mad at myself for not standing up

>to

>them and for letting them control my actions or if not control my actions,

>dominate my thoughts...

>

>Kath

> Sibling issues

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> > >I was grateful to read the messages today about sibling issues with

>great

> > >interest and understanding. Unless you are there,everyone has advice

>but

>no

> > >one seems to understand. I am currently caring for my LBD mom 24/7,

>dealing

> > >with docs, meds, trying to find resources ect. in addition to carrying

>the

> > >financial burdens of her and her dying husband (not my father). I have

>a

> > >sister and brother who think they are doing it all and have a great way

>of

> > >making me feel guitly when I complain or get depressed.

> > >

> > >Well, after identifying with so many of your posts, I realized that ,

> > >the thing that upsets me most about the sibling issue is that I am so

> > >deeply

> > >disappointed in them as people and as siblings.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

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